Bianca good post and appreciate how you trying to show justice on Raji side .. a good one indeed. 😃Originally posted by: Daffodilee
Raji is confused now thats fine bcoz she loves her father and karthik too much,but she cant escape by tagging "am a traditional girl".bcoz she already crosed those traditional mindset.Raji wants to go with karthik in bike,she wants to holds his hands ,she wants share choclates,she allowed karthik to select her dress,.in every situation she over comed her culture,so its not the reason.its just a reason for her to escape.
But still as anu had mention above.. Raji can no longer try to be under the tag she is a traditional girl as for various reasons which already many of other members have posted here.
Obviously bianca, being an Indian girl we are all brought up with culture and traditions despite where we are .. india malaysia or UK. But tradition has nothing to do with attitude or thinking of the person. As for Raji its not tradition brought up that putting fear on her. If she had wanted, she long could have gone back and tried to talk to her father and persuade him. Father though with so much attitude on him, i have notice in few scenes where he had indirectly told Raji he would never force her to do something she is against it. Why even when he was in ICU, he could sense his daughter does not like it thus he did not encourage the marriage there at that time.
What Raji should have done is trying to talk to her father about this and if its not accepted then to tell him that she has made up her mind whom would be a good life partner for her and if father is against it then to never bug her about marriage. And she could have told Karthik that she loves him but besides this love and care she is unable to promise anything beyond it. At least it that way it will give Karthik an opportunity to either choose to wait for her or to try to help to solve this issue or to walk away. Instead of keeping in and making him go crazy as his unable to decide what without a proper confirmation from Raji.
I can no longer see Raji being under the said tag "tradition girl or tradition upbringing" as right now all i can see on her is she being selfish.
Thank again bianca for this topic. You have made many to think in different points 👍🏼 Once again this is just opinion and nothing on besides that 😃