Solution for Jagya

i feel really bad for jagya...bechara has become a goat...i now he has treated anandi and his family really badly but this is not what he deserves...if they really want to help his there are far better things to do than force him to marry...in reality divorcee or widows are not immediately married off like anandi and jagya was...anandi got into another relation just after one-two week of divorce which was really wrong.

Point no. 2 seems the best option. He is an adult and only he has the right to decide when and with whom he wants to marry. If he is not comfortable with the idea of marriage at present, he should not give in to any blackmailing. His family and Ansh should respect his views regarding his own life especially because this involves future of two people (Jagya and his would be wife). Marriage is not a necessity for life like roti, kapda and makan. Nobody will be comfortable with the presence of his ex during his marriage talks, if Jagya shares his concerns with Anandi, I am sure she will understand and will never interfere. Anandi gets involves because of stupid Singhs.

Option no 2 and if its not works then option 7 and if that also not work then option 1.

Run away from home and settle somewhere else... Because there is no use politely or threateningly explaining things to DS or singh's. They do not have any concern for his feelings. They are happy in their own life with anandi involving, anandi will keep coming without any sharam even after knowing how jagya feels about her. There is no one to listen or understand him. Ganga was a good listener before, but not anymore... Everyone in this serial including sanchi has a say in jagyas life except jagya himself. So, it's better he runs away.. That's the only way for him to find some shanti...but unfortunately, he will be dragged back after emotional blackmail and gyaan delivery by shiv...

Originally posted by: Libra123

Run away from home and settle somewhere else... Because there is no use politely or threateningly explaining things to DS or singh's. They do not have any concern for his feelings. They are happy in their own life with anandi involving, anandi will keep coming without any sharam even after knowing how jagya feels about her. There is no one to listenor understand him. Ganga was a good listener before, but not anymore... Everyone in this serial including sanchi has a say in jagyas life except jagya himself. So, it's better he runs away.. That's the only way for him to find some shanti...but unfortunately, he will be dragged back after emotional blackmail and gyaan delivery by shiv...

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Originally posted by: SPuja

Point no. 2 seems the best option. He is an adult and only he has the right to decide when and with whom he wants to marry. If he is not comfortable with the idea of marriage at present, he should not give in to any blackmailing. His family and Ansh should respect his views regarding his own life especially because this involves future of two people (Jagya and his would be wife). Marriage is not a necessity for life like roti, kapda and makan. Nobody will be comfortable with the presence of his ex during his marriage talks, if Jagya shares his concerns with Anandi, I am sure she will understand and will never interfere. Anandi gets involves because of stupid Singhs.

Personally I think CVs are giving a very wrong social message here. For one I dont think Jagya was feeling lonely or sad (he was just busy with his work) till DS thought so and Shiv suggested marriage as solution. I am also surprised how Bhairo could not understand Jagya's views. What this track means:

1. Marriage is necessary for happiness.

2. Even adult children can be forced to marry against their wish in the name of family's happiness.

3. While marrying their children who are not ready for marriage, parents can ignore the feelings of would be wife/husband or their family (this point applies to both Anandi and Jagya's marriage).

Agree...very valid points...my thoughts exactly. Jagya should be firm about his decision n not give in to any emotional blackmail.