Why cant the family see ??

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I mean which boy whoz marriage has been fixed will be like this -- with least interest for his fiance ? forget the men in the house, but atleast Sumitra being the mother or DS, who so well knows her granson, cant they see that Jagya has NO feeling watsoever for sanchi...neitehr there is a loving mention, neither a concern, neither a sweet-nothings wala phone conversation...I mean ok, may be because of his past baggage he is not enthusiastic, but he is not interested at all, and that means something is amiss in this relationship...or Sumitra is so blinded by her love for Sanchi that she cant see that her son's state ...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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well they were blind before too, when Jagya left for Mumbai and then his trips to Jayetsar became less. Anandi's health deteriorated, she was left sad and moping around.
Did none of the singhs question at that time what is going on between anandi and Jagya? Is he calling her? Is he in touch with her? Does she talk to him via email? He certainly wasn't coming back home.
And particularly after the blow up after anandi's 10th std. results, where anandi told the whole family everything (except the gauri part) ... Jagya just slipped out in the middle of the night after that. Then he never came home for another three years.
Even at that point nobody questioned what was going on between the j-a relationship? It was obvious to everyone at that point that J had developed some sort of contempt for A because of her low education etc. There was no resolution to the situation at that point... and they allowed it to become a festering sore.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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These are just the tricks to drag the story. The family is blind about Jagya's relationships (earlier with Anandi/Gauri and now with Sanchi/Ganga) and Jagya can shout at her mother for her inability to stop Ganga from going out of haveli during night, but he will not share his dil ka hal with any of his family members. Since Sanchi is planning/plotting, there is no sympathy with her, but actually Jagya and his family are doing injustice to his future wife (if it was any normal girl), because she is going to be married to someone who is just not interested in this relationship and goes after another woman even if to help her, but it is clear that he will always care more for that woman (compared with his wife).
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Posted: 12 years ago
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the singhs emotionally blackmailed him to accept the rishta bcoz its anandis saasra... shouldnt sensible parents tell jagya to agree to the rishta if he wants to and not bcoz its anandis saasra.😕.they didnt even tell take your time and then make a call knowing that it is goin to be his 3rd marriage.😕...bhairav daadisa sabki budhi brasht hogayi thi kya😲
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why cant family see-exactly they donot want to see its simply that-they only want Jagya marrried-never mind if the bride is cunning,childish,selfish BUT SHE SHOULD NOT BE DECENT?UNDERSTANDING LIKE GANGA!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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after two failed marriages Singhs should have been extra-extra careful for jagya's marriage this time.

they know he made mistakes but why dont they remember DS's mistakes.

also Jagya went thru horrendous phase after breakup from gauri ,
on the top of that he feels guilty for anandi .

this is a big time joke how can singh family be so insensitive about mental state of jagya, why cant they see he is not interested in this marriage .

Forcing someone into third marriage beyond my imagination.😒
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: champawati

after two failed marriages Singhs should have been extra-extra careful for jagya's marriage this time.


they know he made mistakes but why dont they remember DS's mistakes.

also Jagya went thru horrendous phase after breakup from gauri ,
on the top of that he feels guilty for anandi .

this is a big time joke how can singh family be so insensitive about mental state of jagya, why cant they see he is not interested in this marriage .

Forcing someone into third marriage beyond my imagination.😒

rightly said (in bold) -- third marriage and they are forcing J (pity him), infact they shd have been extra extra cautious and given time for J to think b4 deciding...CVs bhi na -- jus for drama, all this crrap
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If singhs are to be blamed what happened to the collective intelligence of shekhars the so called eprogressive family-jus bcoz the daughter is starting to make empty threats -agree to an alliance-??????Ira who was so against a double divorcee-yes bcoz sanchi said so??????And its not clear that she has totally accepted Anandi (slight fire from sanchi & she starts doubting Anandi, so !!!!)
The fall back of this alliance breaking will solely be on Shiv-Anandi's relation, bcoz anandi we know will support jagya if he breaks the alliance since she knows he loves Ganga or atleast nurses feelings for her,And shiv willl not take this lying down since he forewarned jagya if he is not interested in the alliance not to go ahead.
Also dadisa cant she see through J 's eyes he is least interested .Bhairon has become deaf, dumb & mute all together!!!
Tough times for Anandi ahead

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