Occasional Tenderness And Inherent Arrogance !!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Occasional tenderness and permanent arrogance!!---thy name is Indian husband...no..no any other part !!

Praising Devimata with Bhajans on oneside and insulting women [Ganga&Anandi]on the other side !! What a paradox... a self contradictory attitude of the society !!

A highly respected husband by all the female viewers ...a lovable character... a well groomed and well educated man ...Shiv ...what he did today ?? Supporting an immature girl... a monster [he knows that she is like that since his engagement days]and questioning a person he supported for ages...and dealt with him in a subtle manner , even in a comparatively much more volatile situation like... his rejecting Anandi for the sake of the then Jagdish---a selfish and crooked man...and shown his mettle latter and went to seek /regain Anandis' love back , and gain the respect of the viewers !! Is he the same Shiv we have seen today ??

Why Ira has to take a hasty/nasty decision on behalf of the entire family ...prevent everybody to meet BH people ??? Why Anandi has to choose any one house...instead of getting love and affection from both houses ??? After all she spent her formative years in one house and going to spend her entire life with the people of the other house ... !!! By giving up her likes and dislikes...decision making power/choice and has to spend her entire life to the well being of that family...is it the gift she is getting from her in laws ?Losing her freedom ...being obedient to even to the pet dog of in laws ...what is this disparity ?? To where this mindset is going to lead us ???

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I completely agree with u though as a bro shiv did n asked question to jagya... bt den dis was the outcum of the realtion was nt only predicted ny Singh's but also anandi... she very well knew dat in near future if anythng happened she will have to face dis... aur wahi hua... wat is anandi's fault... n wat was Singh's fault...
Shekhars' nay jis din proposal rakha usdin yeh nahi kaha ki agar aap logo nay mana bhi kar diya tabhi bhi purane rishte pay koi pharak nahi padega... tab singh's mana kar dete... one tme dey dint wanted id rishta n den dey nvr opposed also...wow ...a rational thnkng...
so price will be paid by anandi... but no anandi is at fault coz she nvr raised her voice or back answered saachi...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shiv's eyes and thoughts already colored by Sanchi madam's high spirit drama-being the Laadli-she knows how to manipulate each and everyone exactly-and after shedding crocodile tears she is invincible to none at all-shiv to kya Shiv bhagwan bhi is sanchi mahanatma ki bhool bhulayya mein kho jate hain!!!
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This is high time for Anandi to stand up and expose Sanchi ...support Jagya for his bold decision !!! AND she has to question Shiv why he lost his brains in the wake of his blind love over Sanchi ??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Oh girl you have a way with words . . Beautifully written . . Only if yesterday he had softly asked sanchi not to push his wife and taunt her for being jagya s ex. . .then his behaviour would still be justified . .

All his taunts to jagya can still be over looked as jagya has become the new mahaan character and decided to keep shut on the real reason he broke the engagement. After all it is a huge blow to the ego when the other person moves ahead in life within no time . . Sanchi is shiv s achilles heel . . The mighty have fallen
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Eris...Sanchi is shiv s achilles heel . . The mighty have fallen.------With his fall... the mountains of faith rumbled...a big valley of disbelief...a stream of volcanic lava...berserk suggestions ... like a thick layer of ash...what an impact of this episode !!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SEETHA.K

Occasional tenderness and permanent arrogance!!---thy name is Indian husband...no..no any other part !!

Praising Devimata with Bhajans on oneside and insulting women [Ganga&Anandi]on the other side !! What a paradox... a self contradictory attitude of the society !!

A highly respected husband by all the female viewers ...a lovable character... a well groomed and well educated man ...Shiv ...what he did today ?? Supporting an immature girl... a monster [he knows that she is like that since his engagement days]and questioning a person he supported for ages...and dealt with him in a subtle manner , even in a comparatively much more volatile situation like... his rejecting Anandi for the sake of the then Jagdish---a selfish and crooked man...and shown his mettle latter and went to seek /regain Anandis' love back , and gain the respect of the viewers !! Is he the same Shiv we have seen today ??

Why Ira has to take a hasty/nasty decision on behalf of the entire family ...prevent everybody to meet BH people ??? Why Anandi has to choose any one house...instead of getting love and affection from both houses ??? After all she spent her formative years in one house and going to spend her entire life with the people of the other house ... !!! By giving up her likes and dislikes...decision making power/choice and has to spend her entire life to the well being of that family...is it the gift she is getting from her in laws ?Losing her freedom ...being obedient to even to the pet dog of in laws ...what is this disparity ?? To where this mindset is going to lead us ???


she is behaving as if she is the head of the family..daddu is there..but useless...😔

shiv ll apologise first once he ll come to know everything..

taht everyone know...

but where all his sensibless gone...

supporting his sis...without knowing anything...

why did u do this to shiv cvs...😔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ Hema G---why did u do this to shiv cvs...-----Till now they spare Shiv from being a typical mind set of a traditional Indian family member!! Now it seems ... they are toying with the idea of creating misunderstandings between the most lovable couple of the TV industry --Shiv and Anandi😲 ...so that they can take the story for another year on this basis !!
Edited by SEETHA.K - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SEETHA.K

Occasional tenderness and permanent arrogance!!---thy name is Indian husband...no..no any other part !!

Praising Devimata with Bhajans on oneside and insulting women [Ganga&Anandi]on the other side !! What a paradox... a self contradictory attitude of the society !!

A highly respected husband by all the female viewers ...a lovable character... a well groomed and well educated man ...Shiv ...what he did today ?? Supporting an immature girl... a monster [he knows that she is like that since his engagement days]and questioning a person he supported for ages...and dealt with him in a subtle manner , even in a comparatively much more volatile situation like... his rejecting Anandi for the sake of the then Jagdish---a selfish and crooked man...and shown his mettle latter and went to seek /regain Anandis' love back , and gain the respect of the viewers !! Is he the same Shiv we have seen today ??

Why Ira has to take a hasty/nasty decision on behalf of the entire family ...prevent everybody to meet BH people ??? Why Anandi has to choose any one house...instead of getting love and affection from both houses ??? After all she spent her formative years in one house and going to spend her entire life with the people of the other house ... !!! By giving up her likes and dislikes...decision making power/choice and has to spend her entire life to the well being of that family...is it the gift she is getting from her in laws ?Losing her freedom ...being obedient to even to the pet dog of in laws ...what is this disparity ?? To where this mindset is going to lead us ???

Do his 2-3 gestures make him permanently arrogant?? Is he not a human being who can think wrong once in his life? How do people forget all the good deeds he has done towards his wife, his/her family, the society, as a honest collector by just few gestures..
A lot has been discussed about the whole situation so I wont go into details of it. I am not supporting Ira as well in her impulsice decision & I feel it wont be fair to Anandi, a woman, to choose between one of her 2 families... But I do not agree to this point that he is bahaving like an arrogant husband. Agree to rest of your points related to society mindset
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I was really confused ...how a sensible person like Shiv... for that matter...agreed for his sister's adamant demand for marrying his wife's ex ??Knowing fully well about his wife's sentiments on this sensitive matter---- is he not aware of her discomfort for awhile to give her consent to him... is it that simple matter for him to forget conveniently about that --mujhse nahi hoga --- by putting three lives at stake Ja...An ...Sh...why he agreed for this proposal ??? Is Sanchis' infatuation/love that much praiseworthy for him ??
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