Were Zoila and Suavee right?

Hey, friends... this topic is about the drama serial "Thora Saath Chahiye".

Those, who watch the show, know that Zoila and Suavee fell in love with each other while they were married to Sarah and Muneem. Now my question is, were they actually right in going so far as to interacting with each other secretly...

Muneem forbade Zoila to talk to Suavee ever again... but still she talked to him... not only talked to him, but also met him in the restaurant. After that, they also exchanged their mobile numbers at talked at night regularly.

Do you think it's morally right to do that? They actually BETRAYED their partners and were unfaithful. Especially Zoila even lied a few times when Muneem asked her about Suavee.

In my opinion, Zoila and Suavee were very wrong. They should not have betrayed their partners like that. [Although I hate Sarah, she treats everyone so badly, this churail]. But still, Sarah was Suavee's wife and Suavee's emotions should've been for her only... and same was the case with Zoila. But they were wrong in doing so, if you ask me.

What you think, guys?

well if we see ethically it is wrong. well, i dont think muneem was wrong when he proposed to zoila because he actually fell in love with her, but i guess his way of proposing was a little wrong. He said something like tumhe security main doonga agar tum mere se shaadi kar logi.. something.... he could have said, you stay here, you are secure. i love you and i will wait for your answer. Zoila wanted security at that time and she gave in. But i think he was pretty good/romantic with her all the time. but it was her who always ignored him..... so i feel ZOILA is very WRONG here.........
Then comes Saivee and Sara, yes Sara and shaazia, they both are same thing. Just two different ways they have..... sara married saivee because she wanted to feel young or show her sister that she can get a young man in her life (what a miserable life!!!!!!)... anyways, saivee married her because he was under many "ehsaans".... Saivee has not been veyr active member of the family (like shaazia's husband who is always after money).... so i think saivee was not wrong in leaving Sara, because she always wanted him to dance around her and say yes ot whatever she says. so in this case SAIVEE was NOT WRONG.
However, for Saivee and Zoila to be together, they had to leave both their partners. I am a girl, but i still will say that if i was Zoila, and if i did not want to marry an old man, i would have left his house right away when he proposed. But at that time she needed him and she actually USED Muneem. And if i was in her shoes and if i decided to marry Muneem, i would make every effort to understand his love for me and try to give him back atleast 1/2 of what he would have for me. ZOILA did NOT try it at all and it is very obvious from the way they have protrayed this drama. He would be talking to him romantically and she would ignore him and say, "i will get tea for you etc...." some people might say that it was not his love, but lust for a young woman, but as we all know, he actually fell in love with her and if it was lust, she was there with him in the bedroom every night and he could have done anything he wanted (even though that would be really bad and i wouldnt like him at all after that)... but he didnt do anything if she wasnt willing. So i do not think Muneem was wrong at all.
But now after he joined hands with Sara and got both of them kidnapped..... i have to see, how it goes................

Originally posted by: sonu98

well if we see ethically it is wrong. well, i dont think muneem was wrong when he proposed to zoila because he actually fell in love with her, but i guess his way of proposing was a little wrong. He said something like tumhe security main doonga agar tum mere se shaadi kar logi.. something.... he could have said, you stay here, you are secure. i love you and i will wait for your answer. Zoila wanted security at that time and she gave in. But i think he was pretty good/romantic with her all the time. but it was her who always ignored him..... so i feel ZOILA is very WRONG here.........
Then comes Saivee and Sara, yes Sara and shaazia, they both are same thing. Just two different ways they have..... sara married saivee because she wanted to feel young or show her sister that she can get a young man in her life (what a miserable life!!!!!!)... anyways, saivee married her because he was under many "ehsaans".... Saivee has not been veyr active member of the family (like shaazia's husband who is always after money).... so i think saivee was not wrong in leaving Sara, because she always wanted him to dance around her and say yes ot whatever she says. so in this case SAIVEE was NOT WRONG.
However, for Saivee and Zoila to be together, they had to leave both their partners. I am a girl, but i still will say that if i was Zoila, and if i did not want to marry an old man, i would have left his house right away when he proposed. But at that time she needed him and she actually USED Muneem. And if i was in her shoes and if i decided to marry Muneem, i would make every effort to understand his love for me and try to give him back atleast 1/2 of what he would have for me. ZOILA did NOT try it at all and it is very obvious from the way they have protrayed this drama. He would be talking to him romantically and she would ignore him and say, "i will get tea for you etc...." some people might say that it was not his love, but lust for a young woman, but as we all know, he actually fell in love with her and if it was lust, she was there with him in the bedroom every night and he could have done anything he wanted (even though that would be really bad and i wouldnt like him at all after that)... but he didnt do anything if she wasnt willing. So i do not think Muneem was wrong at all.
But now after he joined hands with Sara and got both of them kidnapped..... i have to see, how it goes................

Haan, yaar... I totally agree with you. Muneem really was in love with Zoila and he treated her REALLY well. He even called her in the morning to apologize after Zoila had called him at night. And what also annoyed me was, when Zoila was always like "Imran Bhai jail se to nahi bhaag gaey". Muneem goes "meri jazbon kee shiddat" and Zoila goes "Imran bhai jail mein hee hain na?" This was really sick of her...

And yes, I also think Muneem actually used the situation and Zoila used him back. I hated the way Zoila always lied to him when she was asked about Suavee.

But I also have to say that I don't think Suavee was totally innocent. In some cases he was also really wrong... whatever it was, he was Sarah's husband and he shouldn't have started this affair with Zoila. If he was so much under pressure cuz of Sarah's ehsanaat, he should've been faithful towards her, too. But no, he got involved in Zoila.

Still, I do agree with you that Suavee was not AS wrong as Zoila, but he WAS wrong.

Well I think Ziola and suavee did the right thing. They married both of their partners during trouble time. It wasn't their choice. Suavve was the only one who supported zoila and listened to her problems. Everything i sfair in LOVE AND WAR! 😛

i totally agree with amy!

I think Sarah was treating Savee really bad, and Moeen was playing with Zoila's emotions.
Both Savee and Zoila needed someone to share their problems that's how they became friends and start liking eachother!I think they did the right thing!

And i've to say Fahad and Benish look really good togather!

yo guys
u are just talking about if "things went right for muneem". this is not the topic.
zoila was not wrong in marrying muneem for security becasue religiously marriage has the security bit in it anyways.
muneem also gave her whatever she wanted but it was more of a playful lustful thing to have a young girl but again she agreed to it so i guess she was given a a fair choice.
there is one thing which is right and one thing which is wrong. sneaking behind one's partner is bad no matter what. i mean if you are sneaking because your partner is bad even then it is not a good excuse because in that case you should just leave him/her instead of cheating. so their romance n stuff was wrong because it was all like "chup chup ke milna" so ofcourse that is wrong.
however, it is not wrong to fall in love and it is certainly not wrong to remarry the person of your own choice. if savy and zoila want to leave their respective spouses for each other that is totally fine as far as religion is concerned. but cheating is a no no.
u guys are forgetting the most biggest doofestest thing they showed in the drama was zoila meeting savvy during her "iddat". yooooooooooooo man that is total corruption man. that is something which struck me reallly bad. i mean U HAVE TO SIT THROUGH THE IDDAT MAN!!!! CMON.

Hey, atifaslam... I agree with you partly. Chup chup kay milna was certainly wrong and for Zoila it was even worse as Muneem had forbidden her to talk to Suavee ever again. But she just kept on lying to him. I really disliked that. But I disagree when you say that you can just get divorced and marry another person. I mean, Zoila needed Muneem, she used him. He also treated her soooooooooooooo well [although I felt a little disgusted sometimes thinking that she is like 20 and he some 50 or something]... but she was very selfish in cheating on him like that. I don'T approve of Suavee's actions, either...
And can you explain this iddat thing to me? Aren't women allowed to talk to another man during iddat? [I mean, no-one's allowed to talk to a non-mehrum if not necessary, but let's talk about iddat now].

hi amy
i agree with you. i feel zoila was wrong, and of course saivee was too.......... and please explain iddat to me as i am a non muslim and i really dont know about it....... as much as i understand, iddat is that the girl can not have any relaitons with a man for those 40 days or something... what about men......... dotn they have this kind of limitation.... please let me know

hey amy
i see that people can hae their favorites n stuff but i am just commenting on religious point of view. it is possible for one to fall in love with someone else and so in that case it is ok to re marry. however much unfair it might seem for the spouse but u cant stop love.

ohhh and a very imporatant question u posed regarding iddat. iddat is very important in islam and this is how it is supposed to be followed.
after divorce or death of a husband a woman must not come in contact with another man ( not even confront or see men and be seen by them) for around 5-6 months. this is to protect the woman in the case that she might be pregnant from the dying or the divorcing husband. this is for the woman's protection. if she is pregnant by a dying or a divorcing husband then her aloofness from the men for 6 months will prove that her baby is her previous husband's and this way no one has a chance to call the baby illegitimate (from an affair post divorce or post husband's death).
so this step is veryyyyy important for a woman. i hope i explained u. perhaps your mom can tell u in detail. i wish i could explain it better.
this is a very important thing and i am glad u asked so that now other people can also learn from it.
good question amy. 👏

oh and this also proves who exactly is the father of the baby. that is why it is not possible or let's say it is unislamic to marry right after divorce otherwise there will be problems regarding if the baby belongs to the new marriage or from the old marriage.