JA Sep 30th - Mynavati rejects Jalal's decision - Bravo!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I had always thought Jodha was very similar to Mynavati in crying and complaining department. Mynavati complained/cried mainly in front of her Maa-sa and Jodha in front of Kanha. Today, though Mynavati did all mothers proud. It was sad that husband-wife issues came out open in public. I still give credit to Jalal that he presented the whole issue as delicately as possible. He did not taint Jodha in anyway, he did not even bother to bring up the 'gunahe azeem'. He does not forget to mention though that it is Jodha's decision to go back. Something that has been bothering him for a long time. Human pyscology is strange is'nt it - the more we cannot get something the more we desire for it. In a firm tone withougt any anger Mynavati rejects Jalal's decision of taking Jodha back to Amer. I was so glad that Mynavati did not call Jodha names or put her down. As a Mom she should know how difficult it was for her daughter to agree to this marriage. She knows where Jodha is coming from, but she also knows that her daughter has what it takes to make this marriage work.

Jalal, you did not argue with you MIL even once about Jodha staying back in Agra. After all she did a 'gunahe azeem' to your badi ammi. This was the first sign of his deepest feelings showing up. His unconscious inner feelings overtook his respect for badi ammi. I was really very happy with today's episode as this was a huge progress in Jalal's character. We continue to see the helpless Jalal when he finds out that Jodha is missing. I can't wait for the day when Jalal shuts Ruqu up when she does one of her laughing act. She does explain very clearly though that Jodha has no choice but to take her life. I did see Ruqu analyzing Jalal when he was so restless, deep down she knows that Jalal cares about Jodha. It bothers him tremendously that Jodha hates him. Its strange though that Ruqu inspite of knowing all this only ignites Jalal further by repeatedly saying how Jodha does not desire Shenshah. Does she think by saying it repeatedly she will get Jalal mad enough to forget about Jodha. Its actually having all together different impact, he desires her even more. I somehow felt its no his ego that hurts anymore with this statement, its this deep longing of being completed by a soul-mate.

It must have been so assuring for Mynavati to know that if not for her, Hamida would have never let Jodha go. How right was Hamida last week when she said 'khuda Jodha ko himmat de'. Hamida wisely also notices that 'mat bhed mit sakte hai agar dono saath mein waqt bitaye'. May be it is Hamida who decides to send the odd couple to a hunting trip so that they can spend sometime together. We audience will be indebted to you forever as we have been waiting for Mohan entry forever. Can we please get more clothes for Humida, she is always in those sad brown clothes. Even mynavati gets more clothes..

Jodha also for the first time accepted that her Jallad pati is not as bad as her imagination had created it to be. Her inner conscience fights for Jalal and brings out how he has always respected all her wishes. I was so happy to see this scene. The only sad thing though is that she still decices to go forward with suicide. This was not because Mynavati did not take her back, I don't think Jodha expected anything different here. Its her ego that is making her take this step, the ego that proudly told Jalal how her parents would be happy to keep her. The ego that was hurt when Jalal was indifferent to her going back.

Precap: Jalal in full on Bollywood hero mode ready to save his heroine Jodha. Ofcourse police, oops his sipahis will find Jodha only after she is saved by him in bollywood andaaz
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meghanajain thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks buddies for the likes, no response though to my post?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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With so many posts.. some posts gets shifted back ..this might have missed some..
I agree with your post.. If it was necessary for Jalal to make public Akdha's intention to divorce...then yes he handled the situation well...he didn't go into details.. he also said that Jodha too wants that.. and that he is not just dumping her..

But did Jalal had to make this public?.. considering theirs is a political alliance.. we have to think according to that..

Mainawati could have had a private conversation..

Jodha realised that she had been prejudiced.. I feel this self reflection was needed..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Poojie...

With so many posts.. some posts gets shifted back ..this might have missed some..

I agree with your post.. If it was necessary for Jalal to make public Akdha's intention to divorce...then yes he handled the situation well...he didn't go into details.. he also said that Jodha too wants that.. and that he is not just dumping her..

But did Jalal had to make this public?.. considering theirs is a political alliance.. we have to think according to that..

Mainawati could have had a private conversation..

Jodha realised that she had been prejudiced.. I feel this self reflection was needed..

It was made public for the 'gunahe azeem' which was not even discussed once in the durbaar. We saw MA crunch as she knew Jodha was not going back. I also wished that the whole thing came up in private..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i think she attempted suicide not for her ego,but bcoz she remembers her mother tell her that her dead body should be lifted from agra...she dosent want to hurt her family any more and cant stay in agra bcoz she knows that jalal dosent want her here,so the only solution is to die.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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the title is misleading. it was not jalal's decision to send her back. it was jodha's just like jalal said. if jodha doesnt have the nerve to make a decision its not jalal's fault considering that she practically chews his brains out everyday by telling him how much she hates him and how much she wants to go back to amer.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aanchal_c

i think she attempted suicide not for her ego,but bcoz she remembers her mother tell her that her dead body should be lifted from agra...she dosent want to hurt her family any more and cant stay in agra bcoz she knows that jalal dosent want her here,so the only solution is to die.


yeah i agree 👍🏼

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: john909

the title is misleading. it was not jalal's decision to send her back. it was jodha's just like jalal said. if jodha doesnt have the nerve to make a decision its not jalal's fault considering that she practically chews his brains out everyday by telling him how much she hates him and how much she wants to go back to amer.

Yes, it was Jodha's decision to go back or atleast that's what she convinced Jalal. But, finally it was Jalal who said Jodha should go back in the darbaar and added that it was Jodha's wish too. I agree that Jalal is not at fault at all, but he made the decision to send her because of Jodha wanting to do so and the latest MA kaand. But, without any protest he accepts his MIL's decision to keep Jodha in Agra - that was so cool!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Beautiful post. Explains everything. I was so happy the fact Jalal didn't bring up the sin Jodha has committed..nahi toh Manvati roh roh ke samundar bana deti! 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: XDPagalKuriXD

Beautiful post. Explains everything. I was so happy the fact Jalal didn't bring up the sin Jodha has committed..nahi toh Manvati roh roh ke samundar bana deti! 😆

Thanks Anu. I couldn't thank Ekta more for not making Mynavati do her usual routine of crying. I was so glad Jalal didnt even bring up the MA kaand. If he did the maulvis and MA would have presurrized Jalal to send Jodha away.

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