Is Apurva really that bad?!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Honestly, I've seen many posts about the hatred towards him because he apparently 'provoked' Andy to respond to Armaan.

I don't think that's the case. Apurva was telling him to respond on his face so that he won't bother him again. That's normal. Andy was being picked on by Armaan all day, Armaan said it himself when he had calmed down, and Apurva was just telling him to stick up for himself!

Back in school days we were always taught that if someone is bullying you stick up for yourself, 9 times out of 10, they'll back off. I see no difference in this case.

Apurva was just trying to build Andy's confidence considering he was distressed by Armaan's constant name calling.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Apoo got changed after coming to heaven...
N shilpa is such a stupid when andy abuse arman's father den stupid says its normal...i dnt like arman or andy bt in dis case Shilpa showsher real stupid part...
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Originally posted by: 220420

Apoo got changed after coming to heaven...
N shilpa is such a stupid when andy abuse arman's father den stupid says its normal...i dnt like arman or andy bt in dis case Shilpa showsher real stupid part...



I just think he came out of his shell. We saw a strike of his anger once in hell side but Shilpa was like 'baby don't be gussa, no gusse' 😆

Yh I agree, calling someone names especially towards family is wrong, Shilpa was wrong, but if you think about it, Andy was clearly upset since the morning and lost his temper. Armaan was asking for it with his pathetic attitude. But Andy did admit he shouldn't of said that, and also it was a slip of his tongue due to his anger.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettyasjen


Honestly, I've seen many posts about the hatred towards him because he apparently 'provoked' Andy to respond to Armaan.

I don't think that's the case. Apurva was telling him to respond on his face so that he won't bother him again. That's normal. Andy was being picked on by Armaan all day, Armaan said it himself when he had calmed down, and Apurva was just telling him to stick up for himself!

Back in school days we were always taught that if someone is bullying you stick up for yourself, 9 times out of 10, they'll back off. I see no difference in this case.

Apurva was just trying to build Andy's confidence considering he was distressed by Armaan's constant name calling.


i agree...it is shilpa who is thali ka baingan
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pr1yanka



<font face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" size="3" color="#3300ff">i agree...it is shilpa who is thali ka baingan</font>



😆 I was surprised Shilpa said she didn't find 'tu, tere baap' abusive/swearing
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Posted: 11 years ago
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1st of all apu said to andy 'if that person misbehaving with u then give him back then next time onwards he will think twice before saying anything. he even said that after this u will feel better .there is no wrong in the statement. armaan continuously bullying andy & he comes to the heaven side & discharge his anger. & when armaan-andy is arguing apu cant inter-vent & start fighting with armaan. but anytime he can say what he like or not like to andy.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: 220420

Apoo got changed after coming to heaven...
N shilpa is such a stupid when andy abuse arman's father den stupid says its normal...i dnt like arman or andy bt in dis case Shilpa showsher real stupid part...


apu is not changed . even when he was in hell he got annoyed with kamiya for not taking part in luxury budget. that time also he said something like 'tel lagene jaye' .but no one said anything that time. apu is a person who needs to get time to open up & BB is a house where everyone gets hyper & its have nothing to do with coming in heaven side.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: poo_s

1st of all apu said to andy 'if that person misbehaving with u then give him back then next time onwards he will think twice before saying anything. he even said that after this u will feel better .there is no wrong in the statement. armaan continuously bullying andy & he comes to the heaven side & discharge his anger. & when armaan-andy is arguing apu cant inter-vent & start fighting with armaan. but anytime he can say what he like or not like to andy.



Apu didn't intervene, he spoke to Andy after the argument.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettyasjen



Apu didn't intervene, he spoke to Andy after the argument.


no no I ddint said that. I said apu cant inter vent between two person when they r fighting.but apu spoke to andy before & after the argument. I think apu was right . if armaan has right to say B, C D to anyone ..then so does anyone have right to say anything to him .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: poo_s


no no I ddint said that. I said apu cant inter vent between two person when they r fighting.but apu spoke to andy before & after the argument. I think apu was right . if armaan has right to say B, C D to anyone ..then so does anyone have right to say anything to him .



Oh ok, sorry I misunderstood

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