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"A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you." - Elbert Habbard
Life has given wonderful friends to me and I feel one of the best definition of friendship is this. I have seen Sanaya and barun for the past 2 years and obviously envy the kind of friendship they share. They know each other and still accept each other how they are. We are outsiders to their friendship and we have our set of opinion but they are matured adults and know each other and still accept each other as their friends.
Some of us think may be sanaya is bit rude to barun or barun is bit rude to sanaya but it is just us who think so, I feel they rather know each other than all of us put together to continue their friendship or not. For any relationship, whether it is friendship or anything, the third person is always third party. We judge because of our perception but the best judge is two of them. I feel they know who they are and with whom they need to do their friendship?
In recent IV of team sarun, sanaya has shared that she misses barun on sets, only true friends misses. In some of the IV of barun, he always says how good friend sanaya is for him. Of the beautiful memories I have treasured of them, I vaguely remember one of the IV where sanaya was asked a question how often she dreams and barun has answered that and in the same IV when barun was asked a question about his childhood teachers, sanaya has answered his question. A beautiful bond I have experienced for the past 2 years and still treasure it because true friends are rare to find.
A true friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down
The most beautiful discovery that true friends can make is that they can grow separately without growing apart - Elizabeth Foley
What a wonderful quotes on friendship again? I have seen sanaya how she was happy for barun in every award function he has won last year. I still remember one of the IV where barun has explained how sanaya came after her first London visit and her first dialogue was that barun u have a huge following. I have seen barun how happy he was when sanaya got a show which was solely dependent on herself. I remember his words -the promos and all are dependent on sanaya, that shows her credibility. They both are happy for each other success and respect each other decision
They both are in a position where they have achieved some position in their career. They don't need anyone to uplift their careers. They are happy and content with each other popularity and success too. And the best part is that they don't envy each other success or feel jealous for the popularity the others have.
And in the whole quitting fiasco or after math obviously it was one of the lowest phases of both barun and sanaya. They have faced troubles in their own way. Still they are friends in the lowest of their times. People may ask what is the proof? I don't know them personally, so I don't know what is happening in their lifes. But I believe in IV's on their face value and each cast member of IPK said they are till date best friends and still they meet each other.
What you do, the way you think, makes you beautiful
The unconditional friendship can be shared only if you yourself are a beautiful person. I feel both sanaya and barun are beautiful souls. You can be happy for the success of other person and you can be happy for the growth other person is achieving only when you are a good person in the first place.
No selfish, no dual personality, no jealous personality can pretend to be happy in other person achievements or success.
Any kind of good ness should be appreciated in this world. This is my mantra. I sincerely appreciate the beautiful and kind souls they are. In one of the team sarun IV of Abhaji I remember how she explained how modest barun and sanaya are. They seriously dont know their popularity. Their down to earth nature is one of the things which amazes me. Being in show business and that too as a lead, having such modesty is a rare thing to find out.
Freedom is not worth having if it doesnt include the freedom to make mistakes - Gandhi
When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are
I don't say Barun and sanaya never did mistakes. They should have done many we know and many we don't know. But what is important learning once mistakes and correcting it. Barun once said he should have done many mistakes, there is no fun in life without doing mistakes and learning it. Even sanaya once said she learns from the mistakes she do.
We judge them because many of us have idolized them. Keeping aside that idolizing factor if we treat them as human beings, we can appreciate them for what they have done and what they are doing. It is their choices to choose what they want to do, when they want to do and how they want to do.
We may think that is not good for them. As already told it is the person who can be better judge than us to understand what is best for him or for her. Instead of investigating on the mistakes they have done, I wish them luck in their future endeavors and paths they have chosen
Sakshi tanwar has said recently that Kahani ghar ghar is her most prized achievement and all the others are just bonus for her. In the same way I feel barun and sanaya has achieved their peak with IPk and all the other are bonus. Though our heart wants them more, still I feel whatever they achieve from now on is a bonus part. And they have full freedom to play on that bonus and take decisions in the way they creatively like
Note: On the happy occasion of mothers day I wish all the mothers a happy mothers day. Though the topic is not related to mothers, I still take this as a platform to convey my best wishes. People say a mother is born with a child. For a child, mother is always important to transform one unidentified soul to a beautiful human being. For a mother, child is always important to transform themselves from a lady to a beautiful mother.
Both require each and other. The patience with which they take our tantrums is beyond my imagination. My bow down for all the mothers who has that patience to tackle us, their time to answer our queries and necessities, their energy to complete the incomplete tasks we do, their encouragement for all our deeds, their motivation for our failures and last but not the least their unconditional love and pampering
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