If marriage is so important...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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...shouldn't it be treated better?

Before anyone starts thinking that I am going on the lines of Ta-umra, I assure you I am not😃

1. If you decide to marry someone, do it for the right reasons and do it for yourself...and if you decide so for someone else's happiness, I am sure you are a strong enough person...to get married for someone else's wishes is the single most difficult job in the world...it's a gamble where you play blind for someone else and put your money at stake...by trying to kill herself Nikhat has disrespected herself and her decision (which was harsh on herself in the first place!!!)..if you cannot hold yourself together, you need to re-evaluate your ability to give to a relationship...wear your own oxygen mask first before trying to help someone breathe...take a leaf out of your Ayaan bhai's book...😆

2. Before one decides to tie the knot, assure that your partner never stays in the dark...never hide things from them because you fear they won't trust you without proof...this is disrespecting your love and your partner both...Zoe, if you thought Asad still needs proof and your word ain't enough, his efforts are in vain..

3. If someone does not love you back or wants to get married to you, no need to cut yourself...love cannot be forced...you are lucky Humz, Ayaan loves you out of his own accord...but trying to kill yourself over him was never the answer..

4. One sided love, affection and devotion gets tired one day...you are about to find that soon Ayaan...Asad did all for you, it was never enough...every stupid thing that u indulged in..Asad picked up the pieces...you are about to find out that your Bhaijaan has a breaking point too...and I fervently wish this event stays etched in your head forever...of all you people, he was the one who gave his marriage the respect it deserved..sad it was taken away from him...


Marriage has become or will become the cause of problems in each of the characters on this show...what are they trying to portray...that it isn't worth it because destiny plays spoilsport or it's the be all and end all of the universe...I do not get the message loud and clear...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post. I didnt like nikhat today i know she goes through from worst path but dis is nt end. After ayra i like nikhat bt today i was disappointed bt i dnt blame her bcoz at somewhere family scenario also depend. Instead of stating that there is no life after break up of marriage they must have taught that be strong and stand up for urself. Instead of giving imp to soc rules and reg and spoil ur kid lyf give imp to them
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree.every character in qh thinks marriage is every thing of life
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Posted: 11 years ago
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zoya should have trusted asad...atleast after he assured her that he will not scold her...even that will not help now...but after going through all those hardships trust is lacking between them...
nikat...suicide is a bad option...she is grown in a conservative family..thoughts are not progressive.she even suffered many insults not only from outsiders but also indirectly from shireen.marriage is the not only thing in life but everyone in that house made it as her priority...this was the final thread for her...

ayaan will pay now for his impulsiveness...but humeira is also suffering..poor girl...

one message from me sruthi...dont try to analyse what messege these people are giving us...it is out of our scope...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Nice post. I didnt like nikhat today i know she goes through from worst path but dis is nt end. After ayra i like nikhat bt today i was disappointed bt i dnt blame her bcoz at somewhere family scenario also depend. Instead of stating that there is no life after break up of marriage they must have taught that be strong and stand up for urself. Instead of giving imp to soc rules and reg and spoil ur kid lyf give imp to them


Thank u😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: moniloveasya

Agree.every character in qh thinks marriage is every thing of life


And they still treat it with the utmost disdain
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: penfriend28

zoya should have trusted asad...atleast after he assured her that he will not scold her...even that will not help now...but after going through all those hardships trust is lacking between them...

nikat...suicide is a bad option...she is grown in a conservative family..thoughts are not progressive.she even suffered many insults not only from outsiders but also indirectly from shireen.marriage is the not only thing in life but everyone in that house made it as her priority...this was the final thread for her...

ayaan will pay now for his impulsiveness...but humeira is also suffering..poor girl...

one message from me sruthi...dont try to analyse what messege these people are giving us...it is out of our scope...


I have never seen marriage or for that matter any relationship being treated so callously in a TV show before...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful post...
i really have nothing else to say
pointers
I hope no one goes for sacrificing his happiness and ends up marrying for wrong reasons
Well i do sympathise with Nikhat but i agree that slitting her wrist was not right]
Zoya needs to trust asad more but is still maintain she doesn't deserve this harsh a lesson
And ayaan has been a selfish jerk and he needs a lesson too but even he doesn't deserve this IMO...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said. I don't like one bit how everyone in QH behave as if marriage is end of the world. Nikhat disappointed me
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anushreemishra

Beautiful post...

i really have nothing else to say
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I hope no one goes for sacrificing his happiness and ends up marrying for wrong reasons
Well i do sympathise with Nikhat but i agree that slitting her wrist was not right]
Zoya needs to trust asad more but is still maintain she doesn't deserve this harsh a lesson
And ayaan has been a selfish jerk and he needs a lesson too but even he doesn't deserve this IMO...


Thanks Anushree...I agree on the fact that they do not deserve a harsh lesson...

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