well simple reason the girl nation has always accepted all of these & as a result it is a norm now .. u r just saying going & living in a new house where at least the man is bread earner but have u ever had a took at the low class people , in many cases women are both home maker & bread earner still they get beating from unemployed husbands .. why? bcoz they choose so .. they think it is the way it goes & nothing to object .. it seems there is slavery in woman's blood ... & if u think of many tribes there women are the main in family & others listen to them & there husbands live with wife's family ... all of these happened coz there girls were more active & they have proved since the beginning that they r more capable than the boys of their society & in our , i mean male dominated society girls have failed to prove that .. there is nothing to feel pity about , as a girl u just need to stand up for yourself & even if u r going to a new house you need to prove that u r not a toy & u have enough substance , so u demand respect & to earn that u have to prove it :) & as i m a girl , i habve one problem with girls & their mentality they always think so weak , u need to stand up & prove the world ur worth .. boys are more extrovert & believe in proving their worth & on the other side girls r too much busy in being emotional .. well being a human u wld have emotions but u need to think of more about how to establishing urself here coz it is NOT u who is getting opportunities & favors here .. so if u r asking for a change , be the change & stop complaining!