It is Sad...Death of J-B Marriage..????

Dear Guys,

It is sad day in the world of relationship as the forum once again is alive as Jai Walia has been proved innocent. But then is he really innocent? Let me finish before you start going ballastic on me....

Lets look at the J-B relationship.

Well, look at Bani...can you blame her? Is she to be blamed for everything that happened to JW?

A lot of you will say hell yes!!!

But I am sorry both are equally to be blamed here!!!

The trust factor which binded them together seemed to have evaporated. Even though in time JW will be proven innocent in everyone's eyes...will be ever forgive himself for the pain he caused Bani.

Look at Bani..she is a stone a woman who is as good as dead...but then she did what she thought was best.

But sometimes your best is not enough.

Both are right in their own ways.

But then who is wrong?

The circumstances or the people in the relationship?

I believe a marriage is about communication and there both have failed equally.

If Bani did not tell Jai anything then neither was Jai forthright in his dealings with her.

The point is when partners hide things from each other others take advantage of the situation. And here Jiggs and Pia did the same thing.

Both wanted something and were willing to go all the way for it. It did not matter to them how many hearts or lifes they may destroy in the process. But they did what needed to be done.

I am glad that JW is innocent as all of us predicted in the same way we all knew when Bani asked JW for divorce that she had something up her sleeves.

Now, there are so many questions that remain unanswered...and yet so many answers whose question know will ever ask...

In life if we have relatives like Pia and Jiggs then who would need enemies....

And again the Jai and Bani bashing will start...

But then again...I am heartbroken today as the love and trust that binded the Jai-Bani marriage has come apart will it mend its way only time will tell.

Now, Jai will come to see Bani or Jai may again spread the news that Jai Walia is no more meaning he may fake his death that may get Bani back to living.

I think Tarun definitely has something up his sleeves. What if Tarun did tell JW everything and they planned this?

But the fact of the matter is that the relationship and the love that binded Jai-Bani has come apart and that too me is the death of a marriage.

Will the leap now happen at all is something to see?

What if they decide to postpone again or not go ahead with it?

Too many mysteries wrapped around and know one to untangle them...lets see what happens next in KS...

I am mourning the death of marriage of Jai-Bani!!!!


Keep Smiling,
Happiness Always,
Manish

Originally posted by: mk727272

Dear Guys,

It is sad day in the world of relationship as the forum once again is alive as Jai Walia has been proved innocent. But then is he really innocent? Let me finish before you start going ballastic on me.... ur so right. well i can't get over my happiness of d fact that jai is innocent.. but ur right both jb r to be blamed equally.. the "trust" that one has in a realtionship.. they didn't have any.. if they did.. they wouldn't be hidin things and wat not.. but in a way its a good thing the relationship is over.. cuz now they can start ova - when eva that is.. from a clean slate.. hopefully wit trust, understanding and love fo one another

Lets look at the J-B relationship.

Well, look at Bani...can you blame her? Is she to be blamed for everything that happened to JW? both at fault.. like u said .. they both tried their different ways.. they both made mistakes.. so both at fault

A lot of you will say hell yes!!!

But I am sorry both are equally to be blamed here!!!

The trust factor which binded them together seemed to have evaporated. Even though in time JW will be proven innocent in everyone's eyes...will be ever forgive himself for the pain he caused Bani.

Look at Bani..she is a stone a woman who is as good as dead...but then she did what she thought was best.

But sometimes your best is not enough.

Both are right in their own ways.

But then who is wrong?

The circumstances or the people in the relationship?

I believe a marriage is about communication and there both have failed equally. true she hid some facts.. he hid some facts.. the trust and communication was NADA..

If Bani did not tell Jai anything then neither was Jai forthright in his dealings with her.

The point is when partners hide things from each other others take advantage of the situation. And here Jiggs and Pia did the same thing.

Both wanted something and were willing to go all the way for it. It did not matter to them how many hearts or lifes they may destroy in the process. But they did what needed to be done.

I am glad that JW is innocent as all of us predicted in the same way we all knew when Bani asked JW for divorce that she had something up her sleeves.

Now, there are so many questions that remain unanswered...and yet so many answers whose question know will ever ask...

In life if we have relatives like Pia and Jiggs then who would need enemies.... AMEN to that

And again the Jai and Bani bashing will start...

But then again...I am heartbroken today as the love and trust that binded the Jai-Bani marriage has come apart will it mend its way only time will tell.

Now, Jai will come to see Bani or Jai may again spread the news that Jai Walia is no more meaning he may fake his death that may get Bani back to living. would he really REPEAT wat he did during park road.. rememba he got shot -fake bullet.. no bullet... wateva he was in the hospital.. pretending to be dead.. adi his supportee.. bani was pissed when she found out he did this natak

I think Tarun definitely has something up his sleeves. What if Tarun did tell JW everything and they planned this? i hope so. i can't see tarun betraying jai.. friends.. they're good friends

But the fact of the matter is that the relationship and the love that binded Jai-Bani has come apart and that too me is the death of a marriage.

Will the leap now happen at all is something to see? who knows.. if jai uses pia to get bani back in her senses.. then d leap is a possibility cuz jai can say im marrayin pia🤢 and they can leave.. and jai can get rid of pia and move on and leap happens😕

What if they decide to postpone again or not go ahead with it? postpone.. how much LONGER.. haila.. no do it now or forget about it.. my hope and faith was here cuz of the leap.. so it betta happen.. not go ahead wit it.. wattt after all this now not doin it is 😡

Too many mysteries wrapped around and know one to untangle them...lets see what happens next in KS... true.. its always a surprise..one twist after another

I am mourning the death of marriage of Jai-Bani!!!!
me too but in a way im happy cuz now they restart their lovee story. there'll be no lies.. nothin that they have hidden.. clear slate😕

Keep Smiling,
Happiness Always,
Manish

Good post.

I am not going to reply in detail cuz i'll bash bani and that's a given.

I always knew he was innocent and it is proven today, so time for me to gloat😆

I am trying here very hard to reply to your post without bashing bani, it is very hard.

Yes JW hid the truth, but when he did, did he "intend" to cause pain to her unlike the other party? Yes he hid the truth but was it intentional? wasn't it rano who stopped him? How can you blame him completely?

They are both not 'EQUALLY' blamed, no matter what anyone says, the truth is, JW did get hurt more. Bani has been hurt by her sister more than JW, it was her sisters who hurt her. One by committing the mistake the other trying to hide it.

Shina

Manish good post..

Both have equal shares of mistakes and they are and will pay for them!!!
JW did hide the truth but it was for bani's own good as he feared that she would harm herself and in a way he was right!!! Bani's present condition is what he dreaded the most and tried to hide ONS.
Bani she did all for her own reasons,saving JW property was good but again!!! why hide it from him abt jiggs and ranveer,if they could try to cheat him once cant they do the same all over again???? She should ahv told him the entire truth but she never did that.

A lovely post Manish.

But I for one still have high hopes, for both Jia and Bani. Leap or no leap, they are meant for each other and no one else.

Lets see what the coming weeks bring us.

Love
Krishna