Sumitra vs Ira - Who is worse?

Both mothers of laados and laadesars. Both are prone to outbursts. Both are narrow minded and can get really cheap and kick below the belt when they get livid. Both can't be controlled by their husbands. Both have kids who've gone wayward. Both are bitchy matriarch-in-waiting as they gain prominence in their households with the ageing and silence of existing elders. Both bark as mothers and MILs.

Which of these two frustrated and bitchy women is worse according to you? Who deserves less sympathy? Who deserves no explanation for her actions? Who's been the weakest as a woman, wife, mother etc.? Who's worse in handling family and kids? Who's more despicable and frustrating?

Your votes and comments are invited!

@tm - It is very difficult to decide.

Here there is no need to have a choice !!! Both-- is my answer too!Expecting too much from a grown up kid - is the main fault of Sumitra !! His[Js'] faults and misdeeds and all other points are secondary !! Giving too much freedom to her kid is the main fault of Ira !!Without checking the impact/result of her liberal attitude is the secondary thing ...though it is the main cause of her mental death !!!---rebirth of arrogance...again and again .

I would love to have ira as my mom . . She will move heaven hell and earth to get me the man i want even if he is my bhabi s ex . . . I can call my fiancee for an overnight stay , get away with insulting my in laws in the vicinity of my soon to be husband, be rude to my sibling when he gifts me something i dont like and cover it up quickly, taunt people i dont like on their faces , then i can be a brat and do what ever i want to and even though its wrong i will be forgiven coz i am a child and all my sins forgiven coz i have the brains to shed a few tears and my mommy will wipe them and defend me in front of the whole world using the term bachpana . .

I wish sumitra were the mother of my enemy as she always places tom dick and happy over her own kid. . She seems to have forgotten sugna and jagya is a burden . . First she loved anandi and then sanchi. . Jagya s happiness and the women he wanted never mattered to her. I hate the woman now . .

Both the woman are no good but ira is one notch higher she is like a lioness protecting her cub . . Sumitra fails at everything. . .

i have voted for ira...

Skepblun,

Originally posted by: -Eris-

I would love to have ira as my mom . . She will move heaven hell and earth to get me the man i want even if he is my bhabi s ex . . . I can call my fiancee for an overnight stay , get away with insulting my in laws in the vicinity of my soon to be husband, be rude to my sibling when he gifts me something i dont like and cover it up quickly, taunt people i dont like on their faces , then i can be a brat and do what ever i want to and even though its wrong i will be forgiven coz i am a child and all my sins forgiven coz i have the brains to shed a few tears and my mommy will wipe them and defend me in front of the whole world using the term bachpana . .

I wish sumitra were the mother of my enemy as she always places tom dick and happy over her own kid. . She seems to have forgotten sugna and jagya is a burden . . First she loved anandi and then sanchi. . Jagya s happiness and the women he wanted never mattered to her. I hate the woman now . .

Both the woman are no good but ira is one notch higher she is like a lioness protecting her cub . . Sumitra fails at everything. . .

Excellent post !!!---with a very good wish...like it dear !!

Originally posted by: -Eris-

I would love to have ira as my mom . . She will move heaven hell and earth to get me the man i want even if he is my bhabi s ex . . . I can call my fiancee for an overnight stay , get away with insulting my in laws in the vicinity of my soon to be husband, be rude to my sibling when he gifts me something i dont like and cover it up quickly, taunt people i dont like on their faces , then i can be a brat and do what ever i want to and even though its wrong i will be forgiven coz i am a child and all my sins forgiven coz i have the brains to shed a few tears and my mommy will wipe them and defend me in front of the whole world using the term bachpana . .

I wish sumitra were the mother of my enemy as she always places tom dick and happy over her own kid. . She seems to have forgotten sugna and jagya is a burden . . First she loved anandi and then sanchi. . Jagya s happiness and the women he wanted never mattered to her. I hate the woman now . .

Both the woman are no good but ira is one notch higher she is like a lioness protecting her cub . . Sumitra fails at everything. . .

Bang on vibz,completely agree with u 👍🏼

Originally posted by: -Eris-

I would love to have ira as my mom . . She will move heaven hell and earth to get me the man i want even if he is my bhabi s ex . . . I can call my fiancee for an overnight stay , get away with insulting my in laws in the vicinity of my soon to be husband, be rude to my sibling when he gifts me something i dont like and cover it up quickly, taunt people i dont like on their faces , then i can be a brat and do what ever i want to and even though its wrong i will be forgiven coz i am a child and all my sins forgiven coz i have the brains to shed a few tears and my mommy will wipe them and defend me in front of the whole world using the term bachpana . .

I wish sumitra were the mother of my enemy as she always places tom dick and happy over her own kid. . She seems to have forgotten sugna and jagya is a burden . . First she loved anandi and then sanchi. . Jagya s happiness and the women he wanted never mattered to her. I hate the woman now . .

Both the woman are no good but ira is one notch higher she is like a lioness protecting her cub . . Sumitra fails at everything. . .

Both are equally bad.. 🤢