Is this the Bani Dixit we waited for???

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hello Everyone!

Let me honest, one reason I was waiting for this leap was primarily for the resurrection of the two lead characters, Jai Walia and Bani! I wanted to see them as strong individuals, who despite what has happened to them, don't nurse negativity towards life and emerge winners, with dignity and respect. But I cant see that happening with Bani at all… I am singling out Bani at this point in time cause Mr. Jai Walia, hasn't yet decided to take his step away from his current situation😡😕.

Bani has taken the first step towards life without Jai! What repulsed me to the core was the fact that my hopes of seeing a strong Bani has gone to the drain😕😭. What made me feel worse was the way Bani reacted to leading the Walia Group of Industries! I lost tad bit of respect that I had for her when I heard her speak as if she earned the right of leading the Walia Group of Industries, And mind u as if it wasn't Walia group but Dixit Industries! She stood there saying that she doesn't need Jai's name to make a new beginning and how self made she was…made me wonder how conveniently did she forget the House, The Business, The Stature, The Recognition she has today and lastly the main reason she chose to live, Krishna is given to her by Jai Walia. I challenge anyone to say she got all of that by being Bani Dixit and being Mrs Jai Walia didnt help her at all… I will retrace my words! The woman who stood in front of the camera wasn't the bani I was expecting to see. She seemed to have lost everything! She has lost her capability to think, reason, talk! What she thinks and what she talks is spoon feed to her by Tarun or Massi! They think for her, and she talks for them😡! Is this what we were waiting for😕? The emergence of a strong Bani? I personally feel I haven't seen her more weak as a character… Now I am sure Jai Walia will get blamed for that aswell😕!

And Tarun… he better stay off my face for his own good😡! He is full-fledged villain is what I can guarantee… the only thing left for us to figure out is what is his purpose of turning into a negative character! The secret love he nurses for Bani or a secret hatred he nurtures for Jai Walia… Only time will tell😕! Tarun one suggestion, if u want Dushmani… I think u need to be honest and upfront in that as well. Atleast prove to be some match to Jai Walia as his enemy… I am sick and tired of seeing spineless people up against Jai and backstabbing him… If i am in for a Jai Walia vs Tarun Sablok, then I want u to be worth Jai's time and energy! If it wasn't for Pawan I would have given up on Tarun completely… but kya kare… me just cant give up on Pawan😳!

The scene that tugged my heart like before for Jai and Bani was the scene Tarun came in between and removed the Dupata and in the process broke Jai's bracelet😡😭. The way Bani reacted…her out stretched hand said a lot! Only if she was strong enough to keep Tarun out of it and done it herself… things would have been different, but as I said… she isnt Bani or Bani Dixit anymore… she has turned into or rather forced into becoming the spokesperson of the Anti-Jai Walia camp!

And the scene that gave me a head ache…without a doubt had to be the mom Dixit's lecture on Motherhood and the promises the Dixit sisters made to their respective Children🤢! It didn't make an impact whatsoever… may it cause of the track record these sisters have as mothers🤢!

The only thing that put a smile on my face today was Pushkar… I loved the guy for his sarcasm. And one more thing, Pushkar saw the way Jai treated Pia… did that have some effect on the way Pushkar thought about Jai?Somehow i felt he didnt feel bitter towards Jai as before(or was i dreaming that part?😕) Is there a possibility that this Guru Chela jodi will reconcile pre-leap and will come back later? Cause Pushkar has no role in Bani's life anymore… Tarun has taken it upon himself to fill up Pushkar's place and is trying his best to take Jai's place as well😡! So Pushkar ka hoga kya?

Last but not the Least, Jai Walia…please get a hold of yourself and get back the Jai Walia I knew and adored😡! Please don't give me another opportunity for me to feel bad about the injustice u r met with! I don't want u overstepping the pedestals of 'Mahatma' That is not meant for you… Do u get it😡? I have had enough of this… I don't want to feel Sorry for you, Jai Walia… I want to be Proud of you… so go build ur life!

Jai said he will wait for another 7 days...now how long is 7 days in Ks calendar😕? I think the leap will happen on 1st feb since it is a Thursday. If we are lucky it might happen on 25 too...since it is a thursday and also cause it adds up to 7... Ekta's fave number! God. I know Ekta and her superstitions too well, Dont I😆? That reminds me... Bani had been to the Tarot card reader? Didnt the cards predict how badly her marriage is going to fail? Strange😕😆!

That's should be almost everything I have to say at this point I guess…

See u all soon.

Lots of Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Anushka you are right about Jai and Bani. Both these wonderful characters are now puppets in the hands of the likes of Pia and Tarun.😕 😡This is so not what I am looking forward to seeing.

I liked your prediction about the Guru-Chela jodi joinint forces. Really hope they do that the kick some bu**s starting with Pia. As regards Tarun he can try all he wants, we all know Bani will never, ever let anyone replace JW in her heart and soul.

Did not understand one thing though. Why did JW have to disclose his plan of telling Bani the truth after 7 days to Pia. Does he not know already that Pia is a loose cannonball and can create so much damage with this kind of information. Especially after the way she betrayed him and made their relationship public on the cliff? Why did he not show his savvyness and keep this info to himself till he actually executed it? 😕😡

About the leap - I have decided not to have any expectation for my own peace of mind.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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anu, even i made a post on how bani is enjoying jai power but doesnot want to have his name...

What i dont understand is when jigs wanted to take jai money and make him penniless bani did all the drama of divorce to save his hard earned money but now she has taken all his money and power and made him penniless and that to what extend some 3rd person tarun had right to throw him out of his farm house 😡 😡 and now bani taking over jai's property was fair and everyone supports her. How reasonable is that.

And today tarun was addressing her as bani dixit in front of the press but he forgot one thing that press was there for Mrs Bani Walia wife of Mr jai walia and not for some Ms Bani Dixit of Mount Abu. 😡 😡 who has a crazy Mom and a good for nothing dad.

Does Rano realise that by bringing the abnormal child into the world she is actually punishing the child. I dont know if i am right or wrong but today i would support sahil in aborting rano's baby.

i think i am done taking out all my frastration for today. Just hoping that tomorrows episode will be worth watching.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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k firstly, i totally agree that we would want strong characters to emerge from jai and bani. but can we please be reasonable. imagine u just came to know ur divorced- would u overnight get over it and become strong? i dont think so! bani is now confused and is still reeling from the betrayal from jai. her not automatically becoming strong reflects tht she still doesnt accept it fully that jai betrayed her.

As for her still staying in WM and taking over Walia industries- why should she leave the house when she didnt do anything wrong? well atleast for now all every1 else knows is tht jai and pia had an ONS even if it didnt happen- no one knows yet. so by her still being in walia mansion reflects that she still considers jai as hr husband. but im looking forward to her leaving walia mansion not because of Jai or because the WM is not hers but so that we can see a stronger bani emerge who does not become strong to get back at jai walia but becuase then she wont be under the influence of tarun or massi and not think properly.

As for Rano aborting the child- i dont think rano should abort the child because she already made a mistake 1st by not taking care of herself and landing her child in such a situation- you want her to make another mistake? how is sahil right? he is just being selfish- this means that his love for hte child will be less because of how the world will treat him? A child's main strength comes from their parents- if the parents shower them with love thn the world cant touch them. and how can u say that rano should abort the baby- even though it will be abnormal it is a life and is apart of her. its her flesh and blood- a mother can give her life away but will always save her child. rano made a mistake by not caring about the child first but now we will see rano being more careful towards her child.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Anu, once again, nicely said.. 👏 👏

I agree with u about Bani..whatever she is standing upon is all Jai's, she would've been nothing if not for his support..even now, if it was'nt for him giving her all his shares in the company, she would'nt be standing there answering to the press conf. If she was really strong she would've just left WM and WC and been determined to prove herself without any traces of the Walia name in her success.. merely replacing "Walia" with "Dixit" whilst living in WM and running WC doesnt impress me atleast..I'm not blaming her..she has gone thru a lot recently and her thoughts are bound to be muddled..and with people crowding her all the time and clouding her thoughts it becomes even more difficult to think straight..as u rightly said, she's merely a puppet in the hands of Maasi and Tarun..

And coming to Tarun..I remember, on the first episode itself, where Jai goes to meet Tarun at his office, u got an instinct abt him that he may backstab Jai, but I gave him the benefit of the doubt saying we always jump to conclusions and that we shud wait up to see what he's upto..and as usual you gut instinct was right, and as much as I was hoping to be right, he (rather the creatives) proved me wrong..he does seem to have a bigger game up his sleeve for WC/Bani/both..

The scene with the three sisters remembering mother Dixit's pravachan did not impress me at all..and who talks so deeply to a bunch of 7-10 yr olds anyways??!! Man, I tell u this KD was a sick woman! She has a big hand in sc*****g up these girls' minds..

Anyways, coming to Jai, yes I do feel sorry for him..I want him to just ignore the existence of Pia..let him think abt his so-called baby that she is carrying, after the baby's born..by that time I hope the truth abt the baby's paternity is revealed, and he can be freed of that responsibility also..meanwhile, pls. don't get too attached to that baby Jai..concentrate on your own life, away from the Dixits..and pls. dont shed any tears and behave like a Jaidas..
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I think that the bani dixit that we are waiting for comes after the leap.. when she is alone and raise up herself.. without any help from massi or tarun..

agreed that maybe bani is where she is because of jai walia. but i also think that bani always had it in her to make something out of herself. Mind you.. even jai (in the beginning of the series) said that bani have a spark.. a determintation that proves she will go far... She is smart and confidence. i mean wasn't she the one who raise her sisters and took care of her father? i think that bani's character is strong. and maybe right now she is behaving that she doesn't need jai walia.. but that is only because she have to convince herself that she doesn't need Jai Walia. you guys are right.. but she has been betrayed... and she needs some time to sink into her own senses..
she is not thinking straight. right now she has lost everything. I feel that she needs to get away from all this drama and go with Krishna and not look back.

When she gets her head straight. i want her to come back as one of jai's competitor(like Barnali). A position that she got on her own two feet. Then i could like to see Jai's reaction.

I feel sorrie for Bani rather then frustrated at her actions. She is a puppet now.. and she needs to get out of her trance... before it's too late..

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: pinky05

Anushka you are right about Jai
and Bani. Both these wonderful characters are now puppets in the hands
of the likes of Pia and Tarun.😕 😡This is so not what I am looking
forward to seeing.


I liked your prediction about the Guru-Chela jodi
joinint forces. Really hope they do that the kick some bu**s starting with
Pia. As regards Tarun he can try all he wants, we all know Bani will never,
ever let anyone replace JW in her heart and soul.


Did not understand one thing though. Why did JW
have to disclose his plan of telling Bani the truth after 7 days to Pia. Does
he not know already that Pia is a loose cannonball and can create so
much damage with this kind of information. Especially after the way she
betrayed him and madetheir relationship public on the cliff? Why did he
not show his savvyness and keep this info to himself till he actually
executed it? 😕😡


About the leap - I have decided not to have any
expectation for my own peace of mind.



agree with quote above

I think its too early to pass judgement on Bani's character, she just came
out of the most brutal shock of her young life. I mean, the destructive
force of the betrayal will ultimately unravel her soul, if it hasn't already
done that yet. Its going to take time for her to process all that has
happened. We, as an audience, cannot expect her to recover overnite.
Currently, she looks like she is a puppet in Massi and Tarun's hands but
we shall see. I am hoping what she said to her unborn child regarding
setting up their own world together comes true. Her and her child in
their world, together. So, maybe Bani will eventually do a disappearing
act. She has to leave WM and all those people around her.
I am scared for her bc I think that the "loose cannonball" out there might
go into Bani killer mode... 😡
I'd like to know why (as Pinky05 states)did JW tell Pia regarding him
telling Bani the truth-and that he is going to let Bani decide...
This bit of information is not good in the hands of that psycho..
I really thought that scene with KD and the girls regarding mother/child
relationship was creepy...sent shivers down my spine...
AP
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Posted: 19 years ago
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my dear anu.....

I disagree.... today I saw a woman, who was trying to be strong....and this is what jai made her into.... she never ask his wealth, or fame... he give her this.. ( was it paying off his guilt????).. and she is now going to try to be strong... and make her own identity again...

he has hurt her in every possible way and to survive she is now chancing, where we expecting her to be the hurt and weak person.... who let everybody use and then crush her, when they can.... no bani had to put a stop to that... and that is what she did....

but her being chanced is a mask, for her to hide the biggest reason , and that is that jai still has power over her.... she loves him forever.... she is breaking up inside.... and with this attitude she is just hiding her feelings and the last bit off dignity she has left.... not more....

coming back to the wealth and fame.... she was bani dixit and because her good work she came very far... so her identity was there... after jai married her and her ID went up in his... that doesn't mean that a woman cant start again.... and for now till she remarries ( if she divorce) his name will be history....

and she will be able to get back on her feet, with or without the help off the almighty jai walia....


this is her first step in becoming the person we want to see...i hope....
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Posted: 19 years ago
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shali...
True,she never asked for his wealth,he gav her as at that point that seemed right to him as he wanted her future to be secure,remember it is this financial insecurity that bought all 3 Dixits at his door step and rest is history.

but the point is bani being the women who is known for fighting for her self respect and holding that in high regard accepted his property.how much ppl balme JW and despise no one can change the fact that every thing is JW hard earned money and when she and rest says that bani needs no JW and can live her own life and calls her Bani Dixit but does all this apply when she is still staying in his house,decding to run his businessnow dont say bani is doing all this for krishna's future, we all know that money never matters for her.
Its not that i want bani to throw back what all he gav all i want is bani to start speaking what she feels like not just tell wt is spoon feed for her.I want her to talk for herself Do what she feels is right but not what skunk and billi decide for her.


Anu..

very nice post...

The beads breaking apart was symbollic to that J-b relationship and with atrun breaking it ,it is clear that he will be the one who will hit the last nail on their relationship apart from pia.
I am looking fwd for to see as who will collect those beads adn who will preserve those!!would love if its JW who will hav them and after leap amma will by chance see them,maybe then her bulb lights up.
All i am thinking who will be it post leap who will help little krishna in re uniting her parents. my only hope now remains with Lakshmi,Nattu and Ranveer(as they seem the only ones left with brains but kya pata WM residents can change them during leap).
Skunk is worst then pia,atleast pia knows she is bad but he is doing all rubbish in name of god knows what but he is sure to fall flat as amma will and has to return to her Mr.Walia.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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shali i agree bani didnot ask for the property jai gave her, not to forget the name which she doesnot want to have Mrs jai Walia was also given by him then why did she give away the name but not the property.

so she wants the baby and property given by jai but not the name, Good Choice 😉 I think bani is getting smart.

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