View on shiv, ipshita, nikhila and gauri

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hi,

i think,

shiv: was selfish when he married as all he wanted was ippi for his whole life and since ippi and his mother both forced him to marry a girl who will die in few months after which he can marry the love of his life....but i want to ask shiv... doesn't he have brains...or humanity... or does he think that his love is greater than anyones life and how come when he is feeling guilty he still wants gauri to stay with him.... only because he wants his ippi back in his life for ever.... what guilt... i don't think shiv should even be guilty.... he is not worth it.... you take someones emotions and their life forgranted...as yours and leave them to die .... and say that you are feeling guilty.... thats not it....😡

If you feel so much and you know that she will die if she is with you... just say her everything and just leave her alone and make her go away... then your guilt is justified... and no ones promise is as big as some ones life....

you promised your mother that you will not say the whole truth so that she will not die... if you want to make her happy ...then just tell gauri that you hate her and donot want her in your life...and make her go away... what so ever it takes.... but i personally don't think that your making a promise to your mother is worth someones life.... thats wierd... and you say you feel guilty... thats not done...😡

Ipshita : She is not one to be even loved a bit.... she was behind gauri to make her and shiv's realtion ok...so that...they consumate and then gauri will die... and i don't think she even knows what love is..... if you love a person you gie your life for that person with out a condition... but she cannot do that for her love then.... why say that she loves him.....

Also, if you at least have the sense of love in you...you would be crying your heart out for giving shiv to someone else...and would have left shiv alone and would have never showed your face and kept your self away from all this.... and would have atleast tried to be patient... and trying things out with that Guruji to make things simpler and make gauri come out of all this without loosing her life....

She has not even one % of humanity that normally people have.... she is too selfish to even think about a persons life.... if she has real faith in her love...leave gauri and shiv alone for few months... and just go away from all this...then i would atleast have thought... her parents and other might have forced her to do so..... but she would have given her life.....to live with her love..... what a degrading character of love...and passion...😡

Nikhila : This character... one can understand her point of view...being a mother of an only child.... she wants her son to live happly married ...but she did a big mistake by making a plan and traping gauri into this knowing that she is mahens best friends daughter.... if you really want your sons married happy life...marry him to some one who would take the money you give and would just stay with him.... or.... tell the thing to everyone... in the family...and then... make your son love that person.... who has decied to give her life....

How can you take a decision whether a person should live or die.... its a persons own choice.... if she wants to live or die.... you decied someones fate without telling that person what is to endure her.... and you think that you are doing right....

and on top of all of this...you donot have even guilt that you have done all this... and you think that...everything is correct... because you did it.... how unearthly....

You couldnot even be truthful to the son who trusts you so much....you blackmail him...so that he doesnot say the truth to his wife.... at least if you had really taken the sleeping tablets or waht so ever to die... i would have thought that.... may be she wants this dosh to go away from his sons life.... and she cannot tolerate the truth coming out at a point where she has done so much bad to get to this stage... and would want it once and for all to go away.... you couldn't even do that.... when you cannot sacrifice your own life for your son.... you love your life so much...but donot even care two hoods for another persons life....

I would have thought aplauded you if you had felt sorry or realised the worth of a life...atleast when others told you.... and would have realised that your daughter-in-law is a very good person..... and taking her life is a bad thing... and atleast for once...realised that.... "i did this wrong..all this is wrong...i shouldnot have done this.... for my own selfish motives i am taking a persons life.... i should stop all this now... " and just go get both of them separated and then asked for forgiveness from all of them... but you wen to the other extent of.... asking the girls father to send their daughter and you would give her money for that... as she has to die for her son.... Is there anything worse that one can do.... and after all this do you think you should have a normal life.... i would say you should have all the worlds hard things on you.... and you suffer all your life for doing this....

Gauri : You love a person ..who doesnot love you but since you donot know that he is already in love with another person...you still think that oneday or the other...he will love you... absoluthely fair... and as a indian girl waiting for your husband to love you is not a bad thing....

But, When you new that if you stay in this marriage you would die.... it doesn't get out of mind one question.... " Don't you think your life is not only your own but also all those persons who have brought you to this earth... who gave you this life... and who with out asking you gave you all the things you needed for 20 years of your life..... don't you think giving away your life for a person you just married a year ago... is making the love for your parents worthless ....????" wonder ...did you ever love your parents... or felt that...they have done all this because its their duty... thats it... there is no love... and you say you love your parents... how????

Please after reading all this give your comments what you think about the thing i have mentioned here.... i would really want you to share your feeling and what you think.... how far am I correct in judging the character..... How far do you think I was able to analyse....

Also give your own views...about them.... and how you would have thought.... and how you would have felt placing yourself in each characters position...what you would have done....

Please leave your comments... i would really want to know what others think ....

thanks,

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hmmmmmm.... too long to read! sorry
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Posted: 19 years ago
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👏 👏 very nice work 👏 i understand what u feel.....i totally agree wid what u said abt ippi...if she really luved him then she should hav given him sumtime alone so that he can handle things properly widout messing them up.....she being around him 24/7 is torturing him.....coz when hez wid gauri he feelz for her n hez wid her he feels guilty for what hez doing wid gauri.....im not at all feeling sorry for shiv....but i really get irritated when i think of ippi coz no girl would stand her luv being shared wid sumone else....so shez just a......i dont know wht to say...i just cant stand her.....
well abt gauri i dont know wht to say 😕
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: San Star

Hmmmmmm.... too long to read! sorry

if u cant read it why post ur comments.....? im sorry if i sound rude but this is exactly wht u did........just imagine if were in his/her place how wud u feel? this is just not done

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Well I'm not a huge fan of Ipshita, but in her defense, she didn't care about the dosh and wanted to marry Shiv, was ready to die for him, it was the rest of the plotters who didn't let her...

Shiv... him feeling guilty at this stage is kinda pointless, its like shooting some1 in cold blood and then feeling sorry about it. Been emotionally blackmailed or whatever into marrying an innocent girl, knowing that she may die bcoz of his actions is selfish beyond belief... To believe his love is worth more than an innocents life. And if he really wanted Gauri to be safe, he shud have done something to ensure that she went away, instead of giving in to her...

Nikhila, I have nothing to say about. That woman is the limit... And I still have yet to fathom why did she pick on Gauri to the bali ki bakri, why pick on someone so close to home...

Thats all from me...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: nazrinkhan

if u cant read it why post ur comments.....? im sorry if i sound rude but this is exactly wht u did........just imagine if were in his/her place how wud u feel? this is just not done

Arre chill, maybe whoever it is, is just trying to get their number of posts up... Don't get worked up about it. I'm sure once it happens to them, they'll realize how rude they've been

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Posted: 19 years ago
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its really nice but a little bit too long

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