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Posted: 12 years ago
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well simple reason the girl nation has always accepted all of these & as a result it is a norm now .. u r just saying going & living in a new house where at least the man is bread earner but have u ever had a took at the low class people , in many cases women are both home maker & bread earner still they get beating from unemployed husbands .. why? bcoz they choose so .. they think it is the way it goes & nothing to object .. it seems there is slavery in woman's blood ... & if u think of many tribes there women are the main in family & others listen to them & there husbands live with wife's family ... all of these happened coz there girls were more active & they have proved since the beginning that they r more capable than the boys of their society & in our , i mean male dominated society girls have failed to prove that .. there is nothing to feel pity about , as a girl u just need to stand up for yourself & even if u r going to a new house you need to prove that u r not a toy & u have enough substance , so u demand respect & to earn that u have to prove it :) & as i m a girl , i habve one problem with girls & their mentality they always think so weak , u need to stand up & prove the world ur worth .. boys are more extrovert & believe in proving their worth & on the other side girls r too much busy in being emotional .. well being a human u wld have emotions but u need to think of more about how to establishing urself here coz it is NOT u who is getting opportunities & favors here .. so if u r asking for a change , be the change & stop complaining!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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When I am much older than I am now and I get married, I wouldn't want to live with my husband's family either. It depends a lot on what kinda family he has, whether they like me or not and how civilized they come about as. But the whole idea is crazy, the institution wherein a bride is supposed to fit into her groom's family and not just adjust actually but adapt their customs and ideals and even their last name. I am skeptical about this. So, I'd only like to live with my in laws if I like em but my mother doesn't like her in laws and neither does any of my aunts so, it's really only a matter of time before we all sort of have to agree that in laws are not be liked and can't be, for some reason. 😆

A girl is just honest if she is willing to tell you that she doesn't want to live with her husbands family and rather she wants to start a family with him somewhere independently. I don't know what is wrong with that. It's fairer if both the bride and the groom leave their parents' house and make one together, isn't it?


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Summer3

I think living with others whether they are "in laws" or "out laws" require a lot of sacrifice, adjustment and accomodation; especially for a girl.
It definitely is "Imprisonment"... Good Luck to the ladies.😭
Funny thing is that if a Guy were to live in the girls home, it will not be so bad generally as men are less fastidious.😆


I sure hope no one is living with outlaws!😆 That WOULD require a LOT of adjustment!

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