Immature way to handle rejection/heartbreak !!

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ButterflyChaser

@ButterflyChaser

Rocker

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Posted: 12 years ago

Somewhere, I have read that

"Pain makes you stronger. Tears make you braver and Heartbreak makes you wiser" ..

but that's so wrong in PR land. The way cvs are handling heartbreak or rejection issue is so immature.. or i should say impractical. Firstly Ovi and now Soham... They are showing heartbreaks as destroyer whereas they can show heartbreak or rejection in a positive manner.They can show that

"A heartbreak is a blessing from God. Its his way of telling that he saved you from the wrong one or you are getting a step closer to your true love."

I guess many of us have faced rejection or heartbreak in real life.. but did we turned psycho?? I myself had bear this pain in college days.. I was heartbroken n it took time but I recovered with the help of my friends and dad. Instead of showing this violence in the name of heartbreak.. they should have shown how ArMan handles this situation calmly and wisely. How they support Soham to overcome this pain and move on in life..

In yesterday's episode Archana was yelling and beating Soham like anything but what she did when Purvi told her about Soham?? Did she made efforts to heal his pain. And Manav.. he is worse!! I personally felt this track is so lame and immature. They destroyed beautiful story of Soham.. I loved his character and his love story with gauri. If not gauri, I won't mind him seeing with some other sweet girl. But b4 that... he needs to educate himself and help his father in business.

P.S. I may not reply on time but that doesn't mean I am ignoring the replies. Sorry if I get bit late in replying.

Edited by mishti31 - 12 years ago

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pfalcon1949

@pfalcon1949

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Posted: 12 years ago

Don't forget that they also showed Onir moving on eventhough he was in love with Purvi and ready to accept her knowing all her past etc. He didn't turn into a psycho nor did he make any attempt to use force on Purvi. It is only Archana's kids that are psychos. (Ovi, Soham). Don't know why, I guess Ekta is the reason.

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pallavi25

@pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

Armaan's kids are all highly strung and neurotic! When they love they become obsessive and cannot take rejection! I guess its genetics because Archana and Manav are both highly dramatic people!😆 Archu always slaps people like her mother did (slapping people is so vulgar) and Manav always yells at people at the top of his voice when they make mistakes.

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Sakhile

@Sakhile

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Posted: 12 years ago

PR wastes so many opportunities of showing positive ways of dealing with life's many challenges such as raising difficult children, treating each other with respect, being good neighbours etc. However the CVs rather go for over the top bizarre reactions that allow actors to show their screaming, crying talents rather than their acting talent. What a waste of good opportunities todo good in the world.

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WinterAesthetics

@DanceUntilWeDie

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

GOOD POST.

Still the parents can be blamed - both sets

apart from gauri and sometimes purvi, no one really showed the right path to soham!!

sick of ppl bashing him😡😡😡

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jaskiran kaur

@AnkitGuptaKiAC

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Posted: 12 years ago

Awesome post...
But not liking sm people here bashing him...
I hv never spoken a word against any actor or character...

My way is jst to support my fav. Actor n character only not to bash others to prove our fav. Best...
Dis is wrong...

So i m doing by supportingg soham...

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

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Posted: 12 years ago

My ex boyfriend turned psychotic after I broke up with him, so things like these do happen. I think people are taking it hard because of the same reason you mentioned, you really liked Soham's character and now they ruined it. There are people in real life who appear normal, or even good and then they turn quite scary after a breakup or rejection. Reading all the stories about India it is clear that many men still cannot handle rejection from a girl.

I just hope Gauri is safe throughout this whole thing. Soham needs to fix his character. A school degree and his dad's business might keep him occupied but it won't fix his inner self.

It would be nice if Ekta showed a sane person after a breakup but sane people don't make interesting characters. Everything has to be exaggerated for Ekta tv serials. Teju is sane from what I have seen no far, and look how much attention she gets as a character.

You need the unrealistically mahan Purvi, absolutely crazy devoted lover Arjun, obsessive naive Ovi, very emotionally unstable and vulnerable Soham

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nanny101

@nanny101

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: JanhaviSRK
GOOD POST.
Still the parents can be blamed - both sets
apart from gauri and sometimes purvi, no one really showed the right path to soham!!
sick of ppl bashing him😡😡😡

I totally agree. No one sat down with him to have a heart to heart convo to help release his pain. Ekta has done madness why spoil a fun character like soham's. in the end I hope she finds a way to make his character good again. One thing I don't understand ovi tried to single handedly ruin purvi's life but manav and arch did nothing they actually felt sorry for her and blamed purvi for it instead.

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sanjuD

@sanjuD

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655
My ex boyfriend turned psychotic after I broke up with him, so things like these do happen. I think people are taking it hard because of the same reason you mentioned, you really liked Soham's character and now they ruined it. There are people in real life who appear normal, or even good and then they turn quite scary after a breakup or rejection. Reading all the stories about India it is clear that many men still cannot handle rejection from a girl.
I just hope Gauri is safe throughout this whole thing. Soham needs to fix his character. A school degree and his dad's business might keep him occupied but it won't fix his inner self.

It would be nice if Ekta showed a sane person after a breakup but sane people don't make interesting characters. Everything has to be exaggerated for Ekta tv serials. Teju is sane from what I have seen no far, and look how much attention she gets as a character.

You need the unrealistically mahan Purvi, absolutely crazy devoted lover Arjun, obsessive naive Ovi, very emotionally unstable and vulnerable Soham

U r absolutely right..Such psychotic people do exist in real life too,otherwise we wouldn't have read anything like,rejected lover throws acid on girl's face or rejected lover stabs girl to death sort of things in news-paper..But as a viewer,my point is,media specially,TV is a very strong medium now..Ekta has the oppurtunity to do something good for the society..If she had shown how Soham takes this rejection without turning him absolutely mad.would have been better..People,specialLy teenagers do things what they do on TV,so this kind of ridiculous tracks might be making some new Soham's in real lives who'll be out in vengeance when a girl rejects them..

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relentless.

@relentless.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: pallavi25
Armaan's kids are all highly strung and neurotic! When they love they become obsessive and cannot take rejection! I guess its genetics because Archana and Manav are both highly dramatic people!😆 Archu always slaps people like her mother did (slapping people is so vulgar) and Manav always yells at people at the top of his voice when they make mistakes.

Superb! So agree with you! 👏

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