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Posted: 12 years ago
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The thing with Ratan is, she has never had to put herself in being Veera's mother and this is something she isnt comfortable with it, thats what she hasnt embraced that part of Veera, Ratan does accept Veera as part of the family but to give and accept her as a daughter is something Ratan hasnt managed to do... and this is what Veera constantly wants from Ratan, and Ratan knows she cant do what Veera wants, be the mother - when her heart isnt in it.

Sampooran leaving affected everything and tie in with Veera's arrival... hence not accepting Veera AS a daughter, this is the constant struggle we see coz Veera wants her as that...

Ratan doesnt treat Veera like an evil stepmother, like many others would

And the past 5 yrs, Ratan has just merely existed rather then living, its only recently ever since Nihal arrived and the search for Ranvi in Amritsar, we have seen Ratan get abit of colour in her face and life and then snatched away again with Sampooran's death etc...

Not only does she live with what Sampooran did, but also the guilt of him leaving, and what she said - even though it wasnt her fault, but she still blames herself etc



Edited by Lennie - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think your rant is not correct. no one can judge another unless you have walked a mile in their shoes. Your last line is the most offensive. You are blaming Ratan for Sampooran's indiscretions. As a female I find it highly offensive.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't like what Ratan is doing with Veera either! But end of the day she is a human being too! Veera is the result of her husband's indiscretion with another women. I don't expect her to just embrace the idea of being her Mother. Some women can't even accept the child from their husbands first marriage! (Bansuri). She wants Balwant to have nothing to do with his daughter? On that score Ratan is a saint!

The condition she put of waiting for Sampooran to return to accept Veera totally backfired! She admitted to Chaiji she had started to love Veera. But then she had to draw back coz she found out Sampooran was not coming back. She thought when he returns they can all be a family and put the past behind them. But that didn't happen!

Now she is at an impasse. What does she do? How does she move forward now that Sampooran is not coming back? She needs time to figure this out! But I believe that Veera will be her biggest ally in moving on with her life. She will unite her with Nihaal, and together they can start a new family! I am hoping with all my heart for this, coz both Ratan and Veera who are victims of Sampooran's mistakes deserve happiness in their lives!!

As for Kartar's marriage? That broke because Kartar is an ass! It is not Ratan's fault the man harbours feelings for her! She does not return them and are oblivious to them!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I disagree. Veera is a constant reminder of Sampoorans betrayal and I think Ratan does care about Veera alot but hesitates to show it. She cant help it...she finds it difficult to bond with Veera because of what has happened. You need to be realistic, would you accept and treat ur spouses child? A child that was born due to a extra marital affair? Its easy to say Ratan is harsh etc, but you have to understand her side of things. Its difficult for her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hmmm its one of looking at Ratan..yes I agree in many points you have cited...but sometimes situations make you do some mistakes..But yes her not loving VEERA such a sweet cute small child is not forgivable..!!

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