where did they went wrong....

my dear friends,

after long time again a topic form me.... hope you will reply... so I will know what you think/feel....

Nahar singh....

then: he came, rocked saloni's world ( and ours😳😆....) he was the knight... we where all waiting for... that dashing and handsome guy.... with the promise to make saloni happy😳....

he was so what we wanted for saloni... understanding, loving and trusting guy... ( mamis/lav and raksha, am I forgetting something, please let me know... will ad it...) charming, handsome,❤️ jovial, sensitive, intelligent, elegant, suave❤️ , graceful, affable, kind, endearing, pleasant, cheerful, ❤️ bewitching, refined, alluring....... 😍 will go on and on..... ( lav... I do listen and keeping my word.....so look here it is🤣....)

at this moment he was just a nice looking guy ... not more....but I think he stole our hearts, when he proofed himself worthy off saloni...this by taking her to mumbai and try to unit her with Neel... his own pain was there but he choose the happiness for these 2 people above his own....( that he was behaving utterly stupid🤪... was not his fault... )

and then came him standing next to her, to fight her battle... he supported her when she needed him... her pain became his also... they where not in love anymore but where becoming soul mates❤️... they where connecting more...

after his raaz... saloni left him but was that a wrong decision... I thought always the reason for her to break up was not the fact that he was married or a killer but the fact that he didn't trusted her enough....

after that storm their bond became tidier... and they where complete devoted to each other... ( let me know if I am wrong...)

then how come when sunder boy ( yug) comes along nahar is becoming insecure about his saloni.... how it possible not for him to open up to saloni and have a talk about this.... why did he suspected her....because till date, he has no proof off her cheating on him....

Now: nahar... is not more then a loser... he did injustice to saloni, and he doesn't deserve her anymore... was he really that man we fell for... where is he...

❓where did they went wrong....

note: nahar will not fall for devika...I don't think he will mess his and his family live up again... therefore I am not taking her name... and the possibility off him cheating on saloni.....( my opinion)

I agree shali this is not the same Nahar awonderful, cariing, loving man. I too despise him now. How can you allege your wife of having an affair while you go and spend nights at other woman's house. Is marital relation that weak that you never ask your spouse question and make judgements on hear see.
I am totally disapoointed with SP makers for shredding our trust in ideal and beautiful marraige.

That was so beautifully written shali 👏
I agree, the way they have turned the character of Nahar, they have made him a total hypocrite. How could he not trust Saloni who stood by him through everything. Even his family trusts her, then why not he? 😡

Originally posted by: ramas

I agree shali this is not the same Nahar awonderful, cariing, loving man. I too despise him now. How can you allege your wife of having an affair while you go and spend nights at other woman's house. Is marital relation that weak that you never ask your spouse question and make judgements on hear see.
I am totally disapoointed with SP makers for shredding our trust in ideal and beautiful marraige.

thank you dear for your reply.... I can always count on you....

this new nahar is disappointing.... ( so I hope he is just pretending....)

Indeed you are right... what is nahar doing over at devika's.... what is his intention... but as I already wrote, he wont bring her in the family again....because her face already did harm his fly....

nahar isn't the only person, who is wrong here... saloni made her mistake also....

Originally posted by: ~*seema*~

That was so beautifully written shali 👏
I agree, the way they have turned the character of Nahar, they have made him a total hypocrite. How could he not trust Saloni who stood by him through everything. Even his family trusts her, then why not he? 😡

seema thank you very much....

these are the Q... witch are bordering me to.... but never forget he also stood right beside her... and proof himself....

so was it that what we thought the had never excited.... where we wrong to belief their marriage would overcome all hurdles.... where we expecting to much....

seema... a few month ago I was talking to my best friend: she told me this: that most marriages fail in the first year.... because the lack off communication and understanding....

was that that the case here also...

Originally posted by: shali

thank you dear for your reply.... I can always count on you....

this new nahar is disappointing.... ( so I hope he is just pretending....)

Indeed you are right... what is nahar doing over at devika's.... what is his intention... but as I already wrote, he wont bring her in the family again....because her face already did harm his fly....

nahar isn't the only person, who is wrong here... saloni made her mistake also....

shali saloni was wrong. But Nahar had actually cheated her by not telling he was married. Put your self in saloni's postion think if you find out from outside your husband was married before which he never told you. Saloni stood by him. Here saloni is not at fault. She has neither cheated him nor broken his trust.

Originally posted by: shali

seema thank you very much....

these are the Q... witch are bordering me to.... but never forget he also stood right beside her... and proof himself....

so was it that what we thought the had never excited.... where we wrong to belief their marriage would overcome all hurdles.... where we expecting to much....

seema... a few month ago I was talking to my best friend: she told me this: that most marriages fail in the first year.... because the lack off communication and understanding....

was that that the case here also...

You are welcome Shali😊

Yes shali, I think your friend is right. Lack of communication, trust and understanding along with Love is the foundation of a marriage. No marriage can survive even if one of those are missing. I think that was the case in Nahar- Saloni's marriage too. There is no doubt that they love each other. Nahar is angry with Saloni right now, but he loves her just as much as he did before and vice versa, but inspite of that the marriage will fail if they do not communicate.

I just hope both of them can talk, without outside interferences😉.

Originally posted by: ramas

shali saloni was wrong. But Nahar had actually cheated her by not telling he was married. Put your self in saloni's postion think if you find out from outside your husband was married before which he never told you. Saloni stood by him. Here saloni is anot at fault. She has neither cheated him nor broken his trust.

no raksha.... saloni is to blame also.... her blind trust in sunder boy has driven them apart.... she didn't do it intentionly but still it has caused her her marriage....sunder boy took advantage off her...

and the hole first wife case was indeed nahar's fault... so I do understand saloni....but the reason for her to walk away was ( in my opinion) his lack off trust.....

Shali: Well written 👏 . for adding: charming, handsome,❤️ jovial, sensitive, intelligent, elegant, suave❤️ , graceful, affable, kind, endearing, pleasant, cheerful, ❤️ bewitching, refined, alluring....... 😍 will go on and on.....

No SP is trying to show the life's ups and downs. After all they are human too. Nahar is trying to teach Saloni share with your life-partner and Not let your kindness make you gullible to deception. People might take undue adv of you. Saloni shd trust and have faith in Nahar but she didnt bother to inform him. This is the lesson she will learn.N-S bond well and will be soon united.

Wait for the whole thing to come out we all may be pleasantly surprised 😳 . Trust SP makers no tto spoil such a ❤️ charac.

Originally posted by: shali

no raksha.... saloni is to blame also.... her blind trust in sunder boy has driven them apart.... she didn't do it intentionly but still it has caused her her marriage....sunder boy took advantage off her...

and the hole first wife case was indeed nahar's fault... so I do understand saloni....but the reason for her to walk away was ( in my opinion) his lack off trust.....

saloni spends more time with yug that is her fault but then Naahr does same with devika why should he be angry with saloni. Naahr does not understand saloni. But slaoni understand him spending with devika. Saloni is required to spend time with yug naahr does not require to spend time with devika.

Saloni is only at fault not to understand Nahar's feeling about yug. But she tries to avoid.