what would you do? - Page 3

Some very good suggestions here.

If I were Anandi, I would first inform J & Singhs that Shekhars are bringing a proposal for him and give them some time to think beforehand. If I couldn't do that I would have checked with J later, what made him agree to Sa, considering that he found her immature and rude sometime back. And also ask him, is he marrying her out of any kind of pressure (knowing that the proposal is from my family)

I would also suggest him to do this for his happiness as well and not just for family's as it may be later hard to put up with the partner.

However, if we are only talking about the last scene here. And if I ever caught Sa red-handed like this. I would immediately appear in front of Sa along with J. Take her back home and politely tell everyone what we heard , felt and even explain how I met J in Udaipur suddenly.

Once everyone gets a chance to digest what I was talking, then I would expect Sa to provide an explanation of what she just said to her friends.

Finally, it would be J's call to decide.

That's as per story.

In my real life I have some principles which would never let me be in Anandi's situations;

- I would never interfere in my Ex's life, if I had one. Would never ask him to re-marry. Not my job

- For me parivaar's khushi is not a tool for making blind sacrifices. My life involves around balancing and getting as much win-win in every situation that I can, even if it means raising voices against my parents or in-laws.

Originally posted by: hooked

Some very good suggestions here.

My choice - in exactly this order.

1. Call DS - tell her everything about S, about the dates, the bribery and about the pizza chat.

2. Call Shiv and tell him on the phone about the dates n bribe and today's chat. And - I wud have done it when I was coming back home in the car already.

3. Make chai and call a meeting when she got home and tell what all happened today. Own upto bumping into Jagya and what she AND HE overheard. Also - share his disgust and his doubts about her suitability for his family.

4. Explain about both the dates and pandit and his part in it and the bribe.

5. Apologise to the family about not telling them about the pandit issue as soon as she found out.

6. Tell them that she has shared all this with DS as they too need to know the whole facts and about the person they are preparing to welcome as future family.

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Originally posted by: Missesha

however, if we are only talking about the last scene here. And if I ever caught Sa red-handed like this. I would immediately appear in front of Sa along with J. Take her back home and politely tell everyone what we heard , felt and even explain how I met J in Udaipur suddenly.

Once everyone gets a chance to digest what I was talking, then I would expect Sa to provide an explanation of what she just said to her friends.

Finally, it would be J's call to decide.

thanks Missesha, like i said, we are only talking about the last part here. I think confronting Sa would be just like when she confronted abt pandit. Complete turnaround in 1 second. She was only pulling her friends leg, how can A and J doubt her intentions, she has been trying so hard, she loves J and therefore will love everyone...

Originally posted by: surabhi01

since ds told anandi that there is no mahurat in this month because of taara ast but anandi did not told this truth to family .if i place of anandi i will show shekhar family panchang and show them that there is no mahurat in this month .by this shekhar family will automatically question pandit why he give wrong mahurat so pandit will automatically disclose sanchi name .shekhar family will come to know that how sanchi insulting god by giving bribe to pandit .she has not change for good yet .she is just pretending to be good

Surabhi, great thought. very diplomatic way of exposing Saanchi. 👏