Alcoholics need Rehab- makers pls be practical - Page 3

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Good topic SC WW

Pramad not only needs rehab to detox but he needs psychiatric help too..His drinking issues have a lot to do with how his dysfunctional his family is and how he has been treated. Pramad must take responsibility in his own actions once he became an adult but rest of the family also has played hugh part in Pramad's turning out the way he is..His self esteem, confidence and Manhood has been destroyed by his own father and sister. Mother has spoiled him to compensate the other two..😳

I call Pramad a Rebel and drinking misbehaving out of spite towards his family. Kumud has nothing to do with it..

He is using Kumud as an object to hurt the family as he did not want to marry anyone but family especially father forced him to marry and bringing Kumud in the family as a bahu to solve Mr. Dharmadhikari's problems (A bigda huva son) 😲

Kumud is supposed to reform Pramad. Kumud or any other woman who would have ended up being DIL of Dharmadhikari family would have been taken for granted and assumed to reform Pramad.

The whole family needs counseling, Pramad needs counseling and rehab.

Kumud needs to basically move away from this family until all this happens and decides whether she wants to take Pramad as husband or annull the marriage.

No need for Saras to help her...She has a Desai family who an help and support her..But b4 they truly can help they all need to understand the Psyche Pramad has and what are his trigger points in drinking..Alchoholism and emotional issues connected. Desai family and Kumud are not equipped to handle this. They are no Professionals by any means.

SLB quit showing Kumud as Doctor or Jhansiki rani who can handle it all as she is Pramad's wife...NO SHE CANT.

Show some reality with real life issues like Domestic violence, Dysfunctional family and Alchoholism.

Originally posted by: 20690

What Kumud is doing is not mahan in anyway! She is acting like an uneducated village girl. She is nice for wanting to help him and try to make their relationship work, but that would be by getting him medical rehab help, not trying to be a strong woman who must keep her honor intact for her family!

Originally posted by: SC_wellwisher

>>>>>Really good insight into Pramad's psyche as well as the complicated BD family. However, they have a smarty among them and that is Pramad's sis. She again raised the issue regarding, VC getting Kumud married to Pramad at such short notice. Here she is clearly giving her family the upper hand over VC family and will fight aggressively when the time comes to save her family Izzat. Here there will be a cash between SIL and Kumud each standing up for their parents.