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Posted: 12 years ago
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On the one hand they say anandi is stupid, not smart and on the otherhand the same they expect her to do everything right. How can a stupid person do everything right?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

for me the present Jagya is much better than present Shiv.

for me anandi is silly and confused and always in trouble. Thats it. Nothing more and nothing less.

The problem with anandi is her approach towards shekhars is the same as the one towards the singhs...

singhs and shekhars are completely different set of people. Therir lifestyle, thinking and all is diffrent.

So in a given situation you cannot apply the same formula that you used previously for the singhs...

to treat diabetes one cannot use the medication for pneumonia..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovesunshine

The problem with anandi is her approach towards shekhars is the same as the one towards the singhs...

singhs and shekhars are completely different set of people. Therir lifestyle, thinking and all is diffrent.

So in a given situation you cannot apply the same formula that you used previously for the singhs...

to treat diabetes one cannot use the medication for pneumonia..



As I said earlier if we accept anandi as stupid, then her applying the same medicine for everything does not arise. anandi is not smart enough to know that shekhars and singhs are not the same.

Let us expect something smart from the smartpants. To make things right and shining.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Humans are also endowed with some animal qualities. some are like dogs, some are like donkeys, some are like tigers, some are like monkeys, some are like foxes.

Anandi can belong to donkey class.

Sumitra belongs to tigress class. ferocious.

Shiv and Jagya are like dogs faithful and protective whomever they want to choose to protect.

Some are like monkeys mischievous and troubling. sanchi?

Some are like foxes like sanchi very foxy.

Some are like elephants, dignified and awesome like Bhairon.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I would say the main problem is sanchi and how the shekkars deal with her, everytime sanchi does something wrong its a quick slap on wrist and then back to pandering her and saying bachi makes mistakes but how many mistakes will she make. If the shekkars can't rail sanchi in then I don't hold out hope for anandi, she may confront her from time to time but she never tells the shekkars sanchi's deeds unless the situation get so bad. She also hides sanchi's deeds but then again she can't keep complaining about sanchi to the family because it seems like she has the problem and not sanchi. The shekkars know very well what their daughter is like but they are very quick to blame others when really it's their upbringing that should be question. The shekkars never learn and thats why sanchi is the way she is.
Dadisa cares more for anandi than anyone hence her hesitation towards Ganga, yes she prefers Ganga as jagya's wife but because the mess anandi is in because of this decision she can't be seen to accept Ganga.

Sumitra has her own problems shes been sheltered and can't recognise good or bad people she takes buttering up by sanchi as nice and respect towards her that nobody else gives her when really nobody can be that nice without a motive. Ganga may speak truth sometimes and Sumitra can't handle it and takes it as an insult. Same thing for anyone else who tried to warn against sanchi. She even cut anandi down when she said she not fit for Singhs.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves


No husband appreciates if wifey goes on telling that your sister did this, did that every alternate day in the name of truth. she will be labelled as chuglikhor.

I'm sorry I don't agree with that.
My perception is that chugli is something done with malicious intent, spite, and intention to defame someone in someone else's eyes.
Telling shiv about saanchi can also be done in a matter of fact way with the intention of informing/reporting. The intention in giving the information is to prevent bigger messes from being made in the future. Also, the situation has to be seen as to whether the information is preventing harm or damage in the future.
I think shiv has the common sense to understand the difference between a chuglikhor wife and a wife looking out for the best interests of his sister.

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