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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: nikkie
Ye Jagya kambakht roz ek bomb phod hi deta hai 👏

Abhi tak "Main Ganga ko chodne Mangalore jaa raha hoon" 🤔

And now "Main Ganga se milne Mangalore jaa raha hoon"

Aur bechari Sumi is like 😲

And then

Jagya ab to apni Maa ke dayaa karo 😆

After Ganga se milne Mangalore jaa raha hoon I wonder what it is going to be?😕

Probably the next bomb will be Mujhe Ganga Chahiye 😛😉😆

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Picasso9

@Picasso9

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

I agree with you Angie. I've also maintained that this is not against Sumitras nature. And you have quite succinctly explained it.

Yes Sumi never felt like she will lose control with Ansndi the way she did with Gauri and now Ganga. Also during Jaan, it was very easy for Sumi to play good cop to Ds's bad cop when it came to choti Anandi. Hence her 'control' over Anandi.

Well said Angie.

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Niharika Mishra

@NiharikaMishra

Dazzler

+ 8

Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Guys, thanks for all your inputs 😊

And if you notice the tone of my post, it is nowhere literally meaning Sumi is a hapless woman here

It was all a satire at however hard she is trying, all her efforts to keep JaGan at bay are turning futile 😆

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Angie

@Angie12

Rocker

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Picasso, thanks. I like your analogy of good cop/bad cop for Sumitra/earlier Dadi. I agree that it was easy for Sumitra to be nice to Anandi because Dadisa was doing all the damage. However, Dadi has always been open in whatever she does. She did try to emotionally manipulate Shiv/Anandi into breaking up the engagement so that Jagya could get back Anandi, but she admitted her mistake and apologized. Sumitra does everything hidden and has different motives than just pure love for Jagya.

Nikkie, I got your satire. I was just responding to other posts and writing in a very general way about Sumitra. I only have just recently started reading posts from this forum because I got interested in Jagya/Ganga track.

Sumitra's character is actually very realistic as this is how many people are in real life. Sumitra in fact is quite a weak character who is surrounded by strong characters - mother-in-law, husband and son. She cannot control her mother-in-law and husband. So it is now the son who was not previously under her control, but is listening to her now in some ways because he is immersed in all these guilt feelings. Ganga is a threat to that hope of control because Sanchi is not showing her true face. So even though she is calling Anandi her true daughter, it is at the moment words because if they were, she would have consulted Anandi before agreeing to this marriage.

As far as Ganga is concerned, I do hope that she is not turned into Anandi - the typical sacrificing heroine and superwoman of TV serials. I like Anandi, but Ganga is a different person despite some basic similarities between the two - their childhood marriage and inner goodness.

She has that inner strength and she has a courage to fight back. But her current weakness and emotional state is understandable too. She has been abused all her life - first by her uncle/aunt and then by in-laws. So she was in survival mode for a long time. But once Jagya gave her refuge and she started feeling safe, she relaxed her guard. Then Dadi's love for her (and Dadi does love her even if family takes priority over that love) and others' affection made her feel part of a loving family for the first time. So she is craving that loss of family and hence that justifies her emotional state. She always wanted to be self-sufficient and still do. But that does not mean that she would not miss having a void of family in her life. So I am okay with how they are showing her so far.

Edited by Angie12 - 12 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Sumitra in fact is quite a weak character who is surrounded by strong characters - mother-in-law, husband and son. She cannot control her mother-in-law and husband. So it is now the son who was not previously under her control, but is listening to her now in some ways because he is immersed in all these guilt feelings.

Exactly what i explained in a post analyzing Sumitra

once more agree entirely

i had said that with 2 strong persons neutralized [ Dadisa mellowed with age and strong headed Jagdish is dealing with his guilt] Sumitra wants to rule

Even when Jagya marries Ganga , Sumitra will ill treat her

The Anandi saasra excuse is a load of hooey , its not about Anandi's happiness or son's happiness at all , it is about Sumitra's happiness

And social snobbery is one of the criterias of her happiness

Ruthlessly using the son's guilt she wants to use him as a tool to get what she wants ...the Shekhars pleased and their virgin , well settled daughter as a bahu for that girl has projected falsely that she will respect Sumitra's queendom .

The girl intends to make none queen but play that role herself , see how she told Jagya to get ready in just 5 minutes for the engagement , it was laughed at by the insensitive elders as a lovable wifely trait

Does Maturity make one so insensitive or does the eye of experience makes u fine tuned to these finer points

Sumitra laughed so lovingly at this display off bossiness by future bahu , the first thing that rude girl will do after entering that house is shake the legs of the throne on which Sumitra sits and topple her .

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vidya0000

@vidya0000

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Sumitra in fact is quite a weak character who is surrounded by strong characters - mother-in-law, husband and son. She cannot control her mother-in-law and husband. So it is now the son who was not previously under her control, but is listening to her now in some ways because he is immersed in all these guilt feelings.

Exactly what i explained in a post analyzing Sumitra

once more agree entirely

i had said that with 2 strong persons neutralized [ Dadisa mellowed with age and strong headed Jagdish is dealing with his guilt] Sumitra wants to rule

Even when Jagya marries Ganga , Sumitra will ill treat her

The Anandi saasra excuse is a load of hooey , its not about Anandi's happiness or son's happiness at all , it is about Sumitra's happiness

And social snobbery is one of the criterias of her happiness

Ruthlessly using the son's guilt she wants to use him as a tool to get what she wants ...the Shekhars pleased and their virgin , well settled daughter as a bahu for that girl has projected falsely that she will respect Sumitra's queendom .

The girl intends to make none queen but play that role herself , see how she told Jagya to get ready in just 5 minutes for the engagement , it was laughed at by the insensitive elders as a lovable wifely trait

Does Maturity make one so insensitive or does the eye of experience makes u fine tuned to these finer points

Sumitra laughed so lovingly at this display off bossiness by future bahu , the first thing that rude girl will do after entering that house is shake the legs of the throne on which Sumitra sits and topple her .