Plate&Chammach: Bartan khadakte hain zaroor.

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Asad has given the exact analogy for his and Zoe's relationship. Plate and spoon. They look nothing like each-other , they do not belong to the same set , they don't have the same purpose , they are even made of different alloys/metals at times. But they work in perfection as a unit. That's what AsYa are - A unit. Zoe is the practical brain and fun in this unit. Asad is the torrid emotion and the heart in this unit. Asad is handicapped by his fundamentalist judgmental attitude while Zoe is handicapped by her impulse, fear of rejection and her vulnerability. Asad lends protection, emotion and enveloping to Zoe while she lends hope , happiness and promise to him.

Coming to the whole Tannu and AsYa epic, i am just as much frustrated with her as everyone else, but she is here for a purpose. Its Tannu's entry that evoked jealousy and possessive emotion in Zoe. Its because of Tannu that Asad came to know that Zoe might feel something for him and that she cannot see any other woman around him. Its Tannu who created the whole deportation drama and made both AsYa realize that they cannot be separated. Its Tannu who tried to electrocute Zoe , making Asad hug her with his dear life - giving a clear indication to Zoe that if anything happened to her, Asad will not be able to take it. They never said it but it was on their faces for two weeks. Its Tannu who slipped that ring into Asad's pocket and the famous engagement happened. By thriving on the negatives, Makkhanwaali has made AsYa realize that even if they don't verbalize it , they cannot live without each-other. In short, AsYa are headed towards a Nikaah because Tanveer acted as an inverted rocket launcher that triggered AsYa's relationship with escape velocity.

As for getting frustrated with Asad's Makkhanwali-ki-garlanding , what is there to get frustrated about? Seriously. Tanveer is his childhood friend , with a supposedly tragic past and a tragic life , beating all the tragedy queens of Bollywood in one go. She is seeking protection and shelter while she cries buckets of tears in every two scenes. How is Asad supposed to doubt her? And that too a man who is a jackass judgmental with 101% blind faith in his own beliefs? A man who has set beliefs and a code of norms that categorizes people. If that woman is sobbing at his feet 24x7 with a dukhyaari and bechaari act in 900 yards of clothes, Asad will do what he does both the best and the worst - heart thinking. Additional bonus from creatives is that Asad has not seen even a 0.00001 shade of Tannu's villainy.

Coming to Zoe, before we weigh the trust and distrust issues here between her and Asad, do a quick recap of their relationship. While Zoe has blind faith in Asad because he stood with her and by her through her weakest hours , Asad's faith and trust in Zoe is still in testing waters. In the past, Zoe has lied so much to Asad , hidden so many things from him, done so much without keeping him in the loop that even though he loves her with his life and accepts her denims, pizzas and cokes, he sees 'lack of honesty and integrity' as one of her negatives. So, while his best friend presents a picture of pristine honesty, Zoe's quick minded fickle fun factor appears a drawback to him. Remember his dialogue to Zoe ? Jhooth ke pairr nahiin hotte.

Point being , that Asad and Zoe, both are in their characters and reacting as per their inner personalities. For Asad , its a typical caught between the doll and the devil situation - where he is believing his judgment to be right , but the ultimate betrayal from Tanveer will not only break his fundamentalist judgmental eye - it will also show him in a very very bitter way that looks are deceptive and so are your own eyes. Its a lesson for him and a progression for his character's rigidity giving away.

However, things could go a little more dangerous for Zoe here. Once again, she is working alone and her approach is rather amateurish. Considering what a leviathan BCA is, Zoe needs to be told - " To beat the villain , you have to be the better villain."

And for all those who keep asking if Asad really loves Zoe or if Zoe's love will have the same passion and intensity as Asad, well...

Love grows, evolves, learns, blooms and then, its complete. A brick is going to be a building someday. A seed is going to be a gigantic tree one day. A sea sediment is going to be a mountain some day. An embryo is going to be a human being someday. But . Between the birth and the completion lies EVOLUTION. Hiccups in evolution do not stop the evolution. The functioning of the heart is the same. It processes love likewise - if its in the right direction, then, with very test it grows and grows rock solid and stubborn.

Just because a love story does not fit your idea of love , doesn't mean its not a love story. You are not every person and you are not everyone's love. You are not the whole world and you never will be.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ha! I'm first! this is awesome!!!!!

Hmmm where to begin... Right tanveer (boo I know) but I have to understand something is she planning to take up permanent residence at asads home I mean I know She wants to marry asad but nobody knows that so isnt anybody going to ask when are you planning on leaving?

Also I would have thought that dilshaad would talk to tanveer that it isn't okay to be so close to asad physically now that he is to be married.
Tanveers plans seem so floppy and out of place she can be so easily exposed just drive to her factory without her knowledge drag asad by leaving a note telling him to meet her at this address wearing only his pants so that his six packs are on display!
But seriously it's very simple drive to her factory and how is tanveer planning on explaining why she had those burn stickers (I would love to see asads reaction if she says it's a hobby; then asad can look at zoya and say yep she's a witch).
Anyway yeah you're right she is a good character in the asya love equation since they are getting married due to her also the fact that asad has admitted to himself that he loves zoya is due to tanu! People tend to forget that in this forum if it wasn't for tanu not only would api not be here but we'd grow old waiting for them both to acknowledge that they like each other!!!

As for asads trust issue that's a massive issue and will also prove to be a major hurdle in their story because if he is proven wrong about tanveer only to misunderstand her about her father then this love is a disease and for diseases need to be washed out! Asad and zoya's love story is not healthy and it's not a good thing for the both of them; initially I was all for them getting married and behaving alll awkward around each other but now I don't want them to get married now for it isn't a healthy relationship because I don't think asad will ever trust zoya fully. What is love without trust? I am not a believer in love but still I would want to trust the person whom I marry and for them to trust me.
Zoya needs to provide factual prove about tanveer then she should tell asad that she plans to tell her sister the truth about them and he should tell his mother. Only then can asad start repenting and apologize to her In front of everyone not alone. That is the only way I can accept them together.
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BEAUTIFUL post vicky!!!!
i enjoyed the dining table scene today...it was too hilarious...how cutely asad was following her nd he himself had no idea what he is saying😆
nd zoya's reply were too good 🤣
loved zoya in detective mode today...but all failed...how can that billi always get away with everything 🤔
i hope she gets some good proof soon...
ok i might always sound biased towards asad character but i really don't find him wrong this tym nd u wrote the reason very well...ok he sometimes needs to listen to zoya but this tym it isn't his fault that that billi is always one step ahead of zoya...nd i don't find it wrong if he needs a solid proof to doubt his childhood frnd who has never given him any chance that he shud not trust her...
And i just loved these lines...
Love grows, evolves, learns, blooms and then, its complete. A brick is going to be a building someday. A seed is going to be a gigantic tree one day. A sea sediment is going to be a mountain some day. An embryo is going to be a human being someday. But . Between the birth and the completion lies EVOLUTION. Hiccups in evolution do not stop the evolution. The functioning of the heart is the same. It processes love likewise - if its in the right direction, then, with very test it grows and grows rock solid and stubborn. Just because a love story does not fit your idea of love , doesn't mean its not a love story. You are not every person and you are not everyone's love. You are not the whole world and you never will be.
Edited by ..vidhi.. - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: loveableangel

Ha! I'm first! this is awesome!!!!!


Thank you. Is that all from you today?😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great post Vicky! Thank you for deciphering the spoon plate analogy so beautifully 🤗

That scene was hilarious. 😆 Asad was adorable. Poor guy is trying so hard to confess but his failed attempts are certainly a delight to watch.

I loved how Zoya very smartly managed to find the parcel from BCA's bathroom but she needs to be more vigilant. I think after BCA turns the tables on her regarding the burn marks drama, Zoe's doubts will get stronger and she'll deal with BCA in a more careful manner. Asad won't believe her until he sees the proof or catches BCA red-handed. He is the kind of man who takes people at face value and like you said, when BCA acts all dukhiyari in front of him, how is he supposed to doubt her. That woman is still in his good books and has given him no reason to doubt her.

Loved the last three lines of your post on love. Thank you!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank you, Kritz.😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Vicky Ji,
you are late today, almost sent an SOS😆
Zoya needs solid proof. she is under estimating Billi. I hope after Burnt hand fiasco shown in SBS, she will come to her senses and ditch amateurish plans and think ahead of Billi.
btw...she outsmart Billi by finding the parcel...yayy! In your Face Billi😆
I don't blame Asad here...there is no reason for him to believe Zoe.
Yet another Amazing View. Thank UUU🤗
Edited by ishq80 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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wah wah watt an analysis amazing am really clapping u spoke my mind awesome really from z bottom of my heart amazing one
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lavalina

wah wah watt an analysis amazing am really clapping u spoke my mind awesome really from z bottom of my heart amazing one


Arre?😆... Thank you. That's sweet of you.😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika



<font color="#000066">Thank you. Is that all from you today?😆</font>


Lol no I just needed to state how awesome it was to be first in one of your posts!!

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