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Jiya

@jiya25

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

I am very curious to know how some of the forum members would handle a situation like this? Imagine yourself in Anandi's place; you have a husband like shiv, in-laws like shekhars (including Ira and Sanchi) and a past like Jaitser?

How would you walk this crossroad?

Please note that all i want to know is forum members opinion on best way to handle this, not what A is doing wrong and why she is mahaan or her true colors or anything like that. Just a healthy discussion on what you would do if you were in her place.

Personally for me, if i were her, I would sit down with the four elders, ira, alok, dadu and meenu and calmly try to explain what i found from the panditji, what sanchi said , how i bumped into jagdish and how we overheard sanchi. I would warn them about the upcoming storm!! They might not believe me, but they would at least be forced to remember my warning when J says no. Its the silence that would be worse because they would then be in for a rude shock!

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Ithas

@Ithas

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Posted: 12 years ago

@TM

Liked u'r suggestion...but I would like Anandi to first talk to Shiv & together they should talk to the elders of the family. All this should be done with proof & in Sanchi's presence. Let her also know that Jagya heard all the crap( regarding moving away from Jeitsar) that she had said.

Tell Sanchi directly & clearly that if she wants to marry Jagya, then she'll have to stay in Jeitsar in BH along with the family members of Jagya, if not forget about the rishta. Let Sanchi & Ira decide whether to move further or not.

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angel3

@angel3

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

well if i were in place of A then firstly i would tell everything to shiv what i had found regarding sanchi

rest i know shiv would def believe me coz last time when he didnt later it proved to be true (A telling s that sa loved jagya scene)

then we both go to the elder shekhar's and tell them everything

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Jiya

@jiya25

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Ithas
@TM

Liked u'r suggestion...but I would like Anandi to first talk to Shiv & together they should talk to the elders of the family. All this should be done with proof & in Sanchi's presence. Let her also know that Jagya heard all the crap( regarding moving away from Jeitsar) that she had said.

Tell Sanchi directly & clearly that if she wants to marry Jagya, then she'll have to stay in Jeitsar in BH along with the family members of Jagya, if not forget about the rishta. Let Sanchi & Ira decide whether to move further or not.

The only problem with that suggestion is a) shiv is not in the city, so A will have to discuss over the phone at an appropriate time when shiv can properly listen. that might be too late. I wouldn't want to sit on something so big. Plus, shouldn't you be able to approach your family with things that are so huge, without always needing have your husband to hold your hand?

As for involving sanchi, i think her presence would make it impossible to have a calm sit-down discussion, she will just go balistic. that's why A needs to have her say without S there IMO.

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BAB3112

@BAB3112

Beginner

Posted: 12 years ago

Anandi's first mistake was to go to Sachi with Pandit issue. She should have asked Pandit to talk directly to Shekhars. That way at least some of Sachis lies would be in the open. Maybe Ira's eyes would open up a little.

It would be fun if Jagya and Anandi plot to make Sachi talk about these issues in front of Ira and Sumitra! That way Sachi's Bhanda phoot jayega!

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Jiya

@jiya25

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: papo.

ARE U SUCH A BIG FOOL TO THINK JAGYA IS SUCH DAMN FOOl.
TO GIVE SO MUCH OPTION CHANCE TO SANCHI OF LAST PARAGRAPH.
DONT U KNOW HE HAS THAT PROSTITUTE AT THE OTHER END OF COUNTRY.
THEN Y HE ,WILL TK THAT RISK OF GIVING CHANCE TO IRA OR SANCHI.
OBBBVIOUSLY SANCHI WILL SAY OK FOR TIME BEING FOR THE HECK OF IT.

KYA PAGAL HAIN...MAKES ME LAUGGGH...

I request that forum members ignore this postmaker. I have already reported.

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KiranlovSriti

@KiranlovSriti

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

I will buy 5 tickits of the same movie which Sanchi watching wid her friends(I knw it will be wast of mony as movie will be definitely pathetic lyk Sanchi) then I will took Ira, Dadu, Shiv and Alok wid me and sit behind Sanchi and her friends there..very simple and very esey. Sari asaliyat sabke samne aa jayegi apne aap.

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Jiya

@jiya25

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Truthseeker
If i were Anandi i would first of all reveal my ex's true colors to her(Sanchi) the very moment i knew she fell in love with him thinking he was this great always. Since i know she never had any faith in me , which means she wouldn't believe in my words, i would tell my husband(who fully trusts me...and who fully loves his sister), that his sister fell in love with him imagining him to be this great always. She might not have had this impression on him if she knew all his history...of how he(J) used to be with me. Also i would tell him(Shiv), to find out the details of his(J) second wife because i knew how hard it can be to deal with her(his second wife) if she ever comes back.😆

Next, if these people went into this marriage stiil, then i would have told J(preferaby to my husband first) about what all i knew--as in the pandit thing and also what sanchi said about it...and also how sanchi appears to have changed her manners and all what i know. This way i would have been a successful marriage breaker😆.

But in the present situation, since i never cared to tell my husband about J's history, i would maintain the same silence even now and stay away from all this detect giri and would have told DS to do her investigations herself. If DS still insisted me to do it, then i would just stay quiet about the pandit thing this(only because Sanchi convinced me with her diplomacy) and would also not utter a single thing about how Sanchi changed for good.

I do believe that Shiv is fully aware of J, past and present. If you recall, he was the one who saw through J's natak when he was trying to get A back. Anyways, I think the Shekhars and Shiv are all fully aware of the past and have still chosen to go forward so that is not on A's head.

The question is more about the now. what is the best way forward now. i don't think A should be quiet till the whole thing blows up. She needs to share what she knows, regardless of people believing her or not. Because silence would come at a bigger cost.

Edited by jiya25 - 12 years ago

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Dhruti_rocks434

@Dhruti_rocks434

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: KiranlovSriti
I will buy 5 tickits of the same movie which Sanchi watching wid her friends(I knw it will be wast of mony as movie will be definitely pathetic lyk Sanchi) then I will took Ira, Dadu, Shiv and Alok wid me and sit behind Sanchi and her friends there..very simple and very esey. Sari asaliyat sabke samne aa jayegi apne aap.

awesome kiran best Answer 😊

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saba113

@saba113

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

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@Truth seeker Shiv knows everything Just because cvs did not show him all the serial repeat telecast one by one scene does not mean Shiv does not know anything Shiv knows everything very well kindly if you get the time then watch the old episodes you will get to know he knows everything Singhs disowned their son and why they disowned him he knows that Dadisaa herself told to Shiv we have no relationship with Jagya after what he did with Anandi all was his fault , Anandi herself said to Shiv i could not forgive Jagya because when he came to ask forgiveness from me all he did to me came in front of my eyes and i could not forgive him , On Jagya's return Shiv was saying to himself why he came here to cause pain to Anandi once again ?Shiv knows everything Just because Shiv is a person who appreciates and accepts the change and goodness of a person and does not value his past in front of present where the person has become so good He trusts his present does not mean you declare Shiv is unaware of his past .

Sanchi does not know but Sanchi cheated Jagya she told him i know and i accept you with your past , present and want to make you my future otherwise Jagya would have himself told her

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