@Misti
I agree that Sarita did leave once. But that was a response to an external factor Divya. Actually, I don't understand why she left that day - as if I understand rest of her actions 😃 - except maybe to add the masala scene where her superhero Divya stops her is the most clich manner.
About self harm - I haven't seen the actual scene so don't understand the extent - but the reason why I don't consider it serious is because it might develop into something far more dangerous or sinister but at this moment it isn't. Just like one high blood sugar report or one high BP do not qualify as disease (though they should raise the alarm). I have a few interns at office who joined us during their summer break - they often cook up a story of illness to visit the office's resident nurse (very pretty) and have on one or 2 occasions actually cut their hand a little to make her bandage that. And they are not even in love - it's just college type fun for them. I won't praise or encourage that but I don't see a future of self destruction for them. For Sarita, it was an emotional high that made her do something like that. If she repeats it, she qualifies your description. Until then, I will hold the judgement.
Agree with you on Divya - she needs someone practical and a better planner than her - who is not too emotionally involved. Or better still, she leaves the madhouse (but then that would be THE END)
About Candle light dinner, you were right 😃 - I concluded too soon from the misleading precap. But Raj is putting up a good act - maybe Mumbai is his final destination as well. Wiping Sarita's tears etc. was good improvisation.