Anandi is not Dudh Ka dhula

Anandi is not "Dudh Ka Dhula"

Before starting the topic let me make certain things very clear. People I always have been a great admirer of the iconic character named Anandi. A character which represents epitome of Indian beauty in every sense.

In the current track that I read now-a-days (I stopped watching BV after Prat's exit) I feel many are feeling too bad for her plight at KB. However do you feel that she is all innocent and being a victim with no fault of hers?

Sometimes a human being's foolishness does not show repercussions immediately but with time and there are many blunders that she did. I would not say that; what she did was illogical completely as I myself have seen many people around me who continue relationship (even if in verbal) with their ex-partner (be it gir/boy friend or ex-husband/wife) after getting into a new relationship (live-in or marriage).

Forget India, even in the western world people do not like their partners' behavior under such scenarios. It's my question to you all viewers. How many of you would tolerate your husbands/wives still keeping contact and talk goody goody with their ex? Be practical people, none of us would like it.

Initially Shiv seemed too heavenly, even going one step forward he released Jagdish from jail and even hugged him. However he too is a human being. At some corner of his mind, though he knows his Anandi loves only him; but he also might be thinking that I did some EHSAAN in marrying her or "I am allowing her to retain relationship with her ex; I am different and MAHAAN".

So when this complex relationship brought more complexities in their lives; their own relationship is at stake.

The bottom-line of the story is; only being nice does not work in an intimate relationship like husband-wife. You have to apply little common-sense and even politics as well. She should know whom to speak to and whom not to. People like Sanchi and Ira are pretty easy to manage; just ignore them and do your own work. That would keep them under control.

People like Shiv who are always into work need their own space as well; so she needs to know when to initiate romance and when not to.