Reaction Formation is one of the several defense mechanisms duly noted within Freud's psycho dynamic model. 😛 It basically means or explains a situation where a person does the complete opposite and extreme actions , and reactions from what they actually feel inside. And may I say without hesitation , that Raghu is undeniably a victim of reaction formation nowadays.🤣 hormonal reaction bol😆 the guy is suffering from Hormonal overburst😆 Rantara have taken role reversals it seems. 🤓 Peheley Antara used to get irrationally hot and angry , though at least she had basic reasons despite the rage , attitude and anger being over rated. But what do we have here? 😆 100%agree...the guy has gone bonkers today...his izzat is in khatara..yesterday she made him go on his knees in public, control nahi karega toh sadak pe toiling karvayegi😆 Raghu does not even have any basic reason to spew unreasonable , hyper rage on her lekin rukh ne kya naam nahi ley raha. While Raghu is in complete denial mode , Antara is already progressed towards the "be calm and let significant others affect you" mode , which is a step ahead of the first denial\reaction-formation stage. 😆 the best part is when she said that "He HATES me!" her hurt is obvious..and that is why she is distancing herself from him...trying to stay away from him...because she knows instinctively that she affects him in the wrong way...but LOL as usual she does not know why...I don't know who will realize their feelings first cause that seems to be enveloping after a long time , but all I can say is Antara is going to feel way more in the heart than Raghu while Raghu will feel more junoon , and passion than hearty love for her. Well I personally think it has to be Raghu..and he might be jumping from the roof tops announcing it...and she might be again frowning at hiim😆I mean , if his superficial insults now can make a toned down , mature , reasonable Antara cry her eyes out for him just cause he doesn't want her in his house , goodness knows what kind of feelings she'll feel when she falls in love with him. It's gonna be more eruptive than a volcano if you ask me. The only reason the girl did not accept Aaji's offer were because of his bitter insults and his assumptions , and hyper conclusions on her character[ which are all forms of defenses when you are attracted to someone , btw.😛] . I mean the girl we know would spit double the venom back on his face on all those accusations he put on her , but look what we have hear? A pained yet resilient , hurting and very much affected Antara who lets him affect her so much now , that not only she doesn't wanna be in the house because he says so , but also bursts out crying because of his behaviour towards her. 😲 Raghu might go all around the world for her when he falls in love , but this girl's heart is going to create miracles in the name of feelings agar abhi se hi aisa haal hai , i tell you. 😆haye haye...Kya haal_E-Ulfat hone wali hai...Antara has had a quick learning...from a loved daughter from Kashmir to a no body in Mumbai..who is totally at the mercy of a guy who she has to hate but cant!! she has indeed grown up in these few days...lvoed how Maami is handling her...wonder if she will be the one to realize what a catastrophe these two are about to set!!
And godness , when they challenged each other I felt like I am seeing two five year old kids falling in love. 😆 Rasikaa and Aaji are just hillarious and crazy. And as Aaji revealed , Rasika is a MARRIED WOMAN TO MANOHAR. 😡😡😡 This means , despite being married she piles herself on and lusts over a little boy who considers her his bhaabi??? 🤢 And God , I just love Aaji superficial sugray insults to Rasika. 🤣 The highlight today was Macchi-Raghu-Ishu. 🤣 Attitude-ki-factory ko pataane ke liye bhaai ko bulaaya , aur ussey influence kiya , and Macchi's humour was just icing on the cake. 🤣 He made the scene funnier and more entertaining to watch than it was. The best thing about this serial is that all side characters are as much as fun and enticing that balances out the intensity of emotions between the leads. 😉 I love the way Ishu as a kid is shown just like kids are in real life , nothing OTT as usually we see in tv land when it comes to kids , as kids usually imitate the exact words they hear adults saying , that was very nicely put and the detailing in the show is impeccable , for now. Antara understanding the infulence of different words put into Ishu's mouth and her Lady Dabaang walk to Ragzu reminded me of the old hot headed Antu who I kinda missed. 😆hmmm when yesterday she said about Saas bahu I was like😕 I thought she was some kind of timepass woman...Machhu was awesome..."Half Chaddi mein bhi tu team ka captain hota🤣" "Chhote phataka"😆 the adjective he uses😆
OH , and I forgot to add Maamiji. She is not just the most mature but the most knowledgeable character in the show , even more than Aaji , and her dialogues are just gems. What she told Antara is something I think every one of us should remember in our lives , that if we let the world see our sadness , and the pain it gives us , then we are making more potholes and chances of more pain for ourselves. If we smile and face the problems , God will forget that our problems were problems at all , and if we don't , then those problems will remain bothering us and us showing it will give birth to new problems. She is the most emotionally mature , deep , and empathetic individual within the show.No wonder usney Mamaji se shaadi karli .After all , opposites attract. 😆Maamiji is a very cool and deep character...who views life as it comes and tries to see good in people and an opportunity in every calamity...Her goodness is reflected in her dialogues and good that Antara has that one sane voice in her life...
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
