DOTW: Value of Friendship and marriage

Value of Friendship and marriages...

hey eveyone its my turn to do the DOTW...here is brief of what has happend this week. Sorry if i missed anythin as cuz of school i missed a few epis sorry for any mistakes...

Alot of major events have taken place...Padma is on her deathbed when niyati n shourya come as a married couple...padma dies in shock..n pain when seein niyati n shourya married...shattering Niyati and the whole Rathore family....the funeral takes place...and sadness surrounds Niyati when standing by her grandmother's ashes Angi comes and confess his love for her...shockin Niyati...Angi tells Niyati that shouyra doesn't love her and that she should leave him. Niyati bein the loyal wife and friend that she is gives him a tight slap n leaves...Niyati goes to shouyra n convinces him to go n tell the truth to everyone as she cant live in a lie....Shouyra goes to his dad but fails to tell him the truth and Rajlaksmi fills dadisa's ears but doesnt belivie n asks Niyati n shourya for the truth..

but Vikram comes and stops her saying, they should not question the girl who gave up everything to save this house's status. Niyati and Shaurya perform a very old traditionof the family. There is this S.A company who is creating troubles for the Rathore's and we find out in the end that the CEO of that company is non-other than Angi. So next week should be really interesting wow...angi got looks and brains wow he is too gud took takin on such a big company himself...

Now Niyati did this all this because one she tells Shourya she is her best friend and is doing it for that reason but she is also doing it because she loves Shourya...

Now for me Friendship means understanding and being understood... Friendship means affirming and being affirmed... Friendship means accepting and being accepted... Friendship means helping and being helped... Friendship means forgiving and being forgiven.....

It is something what is very valuable but you can't buy it. It must be protected. It is like a treasure. You must keep it in safety. If you don't, it will not last anymore.

So now for the sake of this friendship Niyati married shourya...now wouldn't this be makin fun of something as holy and pure as a marriage? They say marriges are made in heaven....so do u think Niyati and Shourya r met to be? Shourya and Niyati understand and trust each other very much so would they make an ideal couple? Now Angi and Niyati being totally different not even friends could they make an ideal couple or no chance?

What does friendship mean to u? Would u married shouyra for sake of friendship? but wouldnt that be askin too much?

What would u do if u were in Niyati's place... be a gud frand n support Shourya? Or Refuse and tell everyone the truth?

Do you think Shourya is usin Niyati, is he taking advantage of her friendship?

What would u do if u were shourya? would u take the same steps as him?

In your eyes which has more value friendship or love? and why?

So u think Niyati went through with all this because somewhere deep down she wanted to be close to Shouyra? or truly thought of nothing but there friendship

If you were janvi would u be comfortable with this close of friendship?

In your opinion who do u think Shouyra cares more for? Janvi his love or Niyati his best friend? If he had to pick who do u think he'll put his hand towards? why?

sorry if i made any mistakes! hope u enjoy DOTW and will particapate in it lookin forward to ur reponses.

cheers

isha

Originally posted by: lil_isha15

What does friendship mean to u? Would u married shouyra for sake of friendship? but wouldnt that be askin too much?

friendship means LIFE too mee!! i guess i would if he would stick with mee..lol...yah it wud be asking to much kinda like takin advantage of ur frnd

What would u do if u were in Niyati's place... be a gud frand n support Shourya? Or Refuse and tell everyone the truth?

support him after all my baachpan ka dost and pyaaar!

Do you think Shourya is usin Niyati, is he taking advantage of her friendship?

yesssssssssssss!

What would u do if u were shourya? would u take the same steps as him?

no way!

In your eyes which has more value friendship or love? and why?

True Lovee has more value too mee.. but u noe wht i LOVE all my true frnds soo lovee!

So u think Niyati went through with all this because somewhere deep down she wanted to be close to Shouyra? or truly thought of nothing but there friendship

i think she did it cuz shourya is her baachpan ka dost.. no never nething about getting close to himm

If you were janvi would u be comfortable with this close of friendship?

if they got married i wud beee..... if they were just frnds like shourya aur niyti .. not rly

In your opinion who do u think Shouyra cares more for? Janvi his love or Niyati his best friend? If he had to pick who do u think he'll put his hand towards? why?

i think niyti.. dont noe about jhanvi

thnx for the questionss... !!! 😃

Marvelous questions Isha! They're very thought provoking and clever! Way to go! 👏👏👏

Value of Friendship and marriages...

What does friendship mean to u? Would u married shouyra for sake of friendship? but wouldnt that be askin too much?

Friendship means trust to me. A true friend is one who you can trust to be there for you always. But this doesnt mean I would have married Shourya for our friendship's sake; that would have been an insult to our friendship because it would be one-sided. Only Niyati/I would have fulfill our responsibilties by marrying Shourya and he would end up buying himself time for his own problems. The truth is that would be asking for too much; Niyati should have kept Shourya's trust by sharing his problem, but she then took his trust and the whole family's trust to a dire level, in which the loss is only Niyati's. Shourya should have trusted her to be behind his true love and had trust in his love to share his feelings with Vikram. But alas, it seems only Niyati is living up to the trust of Shourya, and fulfilling her friendship...

What would u do if u were in Niyati's place... be a gud frand n support Shourya? Or Refuse and tell everyone the truth?

If I were in Niyati's place, I would be a good friend and have Shourya ask himself if he truly loves Jhanvi and if he does, then I would advice him to tell Vikram, because true love shouldnt be hidden and end up being a burden.

Do you think Shourya is usin Niyati, is he taking advantage of her friendship?

I know Shourya means well, but I cant help but feel that he is indirectly using Niyati and taking advantage of her friendship. He used her name as his love, he persuaded her to fake a marriage, and he made her the false kulvaddhu of the Rathore family. But at the end of the day, Niyati has to overcome these problems, because they are firmly placed on her shoulders, not Shourya's.

What would u do if u were shourya? would u take the same steps as him?

If I were Shourya, I would think hard about what Jhanvi means to me. Is she just a fling in college? Or is she someone I can't live without? If she isnt for Shourya/me then I would carefully break it to her, but if she meant the world to him/me then I could trust in our love to be able to withstand Vikram's ultimate decision. But in either case, if Niyati only meant a friend to shourya/me, I would not pull her into my own mess.

In your eyes which has more value friendship or love? and why?

Personally, I hold more value to love because that is one of the major basis of any relatioship, including friendship.

So u think Niyati went through with all this because somewhere deep down she wanted to be close to Shouyra? or truly thought of nothing but there friendship

It seems initially, she did all this for the sake of Shourya and their friendship, but now that so much has taken place, I feel she is giving herself false hopes that maybe...but the poor girl doesnt know that perhaps Shourya was never meant for her.

If you were janvi would u be comfortable with this close of friendship?

Quite frankly, if I were Jhanvi, I would not at all be comfortable with this close friendship because there is a limit to everything, including friendship, and where Shourya and Niyati are right now, they had to cross the limit to get there. I completey understand Jhanvi's concern with Niyati and Shourya.

In your opinion who do u think Shouyra cares more for? Janvi his love or Niyati his best friend? If he had to pick who do u think he'll put his hand towards? why?

I dont think Shourya himself would be able to answer this question and I cant even fathom a response. The chap is genuinely trying to juggle his friend and his love but Im afraid he needs more juggling lessons because he mixing them and ending up not fulfilling his duties to either.

Thanks Isha for a lovely DOTW!!!👏👏👏

What does friendship mean to u? Would u married shouyra for sake of friendship? but wouldnt that be askin too much?

friendship means love to me.. if shourya is my friend.. he could never ask me to do that.. so the question would never come up..

What would u do if u were in Niyati's place... be a gud frand n support Shourya? Or Refuse and tell everyone the truth?
if i was niyati.. i would encourage him to tell the truth.. not hide behind it.. in the end the truth have to come out.. so why pretend now and just prolong the process.. if i was a truth friend i would support him to do the right thing!!!



Do you think Shourya is usin Niyati, is he taking advantage of her friendship?
YES YES YES!!! he has done nothing but used her thus far........ i have not seen him do anyting that would help niyati..

What would u do if u were shourya? would u take the same steps as him?
NO!!.. i would never used anyone to get where i would be.. i would face my troubles.. NOT hide...


In your eyes which has more value friendship or love? and why?
love is friendship.. you can't one without the other..

So u think Niyati went through with all this because somewhere deep down she wanted to be close to Shouyra? or truly thought of nothing but there friendship
no.. i think that niyati values her friendship with shouray more than anything... she would never feel that way or have any intentions to do that knowing that shourya is in love with jhanvi...

If you were janvi would u be comfortable with this close of friendship?
as a girlfriend.. i would understand their relationship.. but there is a limit to everything.. as a gf. i would suspect if i hear that they are engaged!!


In your opinion who do u think Shouyra cares more for? Janvi his love or Niyati his best friend? If he had to pick who do u think he'll put his hand towards? why?
.. NONE! if he loved either.. he would tell them the truth instead of putting them in the dark

Nice questions, i will post my answers later. 😃


MALEKA

What does friendship mean to u? Would u married shouyra for sake of friendship? but wouldnt that be askin too much?

friendship means trust, u have trust on ur friend and faith, u will be there always to support ur friend, but when for the first time shourya told his dad in front of everyone that he loves niyati omg ok u couldnt tell the truth to him then coz he was soo angry at rajveer but there was soo much time to tell ur dad or even not ur dad but mum is always there to support u but he didnt do it, shourya talks bing but cant do anything. poor niyati loves him soo much thats y she is doing all these stuff. (sorry guyz if answer doesnt make sense.)

What would u do if u were in Niyati's place... be a gud frand n support Shourya? Or Refuse and tell everyone the truth?

if i was in niyati's shoes and know that shourya doesnt love me, he is in love with jhanvi then i would've for sure tell them its matter of ur life. dont wanna ruin ur life with a person who doesnt luv ya he just wants help to get jhanvi, so she can be the kulvaddhu.

Do you think Shourya is usin Niyati, is he taking advantage of her friendship?

for sure he is, if he really cared of this friendship then he could've tell everyone, well maybe not everyone if he couldnt tell his dad then for sure his mum or even his dadsa, but he didnt know and he keeping saying that i cant hurt u niyati and all these stuff but he hurted niyati the moment he told her that he is in love with jhanvi.

What would u do if u were shourya? would u take the same steps as him?

no way im sure if not anyone but i could've told mum or dadsa as u know always ma's and grandma's support u no matter wat. if shourya/me truly loves jhanvi then he/me should've stand by jhanvi and tell everyone and not to bring his/me best friend in to this situation at all.

In your eyes which has more value friendship or love? and why?

pyaar dosti hai (love is a friendship)life is based on love and friendship (gosh i dont know if this make sense 😆)

So u think Niyati went through with all this because somewhere deep down she wanted to be close to Shouyra? or truly thought of nothing but there friendship

i think she helped shourya coz of her friendshilp, she really cares about shourya and she couldnt say no either to him not to help as she didnt have any choice. she has helped him till today without asking him or anything, and now i think its shourya's turn to tell everyone the truth.

If you were janvi would u be comfortable with this close of friendship?

well if u fall in love with someone he means the world to u, u fully trust him, thats what jhanvi/me is doing, and living in usa and then out of sudden finds out that shourya is engaged with niyati, of course jhanvi/me would be uncomfortable with this.

In your opinion who do u think Shouyra cares more for? Janvi his love or Niyati his best friend? If he had to pick who do u think he'll put his hand towards? why?

well i serisouly think that by the time when jhanvi comes and asks him maybe to live niyati or something like then this guy shourya for sure will be confused as he is in love with jhanvi but spending time with niyati and married with her, i dont think he will leave her at all. but lets see what happens in the futuer of kulvaddhu.

sorry guyz if my answers r not making sense 😆

thank jaanu for these lovely question i really enjoyed answering it

awesome DOTW 😳 ..hafn't been much active latley ..buh saw otha DOTW's..all awesome 👏 😳 ..will edit it l8err 😛

What does friendship mean to u? Would u married shouyra for sake of friendship? but wouldnt that be askin too much? ALOT A BIG PART OF LIFE....SOMEONE U CAN LEAN ON AND TALK TO MUCH MORE THEN THAT. NO CAUSE HE DOESN'T LOVE ME WHY WOULD I TAKE HIS PYAR AWAY I'M NOT SELFISH

What would u do if u were in Niyati's place... be a gud frand n support Shourya? Or Refuse and tell everyone the truth? YES B A GOOD FRIEND.

Do you think Shourya is usin Niyati, is he taking advantage of her friendship?
NO HE'S NOT SHE'S WILLING TO HELP HIM
What would u do if u were shourya? would u take the same steps as him? ALWAYS THINK ABOUT MY FAMILY FIRST THEN THINK ABOUT GETTING MARRIED TO SOMEONE THAT HE LOVES NIYATI IS ALMOST FAMILY..

In your eyes which has more value friendship or love? and why?
BOTH DOSTI HI PYAR HAIN... 😉
So u think Niyati went through with all this because somewhere deep down she wanted to be close to Shouyra? or truly thought of nothing but there friendship
YES EXACTLY OR ELSE WHY WOULD SHE DO NE THING FOR HIM.. 😭

If you were janvi would u be comfortable with this close of friendship?
NO CAUSE U CAN'T BREAK NE RISTHEY YOUR SLEF WAQT BREAKS THEM..
In your opinion who do u think Shouyra cares more for? Janvi his love or Niyati his best friend? If he had to pick who do u think he'll put his hand towards? why?

BOTH... THEY BOTH ARE HIS LIFE ONE'S HIS LOVE AND FRIENSHIP HE CAN'T CHOOSE 😳

wow awesome reply!!😆😆

In your opinion who do u think Shouyra cares more for? Janvi his love or Niyati his best friend? If he had to pick who do u think he'll put his hand towards? why?

BOTH... THEY BOTH ARE HIS LIFE ONE'S HIS LOVE AND FRIENSHIP HE CAN'T CHOOSE 😳