Moving on and letting go

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 12 years ago

Ok I admit

I have a soft corner for khadoos old men

They remind me of a lot of beloved people in my life

Today as Dadaji held on to the ashes of his wife, I felt his grief of not being able to let go of a precious, beautiful part of his life

He might be furious on the feisty CC who dared to do the unthinkable act of drowning the ashes

But by doing it she helped Dadaji to move on

She will make him realize the importance of moving on without letting go

Because his wife will always be a part of his heart and life

But it was crucial for him to know she is not and never will be a part of his life

That is the difference between moving on and letting go

A small lesson CC taught us today

Moving on can never mean forgetting something beautiful and precious

It just means embracing the new without forgetting or being disloyal to the old

Kudos episode

Bang on acting by all

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mahamluvssarun

@mahamluvssarun

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Posted: 12 years ago

Atleast now there is some story like i said its only SANAYA👍🏼 and her starpower tht is taking the show ahead ! hopefully they will stick to chanchan and her story with everyone and how she manages to be a part of family rather tan wht was being shown last 2 weeks

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Farah

@LuvArnavKhushi

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Posted: 12 years ago

His acting was amazing when he came down freaking out! And I feel like we're all going to need tissues tomorrow. 😭

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shillu.arshi

@shillu.arshi

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Posted: 12 years ago

yup today epi was rocking really I feel bad for dadaji but now she should go on

rima really grt post u always rocks with ur post...

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: shillu.arshi
yup today epi was rocking really I feel bad for dadaji but now she should go on

rima really grt post u always rocks with ur post...

thank you

nice to meet you again

I remember you from my old posts

very happy to see you here

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goguma

@goguma

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: mahamluvssarun
Atleast now there is some story like i said its only SANAYA👍🏼 and her starpower tht is taking the show ahead ! hopefully they will stick to chanchan and her story with everyone and how she manages to be a part of family rather tan wht was being shown last 2 weeks

what was being shown last two weeks, has made ChhanMan lovers very happy...

rima, i love your definition of moving on and letting go...
it fits..!

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Meera

@MeeraHK

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Posted: 12 years ago

Bang on post rima..Dadaji is gonna play a mjaor role in cc life..and he will her best buddy...

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mahamluvssarun

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: goguma

what was being shown last two weeks, has made ChhanMan lovers very happy...

rima, i love your definition of moving on and letting go...
it fits..!

yr pov i respect ! My pov i 've said PERIOD !

STORY is going good NOW :)

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vittoriA Giardano

@kbtr

Rocker

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Posted: 12 years ago

My response to another post:

I don't think that Chhan Chhan would have the audacity to actually spill the ashes in the river. As well, it's a closure for the grieving family, so she would never do this by herself. It's just not who she is. She is just pretending to have done this so Dadaji lets it all out, so he can begin to live normally, or as normally as possible under the given circumstances. He still has to go through the emotions and process of losing someone. Right now, he is stuck at the denial stage.

After all the rage directed at her by Dadaji and the various family members have been consumed, she will bring the ashes and have Dadaji perform the ceremony, and have the family as a support system for him.

However, I am dreading what will happen to Chhan Chhan in the meantime. She has possibly brought about the wrath of not only her in-laws, but her husband. At a crucial time when she needs his support. Of course, Dragon Lady will revel in this fallout of Chhan Chhan !!

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kiara86

@kiara86

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Hi rima!

I normally dont comment in this forum but I do watch ChhanChhan.

But because it is your post...

I just hope that she has actually not done the visarchan but has dadi's ashes secure so that dadaji can do it himself after realizing that his holding on to ashes is not helping him move on. After he realizes, he can do the visarchan himself because this is a crucial part in any loved one's life. They have to do it themselves to finally let go.

I hope she has kept the kalash safe somewhere so that she can hand it over to dadaji.

But true, felt bad for the old man.

Sanaya as usual is brilliant in her emotional scenes...and pretty too...