Jealousy!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: NKSUDHIR

Yes, you are right, women has more jealousy compare to men for their family members, friends or relatives. Women will do anything to show that she is higher than other person. Somewoman will try to copy same profession, home, clothing style, life style etc to show that they are not equal to other but superior to others.

I think dat now-a-dayz its equal!!! Most boys also be jealous of their mates!!!

I have a friend who is a boy & he loves one girl so much!! Apparently dat girl is going out with this boy's best mate!

This boy is one of my best friend & he always tells me dat aint i handsome as him😳 Actually v all r in a group & this boy alwayz sees his best mate along wid his g/f & he feels so bad!😳 I feel so sad for him!

Take Care

Anoli

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great topic...👏

dis topic always dominates my lyfe lol

jealousy!

it happens because we cant see sumwun happy...because sumwun else has what we want...jealousy is a feeling that cant be avoided or hidden..it just cums out lol...wen im jealous (wont tell u of hu lol)..ders dis anger in my eyes and i have 2 hold my fists so strongly 2 calm myself down lol...

xxx hinal xxx

good topic anoli 😊

jealousy to some extent..provided on a healthy basis is good.for eg...when we were in 1st or 4th grade...we all wud have been jealous of the person who ranks academically the best...or the best sportsperson...and we wud have strived to achieve that position..so worked harder!so sometimes it stirs up the competition in us...thts good.

other times...it becomes a feeling where we feel jealous of this neighbour..who has more money...more position...suppose if everyone in ur neighborhood had a similar lifestyle as urs...wud u be bothered thinking...'oh my god,all live the same lifestyle as mine...i shd be a class above the others'....i think this doesnt happen.u feel jealous only when u also fancy or desire a richer life,cud be in any sense.and i dont see much of wrong in that...coz everyone is a human...and its normal human tendency to fancy something that u dont have

next comes the section of people who cnt bear the jealousy in them...and try to pull down the other person...one must try to climb his/her own ladder...and not cut off the rung of others...as u sow...so u reap!and wht goes around...comes back to u!so we wud do better to store our jealousy for something constructive..rather than destructive purposes....

Originally posted by: rose82

good topic anoli 😊

jealousy to some extent..provided on a healthy basis is good.for eg...when we were in 1st or 4th grade...we all wud have been jealous of the person who ranks academically the best...or the best sportsperson...and we wud have strived to achieve that position..so worked harder!so sometimes it stirs up the competition in us...thts good.

Hehehe!!!😆 I still compare my results wid my mates!😳 😳 😳

Good Point!!! I like it Rose!🤗🤗🤗

Take Care

Anoli

xxx

Jealousy is in human nature and as long as it is limited, it can be beneficial. I know that being slightly jealous of other people's success has led me to work hard and be motivated to succeed. But I think the main thing is to only use that jealousy to improve yourself and not to hurt another person. So if you are jealous of what someone has, you should work hard to get it yourself, not take it away from that person. If its something that you can't have because the other person has it (like suppose you're in love with someone who is in a relationship with another person), then you should just try to contain your jealousy and move on with your life.