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Originally posted by: Missesha
Suchi, but why does Anandi need to go through all this, when she could have easily saved a lot of this happening. And only Anandi had the power to stop SaJa from even forming because she was the only one who knew the entire picture. The fact is that Anandi has created this situation for herself, which could have actually been avoided.
First she knew J was not ready to marry but she forced him under his own guilt. Then she knew Sa was not a right fit for J but she didn't see the need of talking to J or Singhs about this matter before hand or even afterwards.She also knew about J-G feelings and how J does not like Sa. But she decided not to connect dots.Clearly knowing that SaJa alliance is not going to work, she didn't take necessary steps. As such she wants to keep out of Sa's matter but she also does not mind her own business when it comes to J's behaviour.Is she really a true friend to J?Now even if she stands up for J-G and faces a wrath from both Sumi, Ira and shekhars, she deserves it.
The condition on which jagya agreed to get married was that if Anandi had chosen the bride for him. The first alliance which ganga spoiled he did not ask Anandi and clearly he assumed that A has said ok for sanchi. So due to the miscommunication and Jagya's own wanting of reducing his guilt .. he agreed to the marriage.
Who is to be blamed here?
Jagya? for not clearing up with Anandi when he could have clearly cleared up?
Jagya for not telling the truth even upon Shiv's asking and Ira's asking when he had the chance?
or Anandi for not telling Jagya that sanchi is not good for him ?
or Anandi for not figuring out that Jagya and Ganga love each other?
Lets take another aspect here;
Who is the only one who has said that sanchi is not good for Jagya?
Anandi.
WHo has raised voice against this?
Anandi
right after that we saw that Anandi was trying to not go through this.. she was talking to shiv about this... trying to figure out a way to stop this
but right then they showed to Anandi that sanchi is changing. She is getting better in behavior.
So what did Anandi presume that, ok Sanchi is not her spoilt self... and is changing. She always likes to think that people change.
Now the first wiff she got .. is today when Pandit ji's mahurat deal comes out. So what she does? goes and speaks with Sanchi to find out whats going on. At this point she does not know Sanchi is a cunning lil Wit**
Basically, I am not sure how Anandi is to be blamed... she tried to stop the relationship to go on , as long as she thought sanchi was really spoilt and not good for Jagya. She even spoke to sanchi about it that Jagya is coming out of huge emotional upheaval what you are seeing is just one side of him. She spoke to shiv about it. She spoke to Ira about it , Alok about it everyone about this
Once she figured out that sanchi is changing ... she stopped and assumed the best. Jagya did not speak up when he asked if he is ok with sanchi's Alliance... when asked by shiv and ira.. so what is she to assume?
Now: When Anandi will find out abotu sanchi's true colors.. lets see how she will change her ways in her dealing.
She will of course support Jagya and ganga.. in fact she will be the one to convince the whole family for their alliance.
The sad part is she will be bashed even then. As to why is she getting involved. Why can't she let Jagya figure out how to get ganga for himself. What many are unable to understand is its nto that she is getting involved. its because since childhood Jagya has always been dependent of Anandi. and Anandi has always taken care of Jagya and that is what they are trying to show here.
The weird bond that has happened between the ex-es cause of their marriage in childhood. We are unable to understand it... and even loathe it because, naturally we did not get married when we were 8.
so in other words...balvivah is a no no.
They cannot show a beautiful without complex relationship between Jagya and Anandi that means they are ok with bal vivah rather it has to be shown as a mess. and that is what that is happening.
This is why I say Anandi is not mahan. She got her flaws but she does her best and thats what counts.
