Blast from the Past Thread #10, pg 45, epi 113

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indi52

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: chalhov

Indi wonderful take
Always its the old songs with lost of meaning liked the words you take away my sunshine with you that is what happened here she will take away his life he will live like a zombie with no life doing the right things .A man hurting wants to say dont you ever leave me and go I want to see you everyday and doing the opposite hurting himself her what an episode though it hurts the viewer also but these you want to see again and again lovely pictures loved all the colored and bold parts and my comments in blue

thanks, chalhov. reproduced the whole post because i love your freeflow style and comments. yes gorgeous episodes, you can see them anytime and feel all the feelings every watch. he was continuing in a state of inertia and then she came and rammed into him... bas, no turning back, and all the trouble that comes with it. lovely, isn't it.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: supriya.arshi

thanks, supriya. you are always a sincere reader and too much praise giver... i love both things. hope your mood is better now. epi is saddening, yet a strange excitement. that desperate need for each other so clear.

have you solved the lost episodes problem? tell me if you download episodes, can you turn them into dvd's?

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indi52

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Posted: 12 years ago

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IN LOVE WITH THIS EDIT, How did you do it?

what must she have felt when she saw the first aid preparation. bet he also put some ointment, etc. she just watched him do his work. the significance of it all somehow not lost on her. dm watched over them, the creatives were not talking any chances that you didn't get the point.

but really, even without dm, even without mahurat and all the chanting, just by itself the whole thing was magical. and desperately beautiful.

there are many reasons i can never have enough of bad boy asr, this is one of them. that revelation of a loving heart behind khadoos, and none of your soppy nonsense... though he wants to bawl at having hurt his dueling partner, he is practical, all set with things of use, not just silly sweet words. months later, even as he went nuts, he will think of a mangalsutra and sindoor because even though he hates her, she needs them to even think of a thing called marriage. crazy man.👏

a handsome devoted man, a gorgeous in love girl, and an attraction that pulls them even when they push each other away. how intimate, how loving his hands on her soft ones, making pain go away. another glimpse of this thing called love. wonder which rasa.

she watches silently. he works absorbed. just a couple of times he looks at her. nihatya, unarmed, as he is, feelings evident... no rancour.

Indi, floating in air after this read, thanks for it. As always you put the most crucial scenes and aspects in the most beautiful words. loved you insight on our man and also Khushi's state of mind after these moments. Great pick up, of course she feels better now after what he just did.

abs loved all in purple, purple bold -AMAZING and the eggplan purple underline/bold is simply mmmuuuwwwaaass. also loved all the edits.

and how you described out man's style today 👏👏👏, i couldn't begin to put into words but you've managed, well done!

hi ami, how floatest you? thanks a tonne for all those heady purples. our man was thoda zyada hi ishtylewa today. i was in a frenzy when i saw him in that suit and shirt/

that edit you ask about, nothing to it...used colour splash and left only the two in full colour. enhance contrast and colour.

yeah there was a bit of extra dum to both at end of episode. after all thsi 118/119 very tame. 😆

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samin6

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Episode 114-115 :
NNovel way of getting engaged and an appreciation for Arnav's Shatir dimag. I think the entire episode reminded me of this song. This also reminded me men will always be man and women always that. However each can express their feelings by not copying the opposite sex. A man is all about having a superior attitude, a caring one and anger. On the other side - a female usually inherently is mild, does not resort to extreme pride, at the same time can tolerate and express. Each can express love and that does not make them weak.This is a song which was in my head when this episodes were watched
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cE5q9kst-Zc[/YOUTUBE]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cE5q9kst-Zc

Arnav being a man in love : It was evident he was acting as a man. He acting out and saying why everyone was telling about Khushi. He was angry and disturbed that Khushi has not spoken to him about not coming back to Raizada mansion. It was his house, and he was the one who loved her the most. So he thought he would have been given the courtesy of not seeing Khushi again. To him Khushi not telling him that it was her last day must have hurt his ego. So had the same the unawareness of the family members that he was being disturbed. At the same time as a man he wanted to give Khushi space- as she wanted by being away from his family. He knew Khushi would never say no to anyone when some one insists and his family would take advantage of Khushi if he tells nicely. So he was angry when he told everyone- Khushi yeh, Khushi woh, mein bhi pareshan ho chukao." These hurtful words however were not for Khushi's ears- and when he saw she had heard he was even more frustrated of how to make it right. When Hari prakash brought his juice he said he wanted coffee- may be he did not want anymore sweetness in his life after bringing bitterness in Khushi's heart. When Khushi came to return his mannat ki Chabi and he told her- go away- that was again a man speaking. That was a man in love who knew at that moment whatever Khushi would speak can only be something which would indicate how low of a human being he is in her eyes. However when he grabbed her- he did not see that, he saw her love for him which he could bear even less. When Khushi was leaving- he kept on looking with blank eyes as if wanting to say, "I can not cry I am a man, but I love her damn it.". At the same time wishing she would look back at him a last time although he had hurt her. When he saw the Mannat ki chabi he instantaneously knew with his shatir dimag that Khushi needed him- and a man in love has a natural tendency to protect and take care. This on top was our ARSHI who did not need words to communicate. When he sees that he has hurt her- he cleans the wound and wraps it up. After that for a moment it leaps to him that he loves this person- so he continues to look at her for minutes after finishing the bandage on her. He did not need to look what he was dressing but her eyes, ass if his hand instantaneously knew where hers is. When in the end he says that he does not want to see her anymore- was also a moment when he decided that although he loved her he as a man expected Khushi to love him as he is and when he told her to get out of his life expected as a man for her to cling tighter to him if she loved him. When she did not he came to the conclusion she was deceiving him and cared only for his money.

Khushi as an woman in love : She has the natural tendency to never express her love and love for Arnav was at this point less of a priority then Babuji's health, her own mental turmoil, and a host of other things that were wrong. Therefore she did not call the house to say it was her last day- because as a female it was natural for her to avoid confrontation and speech with someone who had broken her heart. When she came and saw Arnav being disturbed she instantaneously knew the reason behind- however her being a female prevented her from blurting the reason in front of the Raizada family. When she went to give him his Mannat ki Chabi, which was to her a key to all treasures- she wanted to make him understand that she was giving him the key which was to all her treasures- and to Khushi her biggest treasure was her heart. She wanted him to understand she has given him back the key to her heart which he had thrown away.He had told her- the fact that he loved her- meant nothing to him. She wanted to convey - that his heart and love may be of no value to him but it was very important to her. She therefore gave him a key hoping he would catch the drift and keep the key to her treasures. As if saying all her treasures which she had kept locked in his locker were his to do as he wished. When he came to tie a bandage she was hurt as a broken female. It was the female self respect which did not like that he grab her in a Mandir- without giving her the proper respect of being a spouse. However she was relenting and made the entire world vanish to nothing when he looked at her- because she loved him. When he said that he did not believe in the Diety- she had to tell him that when he understands she will no longer be a part of his life- I think women have a tendency to remind their loved ones that one day they will no longer be there. When she left she again said as a woman that she is not going to see him again- particularly one in deep love- repeating after what the other one was saying- just for the sake of argument.

Allah as the one who always bringing people in love together : It is said that love is the best emotion Allah has given us. So to make our ARSHI blockheads there had to be some Devine interference. Be that Khushi getting hurt in exactly the finger whose vessel goes to the heart. So I really loved those lines- Whatever we made of ourselves in life- our Allah held our hands and made us do it. When we succeeded or failed. And yes no one writes our lot other then Allah. We can are supposed to show Allah the respect Allah deserves. In this world where people are always there to find a fault with Allah- it was a nice remembrance- the best emotion Allah gave us- love and people who love us even though we may not want them. So our ARSHI did not want the spouse whom they loved, may be their knowledge was limited but the knowledge of Allah is enormous. So what if there are Shyams and Buajis in the world. However love usually because is the most treasured thing goes through the toughest hurdles. And Allah usually appears to people the way they want Allah. So Khushi wanted her Creator to be one who would carry her through hurdles carrying her hand and not allow anything bad happen. So she was carried though hurdles always with support.

Family as interference in love : Now of course the top one was Buaji and her insistence of Khushi marrying Shyam- however I do doubt if she would have been this much insistent if she knew Khushi loved Arnav. Then comes Raizada's and their praise of Khushi and behaving as if Khushi's importance to them was a feeling which Arnav did not share. So they did not catch the drift- when Arnav said Khushi is out of my life, when they saw her have premonition of Khushi's presence and when they saw Khushi was disturbed with Arnav's words.

In this episode however I realized Arnav loved Khushi far more then Khushi loved him. And realized the path of love- it is never simple and smooth.
I think it has more thorns however in the end for those who can handle them- as it is said even Allah obliges.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha

hey wiwy keep you always in prayers .Hope everything be fine with your Dad .My faith is strong and believe and God is always looking on us with HIS tender eye its us who can't see or gets delusional but he is there ALWAYS.May God gives you strength and energy to take care of your father.Amen.
Yes this thread is an escape from all ,
Take care of yourself and your father.Underlined beautiful and small lines with huge message.❤️

Oh Wiwy just love Tagore!!! His words are breathtaking just like when Indi writes the same happens to me. Thank you so much. As for Dad and your family you all are in my prayers always. Enjoy the time with your family and I pray for safe travels for all. The only thing I am going to ask is what is your Dad holding heavily on his heart? If you can get him to talk about it his pain may go away. I do believe we hold on to things that cause our illnesses. Just like my back issues probably related to feeling that I had lost my support, my mom. I will continue to pray but just love on him a lot. Get him to take deep breaths and RELAX. He will feel a lot better knowing he is not alone. Miss you love you xo Cyn🤗

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Mysticaldivine

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: BarunDiwani

Thanks for elaborating Arshi, i know what you're saying, we def wouldn't put up with a man talking/treating us that way BUT i feel when she felt it was necessary Khushi gave it right back to him. Most of the time she stayed quiet even though he hurt her was when she had some understanding of why he was doing what he was doing. Even she didn't feel that redemption was necessary and niether did i. He never got credit for all the time he saved her life, saved her from falling, sweetly blowing sand out of her eye, untangling her from fairy light, taking care of her when she was sick...yes verbal abuse was his way of only pushing her away after the GH incident...and don't forget she also really hurt him verbally a few times. two times that stick out are during resignation and after the forced marriage when she tells him she hates him and that he isn't deserving of anyone's love 😭 oh that scene makes me bawl everytime. Even the day after the forced marriage in moo-dikhai, he stuck up for her respect even though he was under the impression that she was having an affair with another man. "Meri patni"...ok i better get back to work, but that's my side of argument. I don't think there was any need to apologize...but he did later on b/c that's how bad he felt, so to me that was more than enough. If he hurt her, he took care her of in their journey together and that in itself was redemption in my eyes.

Yes Ami The two scenes you are mentioning when she bursts out at him ,1st one was good as he lets her to take out her anger so he can start fresh with her and speak to her to explain his POV but Second one He said her first "because I hate you" and she stood with astonishment as was not expected that from him that's why she said "Hum bhi aap se nafrat karte hain.aap iss layeq hi nahin keh aap se koi payar kare" She was hurt too and he realized too what did he just say to her and then n that frustration threw furniture.

But one more time when his meds switched with Mami after holi and she said it again nafrat karte hain hum aap se and he does not say anything because he knew that she did not mean it after understanding the situation.

I am with you in it as I never wanted redemption as I said always because he was in pain always along with her or may be more than her.That sorry was I think ppl pressure or trp otherwise has no meaning .Stupid thing to show as there was no need for that he was standing besides her all along what else we need

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samin6

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: cinthiann1758

Oh Wiwy just love Tagore!!! His words are breathtaking just like when Indi writes the same happens to me. Thank you so much. As for Dad and your family you all are in my prayers always. Enjoy the time with your family and I pray for safe travels for all. The only thing I am going to ask is what is your Dad holding heavily on his heart? If you can get him to talk about it his pain may go away. I do believe we hold on to things that cause our illnesses. Just like my back issues probably related to feeling that I had lost my support, my mom. I will continue to pray but just love on him a lot. Get him to take deep breaths and RELAX. He will feel a lot better knowing he is not alone. Miss you love you xo Cyn🤗

Oh Wiwy really hope your Dad is better. In any case as for angioplasty in a couple of years it also depends on which vessel was blocked the first time. Usually angioplasty is of two vessels to heart. So I am assuming that your dad now has a block in some other vessel of his heart. If initially he had disease in three vessels he would have undergone a bypass. Also now a days sequential angioplasty is routine, meaning if three or four vessels are blocked- the cardiologists first do angioplasty of two and then angioplasty of the rest and usually start with the worst block. In any case do not worry, it is a less risky operation then Ceaserian section with less side effects too.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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indi52

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha

Indi simply amazing⭐️👏 love the pink at the end about Khushi and yes she was so relaxed as compared to last night and was totally into his thoughts when Buaji announced her engagement ,if Scorpion didn't play that game at that time she would refuse everything but she didn't or couldn't as this is going to be paying off time as an orphan too much on her tiny shoulders.She is a second commander after her father.
About ASR I know you describe this character way beyond but I must say as I said this before people like him who are angry and this and that with lots of anger their heart are always clear crystal...".Shafaf" and pure...😊

Indeed the whole thing was magical and done so beautifully 👏👏His tenderness and her gussa which melts with every touch of him was so cute...😳
Nice edits Love the first one and the mandir one .I did the same but it didn't come like yours.I used the Ribbit Its really cute .❤️
Yes that time was 6 as six circles and chukervyue is playing along and it should be his watch well planned .
Lots of purple and really enjoyed it .Thnx for such a nice flowing review.⭐️❤️

arshi, thanks so much. happy you enjoyed. i really really like that "shafaf" thought of yours. so true at times, the angry ones are often also the clean and pure ones... perhaps that's why the angry young man image has held our imagination and stirred us often.

that line about his tenderness and her melting gussa, felt like a summary of the entire episode. beautiful.😃