I don't feel sorry for Ira at allđ
What CM and Shiv said was objective and right . It is an adult's choice to make . Ira cannot really decide which vocation an adult should take and how he or she must leave it or go about it if there is a risky element in it .
Daddu was in the army , he had risk of being shot throughout his lifetime
There r many women IPS officers who have the same risk .
Its a choice an adult makes .
Her suggestion that each time Shiv will go with u is ridiculous . Shiv is not a chapraasi to be available all 24 hrs as per Anandi's schedule . He is a collector , a very busy man with his own tight schedule .
Her saying that if anything happens to Anandi u all will be responsible is unfair too . She is very quick to make others unfairly responsible for any calamity ...she had made the whole house responsible for Saanchi's rape attempt saying they could not protect her adequately and told Shiv that she would hold him responsible if the court set the miscreants free .
U see , she is expert at unfair blames .
If anything happens to Anandi it is the hazardous risk one takes while stepping in the vocation of social work . And Anandi knows this well and still has opted for it consciously .
She knew very well what she was doing when she was arguing heatedly with rowdy chauvinistic men in a bar .
Ira and Sumitra try to do the overall welfare of the family in a most unacceptable way instead of working on the flaws in their own nature .
She had a point , thats it . Bahu still opted to go by her decision .
She is lucky to find mature Anandi as her bahu who ignores all her petty tantrums and does not start mahabharat in the house . I wish Ashima comes as the next bahu and gives her and Saanchi properly .