Crazy, Stupid Love

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Haii Ash ! Proved urself to be a young immature audience again :) he he !!

Let me start off my saying ''Once a true Arvian,always a true Arvian.''

What its been like months since we have gotten a thread opened by you so you know i had to comment😃 .

PR MS episode with QH and Dastaan was a very nice one when it came to Arjun and Purvi.

I havent seen Arjun smiled or laugh or dance or even joke around like he used to in the Good old Arvi days.Today i didnt have a headache or have the urge to bang my head on a wall when watching PR.

I missed PURVI.The one in the salwars and the one with the real hair.Bedsheets,wig has got to go back to Kolkata.

I have watched Crazy,Stupid Love and though the name sounds weird there is a huge message behind it.

Yes love is crazy...we do the strangest things to make our loves happy and to be with them.We go against ourselves and yet its seems perfectly fine with us.

we dont think twice before doing something which in turn makes us look stupid because instead of rationalizing we just act.

Love is not a compromise its a commitment to be with the one we love.Maybe Arvi are not together in body but who are we to question if they arent together in soul?

Today's episode was very nostalgic for me.It brought back so many memories that were stored away in my Arvi heart.

From the unintentional run in on the dancefloor to the eyelock...maybe not giving me goosebumps as before but i felt something.How i missed Arjun's stares.Whenever i watched a Hindi film and two people are showered with flowers then its a good sign that they are blessed from God.Isnt love a test??''The course of true love never did run smooth''.But if it always finds it way back to the lovers then what more can we want??Arvi's chemistry and history is a legend from upto September.Whatever happens afterwards happened but i dnt give too much importance of things that dont matter.Life is challenge...we never agree to it but have to accept it.

"I love her and that's the beginning and end of everything (AK to Purvi)

For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it

Money can't buy love, but it improves your bargaining position

"One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't utter

"Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it meaning.

To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world

Originally posted by: Ashlaika

There is a movie called Crazy, Stupid Love. One would wonder how and why they got such a foolish name for a movie... but for me, that is what I think love is sometimes. Crazy and Stupid! Love doesnt have to be sensible, it is not always logical, it doesnt always have the right answer to give you, it doesnt always make you feel great, But its fun, its crazy, its stupid...

And so is my love for ArVi. My crazy, stupid love. This post is not based on any moral grounds, nor any logical arguments. When one reads it, it may not even be articulate, eloquent or structured. So, if you think that I should follow any logical, realistic means, then sorry - this is the wrong post.

Crazy as it is, my love for ArVi still exists... and I realised that tonight as I watched the QH Mahasangam episode. No thoughts came to mind about who bought Purvi's sari, I did not wonder who Pari was with, I didnt care who provided transportation money for them all to go to Bhopal. All I had was a feeling, a feeling of joy, love and a sense of satisfaction as I saw Arjun and Purvi together in one frame! One frame with decent clothes on, one frame with smiles on their faces, one frame with love still shining in their eyes.

Mahasangams as all soap watchers would and should know are not logical and dont always make sense, and they certainly dont follow the line of the script. So with that said, here are the illogical things that made my crazy, stupid love raise its insensitive head:

The darkness, dance, pull, spin, smile moment - Arjun (what a fabulous dancer he is, thats why Zee uses him for all their Maha specials) went into the darkness, with no light, no vision and just with a touch, pulled his Purvi forward. Even in the darkness (read: dark corners of Arjun's heart) - he can pull Purvi into the light and smile again.

ArVi eyelock - Haiii haiii!!! What a moment. Yes, not needed! Yes, it didnt fit into the story - but boy oh boy, it brought back moments and memories. Thats love... when it can evoke emotions in you that you didnt think you still had. ArVi eyelock for me showed that love still exits between them, no matter how many adversities they face. The way they looked at each other showed that no matter what soils they are buried in, mud they are rolled in, garbage they are tossed to, when they look at each other, all the dirt evaporates to leave only the goodness of true love.

The shower of flowers - I remember going to a vivah sanskaar once and the bride and groom were showered in flowers as blessings from the people there and from God himself. Tonight, so were Arjun and Purvi. The slow fall of flowers on them was a blessing.(to me) Whether it was just for the moment or whether it is the 1st moment of many more to come remains to be seen. But, that one moment in time was good enough for now.

Last but not least - the touch. The touch of hands showed that no matter how far removed from each other they are emotionally or otherwise, one touch can still have a tremendous impact on them!

There is this saying "I haven't understood a bar of music in my life, but I have felt it (Igor Stravinsky). Likewise, "I haven't understood a bar of ArVi's love, but I have felt it" - Ash

So PR fans, ArVi fans, ArVi non-fans, that's it for me - not sure if its all crazy, its all stupid, its all relative... but I do know, its all LOVE 😊