Moms- the only sensible ones

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Youth intellect and male intellect are an oxymoron.

Saras and Kumud- too impulsive and rushing to conclusion. VC- a hurt father whose samann has been hurt.

VC> Did you even think once why those people are so desperate to get their son married.

Saras> You have hurt her many times but she always came back. This time was one too many. Dont take your loved ones for granted, especially in matters of such magnitude.

Kumud> Agree you are hurt. I would be okay if you never forgave Saras...but why do you want to takes such a huge risk by marrying a guy you dont even know. Breathe!!! You are an independent woman, better things may have been in store for you.

But who are we to judge. We are not in their shoes.

But moms> They may cry and weep but they are not weak. A mom is a mom is a mom- always emotional but oh so pragmatic. If only they had more power to make decisions!

To all the Guniyals and Dugbas in our life.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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loved ur post !!
its true..today only dugba was making some sense but she too bowed down infront of this adamant daughter father
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Posted: 12 years ago
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That's a typical household in India.. more so in villages.. Dukhba had said that she will fight with the gods up in the heaven if any disaster falls on Kumud.. Today she has nothing to say other than console her daughter... Guniyal knows her daughter is already married mind, body and soul to Saras.. Will it be possible for her to live with another man? but this is how it had to happen.. lesson for everyone..never take your loved ones for granted like you said.. In love there is nothing as your pain and my pain, its our pain.. If only Saras had shared his grief with her..they together could have worked out something.. ''kamaan se nikla teer aur zabaan se nikli baat kabhi wapas nahi ati'' so think before you speak..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Lovely post though I don't agree with everything but yet the gist of the whole thing is very apt. That speaks the story of a typical Indian household where the elder male decides everything while the ladies stand in a corner and nod irrespective of their approval or disapproval. Some call it doormat-ish but Ahh Why degrade the situation sometimes it's done in the name of love and sometimes just in the name of being obedient.

Anyways how I wished Gun and Dugba could stand up and talk. Hope Kumud breaks this monotony albeit in the other house.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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so trueee, awesome post lovely!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree with everything you said!!!!!👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes i agree with your post...:)
When Guniyal ask to VC who come to barrat in very short notice, even after saras breaking the marriage Guiyaal first choice will be saras, dukbaa said yeaterday episode don't hurry another time.
VC first talk to saras why he break the marriage?

VC said my family respect will spoil if my daugther marraige doesn't take place tomorrow. Mr.Vidhaychatur think past 2 times saras save your family respect(gow hatiya and Kumarai marriage ), how he is spoil your family respect again? He share the information to kumud only ! Mr. Vidhyacahtur now i think how foolish you're without any inquiry? How saras ask to kumud infront of everyone he break the marriage

If any decision take in anger it should be wrong one. How saras take the decision after the he realize the sunny advice. Of course family respect is important for everyone.For your your anger and inferiority complex you going to waste your daughter .

Moms(Guniyaal and Badimma Will do something to create saras situation) they are the always know their children situation...

Comon Guniyal and Badimaa do some thing...:)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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They can't save the situation now as it has to be tragedy!!!!!
Tragedies are very stupid when you think of it!!!!!
Why do they rush so much??
Why did Devdas have to write back so soon to Paro to forget him??Why was Romeo in so much of a rush to kill himself??

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