everytime i make a post i make it a point to make it positive but today i want to get a little serious...note: guys i know everyone is upset but no bashing here please and other people who have nothing good to say dont say anything at all please
so my title must be a litle confusing well the confusion will be cleared in a minute...the truth is this post was made with hope and i know i shouldnt be hoping but hope is really essential in life...so let me start with a short ancedote from my earlier days..
as a christian and a regular church goer i have heard the term passion of christ many times..for those who dont know this term actually refers to the cruxification of jesus...cruxification is a form of torture for those who believe in it..this did not sit well with me ..the word passion actually confused me...passion refers to something enjoyable right? something you cannot live without...well how can torture be a form of passion? it didnt make sense so one day i gathered my courage and asked an elderly leader about this...what i learnt that day interested me for sure but i never thought it will be appilcable in real life..well i learnt that the english word passion is actually derived from the latin word passio which means to suffer for something you love...
well it did become applicable to me in real life..okay by real i mean reel life...TAAREY is a love story that garnered a huge appeal from many people including me ..but for me it seemed so beautiful it was unreal..the word passionate hit me while i was watching mitwa..to suffer for something you love and then it hit me again during the fake break up and tum hi ho sequence...then i thought about it..why was this called a passionate love story by so many people..some people said it was because they love each other so much and some said it was becuase of the intensity and some even said it was because of their chemistry ..for me it was always because they loved each other so much to the extent they are willing to suffer for each other...whether it was fake relationship for taani or fake break up for rey they cried many tears just to see one smile on each other faces...this is selfless love ..this is unconditional love and this is certainly passionate love.
well this brings me to my next topic which is love itself..what is the definition of love? can it even be defined? well there are many forms of love...motherly love , paternal love , protective love, infatuation , one sided love but thats all love which is readily available in one form or the other..what i want to talk about is true love...in english it is difficult to find a proper term...love is just love..in hindi there are many words for it...pyaar, ishq, mohabbat..but it all just boils down to one concept as it cannot be contained by a term..if you ask someone why he loves a person and he has an answer it isnt love..its admiration..but if someone does ask you this question and you truly dont know this is love in its purest form. you ask taani or rey why they are in love i really believe that they wont know ..why do i think so? honestly i dont know
before taarey and swaron..i hated the mere concept of it..it made me puke .i hated it when people gushed about how much bella loved edward or something like that.i just hated love...one day i watched d3 and i saw swaron..i genuinley lked them which was weird for me..suddenly i didnt mind watching love stories...then taarey came along and i felt like yes...i want to fall in love too...i want to feel what taani feels for rey and what rey feel for taani...i dont know if i am the only one and so it genuinly hurt badly when taani left and it felt so bad that i felt angry and i bashed palki badly .well i really truely think that i was wrong on my part but it felt right at that point of time ..i felt like claiming justice for her destroying somethng as beautiful as them but i was wrong..no person deserves that amount of hate..
and this brings me to the last point of my very long post...a message for palki maam...well i bashed her and many also did but the truth is i used to respect her so much for introducing me to this concept of love...taarey is her creation and so is taani..she introduced us to vrinda dawda and gave us someone to look up to..but after all this my respect for her is gone and i am not sure if it is coming back..maybe she wasnt the only one involved in this decision but the way she hid everything from us really hurt me..geting hurt from someone you dislike is much better than getting hurt from someone you respected and the fact that she asked us to contrinue watching d3 it felt like she was indirectly calling us selfish..well maam i am sorry but i cant bring myself to watch it anymore..
i have one final request for you..i promise i will not ask for something undo-able...dont prove true love fake...please dont do that.i could have tolerated VD's exit because i now she is gonna do much better anywhere she goes but i can never tolerate rey falling in love again..basically this was the message i was trying to conceive the entire post...i am not saying that if you dont introduce a new love interest for rey i will resume watching d3 but still it will make a lot of people feel better if you dont...love is not someting that comes and goes..i am not saying that it can only happen once cos that will be hypocracy since it wasnt reys first time falling in love but its not possible for someone to forget so easily..i know a lot of people will say i am being too optimistic for hoping but i dont have another option..for those who watched humse hai life you wil know that though raghav and sia wil get seperated in the middle they reunited in the end..is it too much to ask if you do the same in the final episodes,,,dont make rey forget taani so easily...its a humble request from my side because whatever i typed above will be of no use to me in the future...palki maam please if you couldnt fit taani n the storyline atleast dont try to find another piece...
guys again i repeat myself ..no bashing of anyone here..i dont want this to get closed...and my lazy trians ..atleast now read my postsđ
p.s this was not meant to go against anyones belief.this purely my definition of love đł
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