best friend=life? - Page 2

Well,best friend is indeed a vital part of our lives.For me,whenever me and my best friend have a little arguement,it disturbs me alot-because my entire life revolves around my family and friends.
As far as trust is considered,with due passage of time,the relationship of friendship gets so strong,if it is sincere,than trust itself grows.
I'd like to conclude with my acute views that I can do have blind trust upon my family,and friends-they are my life-both constitutes me!

Interesting question Moni. I will get back to this topic..needs some thinking.

Ok mooni me back-

There are lot of relation where you can trust someone else with something as precious as our life. Not only friendship. However, friendship is also one of those relation where you can trust someone as much. I think most of the times as we grow friends don't change but relationship does change based on situation and circumstances. You don't find same "trusting your life" wali baat in that relation. Just like love is not our life, it is "part" of our life. I think friendship is also not our life. It is "part" of our life. Sometimes you feel like you can die for your friendship, but your other relationships does not give you freedom to commit your life for your friend. In that case to answer your question, no relationship cannot be as strong so you can die for someone. I think relationship is like a web that is tied closely among other threads of your life. Sometimes you cannot give equal justice to all the relationships even if you want to due to circumstances.
When we say –"you are my friend, I can give my life for you"- that quote is based on that current situation, it can change over the time. So I think there are no strict yes or no to your question. It depends upon, individual, circumstances, situation.
To answer your last question- what is trust? I think when someone has faith in you, and you have communicated and committed them to that trust that you will keep this promise that is trust. Sometimes we also misunderstand breaking trust when it is one way trust. You blame opposite person for breaking your trust for something he has not ever committed to you, but you just took it for granted.
Do I make sense 🤔

Originally posted by: egghatcher

Best friends can be found in one's family too
Be it sister, wife , mother , father , brother or close cousin .... If all of the above fails apply here ..... I am offering my services Pro Bono.. 😆
Also do not forget spirituality ...... after everything fails .....we have a good sounding board in our creator... befriend him/her and you dont need a mortal friend 👏 👍🏼 👏

Eggy ji!

Once in a while you write perfect things which make sense😉 and I agree with what u have said in this post😊

Originally posted by: egghatcher

Also do not forget spirituality ...... after everything fails .....we have a good sounding board in our creator... befriend him/her and you dont need a mortal friend 👏 👍🏼 👏

That was lucid and perfect and i mean perfect!!

One must be a good friend with him/her self along with being a friend with the creator which is god. If one is not connected to their innerself there could be some issues. Soul Searching is another way of having our own self as sounding board. Usually we know when we are doing something good or bad. Between being best friends with ourselves and god I dont think one can go wrong 😃 .

At the same time I personally like having friends because I do get another perspective. Our own thinking may be not clear if we only talk to ourselves. Our judgement could be clouded 😳

Just IMHO.