Mahi & Ashima Sex - Is It Wrong?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I personally think it aint wrong...

its a feeling...fu*k happens...

many people would disagree with me, but i wanna know why?

Also, if you do agree...just halla...



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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with you šŸ‘šŸ¼ There is nothing wrong with them sleeping together if they want to. But they should exercise caution both physically (using contraception) and emotionally (because Mahi is Shiv's brother, and that means that Ashima's attraction to him is potentially emotionally unhealthy, and they should discuss stuff candidly and clearly to make sure that they both consent to whatever it is they want to do with each other).
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Posted: 12 years ago
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YIKES!!!
Murky areas 😲

anywayzz.. My pov is that.. having physical relations before marriage is not correct. It leads to complications and paves ways to many unnecessary issues. Eventually leaving to the weakness of the entire marital structure.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

YIKES!!!

Murky areas 😲

anywayzz.. My pov is that.. having physical relations before marriage is not correct. It leads to complications and paves ways to many complications.



thanks for sharing
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SiriuslySujal

I agree with you šŸ‘šŸ¼ There is nothing wrong with them sleeping together if they want to. But they should exercise caution both physically (using contraception) and emotionally (because Mahi is Shiv's brother, and that means that Ashima's attraction to him is potentially emotionally unhealthy, and they should discuss stuff candidly and clearly to make sure that they both consent to whatever it is they want to do with each other).


i agree with that


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Honestly it depends on ur perspective.There are people(specially aborad) for whom its not a big thing.Neither is it for their family.So if they do it it with protection isnt a big thin.But if in any case a person's perspective is or his family's values are against PMS they should avoid it.Because its all about ur beliefs in life.It isnt something bad like smoking or drugs.Its not right or wrong.It all depends on ur and your family's beleifs.

For Ashi and Mahi it was wrong bcoz neither of them wanted to do it nor are their families too liberal about it.So it was wrong on their part

PS - I dont say that ashi involving with mahi is wrong...thats totally fine...after all u cant be stuck for whole life on one person.But yea she n mahi falling pre to a weak moment is not right.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It was ok, according to me.

Yes, she's hung up on Shiv but the sparks have been on between her and Mahi since they met in the hotel. There will be emotional reprecussions, of course, but it's not wrong.
Maybe hasty, but not wrong.

I like the pairing. 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It really depends on personal preferences. Some consider pre-marital intimacy to be wrong others don't and some believe it is up to each person to pick their preference. Aashima and Mahi happened in weird circumstances. There are emotional complications, she still seems to be trying to get over Shiv and it was hasty and premature considering the circumstances.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Honestly it depends on ur perspective.There are people(specially aborad) for whom its not a big thing.Neither is it for their family.So if they do it it with protection isnt a big thin.But if in any case a person's perspective is or his family's values are against PMS they should avoid it.Because its all about ur beliefs in life.It isnt something bad like smoking or drugs.Its not right or wrong.It all depends on ur and your family's beleifs.

For Ashi and Mahi it was wrong bcoz neither of them wanted to do it nor are their families too liberal about it.So it was wrong on their part

PS - I dont say that ashi involving with mahi is wrong...thats totally fine...after all u cant be stuck for whole life on one person.But yea she n mahi falling pre to a weak moment is not right.



@bold: As far as I know, they haven't done anything yet... or have they? I'm confused šŸ˜• I assumed from written updates that in a moment of attraction, kuch kuch hote hote reh gaya, and because things got awkward, Mahi decided to leave? Perhaps I am confused due to not having actually watched the scenes...


If something has already happened between them, though, I don't agree that neither of them of wanted it. There is a friendship/connection there, and Mahi certainly did want it, which is why he made a move. As for Ashi, she is confused and conflicted, but presumably is at least somewhat attracted to Mahi, and hence isn't entirely averse to the idea...? Anyway, they are both adults with functioning brains and their own personal moral codes, and as long as no-one's forcing anything on anyone else, it shouldn't be a problem. And moments of weakness are only human! Constant mahaanta is unrealistic to expect of anyone. I really wish serials didn't set such standards with their heroes and heroines and showed viewers that flaws and weaknesses are OK to have and not the end of the world...


I do agree with you, though, that the morality of pre-marital sex is very dependent on one's own belief system. If someone chooses to abstain until marriage, that should be respected (which it often isn't in Western society), and if someone chooses to indulge before marriage, that should also be respected (which it often isn't in more traditional societies!).
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think this physical intimacy would have looked better
If Ashima would have been free of feelings than i guess this all wouldn't have looked bad
If Mahi and Ashima both would have been attracted towards each other or at least in a relation
I just wish that whatever remains till there and CVs don't proceed with pregnancy stuff because it will look odd that Ashima is confused about her feelings and to some extent still in love with Mahi's brother and even Mahi is just attracted to her but they are being bonded with such bond like parentage

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