I do agree that A wasnt right in hiding about the bribing thing...but when she right in the beginning voiced her opinion about Saja not being compatible - Sa put up a big drama in front of the family about her changing - it was difficult for her to fathom what really was Sa all aboutMuch as I wud like to believ that Shekhars are at fault for Sanchi - Anandi has of late , played a much bigger role in hiding huge glaring sins of Sanchi from even her own parents.
Alok n Shiv did get mad at Sanchi when they saw the short dress she was in. When Sanchi is crazily wrong - they will heandle her. But what can they do when Anandi keeps shielding all of Sanchi's mistakes ?