Asad's behavior was despicable...

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...he has repeatedly insulted , berated Zoya and in various previous scenarios has manhandled and physically abused her and has done it in the facade for his love for his tradition, culture and Dilshad's condition( he slapped Zoya when Dilshad was shot)...it was hard as a human being to watch an innocent woman getting slapped for no fault of hers...it was even hard as a viewer to overlook that fact and begin to accept Asad the very same man in any kind of relationship with Zoya the very fictional character I have began to love...but yes, I was ready to accept Asya as a couple after- all that has happened...after everything because down the road I felt that after the whole incident about Zoya's parents death scenario ...Asad did care about her feelings and he did realize that this flawed but very honest woman really cared about people and above all about his family...but I am appalled by his despicable behavior today...
...knowing very well that her parents are deceased he yet again hurt her with extremely heart wrenching and hurtful words...he accused her of something just on his mere presumptions...he insulted her once again in the name of traditions and values knowing very well that she was robbed of her parents love and umbrella at a very young age...how inhuman and derogatory can he get?
...Asad has not a single ounce of trust in Zoya...he doesn't fail to accuse her at the very first chance he gets.
Well...Mr Khan! You need a reality check and that too fast...apparently the woman you have accused of possessing no respect and value for relationships is incidentally the only one who values the relationships. She is the one who is going on with this charade of false rituals just to see your mother happy and safe. She is the same woman who has time and again felt guilty of lying to your mother whereas you are blatantly lying to her face. She is the one who openly let you know that this time around the engagement would be real before you put the ring...and what did you do Mr khan? You went ahead with the ring ceremony but right after disregarded it as fake...So, Mr Khan who is the one who respects the values here ...you or her ? Hypocrisy...???

All I have to say after today is that Asad at this point doesn't deserve a person like Zoya...in any kind of relationship mutual respect and trust is an essential ingredient...right at this point Asad possesses no trust whatsoever and above all he doesn't respect her. First and foremost he has to learn to respect her for who she is...he has to learn to give her the benefit of doubt and for that he needs to respect her enough to believe that she would never do something hurtful to anyone let alone to his dear ones.

As a viewer I am disappointed because this Tanveer track is getting repetitive with her getting away with evil activities and Zoya getting blamed for it time and again...Ms Gul this pattern seriously needs to stop ... If not for us, think about the TRPs...Tanveer with her ridiculously irritating background music is getting to me.

But, above all Zoya needs to show some self respect...I am not talking about trying to prove her innocence in this whole matter but to stand up for her once and for all and let Asad no that she has self respect and dignity...he simply cannot abuse her whenever he can and then apologize. But keeping in mind the news of Zoya's dream sequence...I guess once again you will let Zoya forgive Asad ...I just cannot fathom how a woman dreams about the very man who repeatedly accuses and insults her?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is too much Asad always insulting to zoya ... asad dont deserve zoya at all ... there should be some respect for her.. she is doing so much for them ...




Originally posted by: Rupunzale

...he has repeatedly insulted , berated Zoya and in various previous scenarios has manhandled and physically abused her and has done it in the facade for his love for his tradition, culture and Dilshad's condition( he slapped Zoya when Dilshad was shot)...it was hard as a human being to watch an innocent woman getting slapped for no fault of hers...it was even hard as a viewer to overlook that fact and begin to accept Asad the very same man in any kind of relationship with Zoya the very fictional character I have began to love...but yes, I was ready to accept Asya as a couple after- all that has happened...after everything because down the road I felt that after the whole incident about Zoya's parents death scenario ...Asad did care about her feelings and he did realize that this flawed but very honest woman really cared about people and above all about his family...but I am appalled by his despicable behavior today...

...knowing very well that her parents are deceased he yet again hurt her with extremely heart wrenching and hurtful words...he accused her of something just on his mere presumptions...he insulted her once again in the name of traditions and values knowing very well that she was robbed of her parents love and umbrella at a very young age...how inhuman and derogatory can he get?
...Asad has not a single ounce of trust in Zoya...he doesn't fail to accuse her at the very first chance he gets.
Well...Mr Khan! You need a reality check and that too fast...apparently the woman you have accused of possessing no respect and value for relationships is incidentally the only one who values the relationships. She is the one who is going on with this charade of false rituals just to see your mother happy and safe. She is the same woman who has time and again felt guilty of lying to your mother whereas you are blatantly lying to her face. She is the one who openly let you know that this time around the engagement would be real before you put the ring...and what did you do Mr khan? You went ahead with the ring ceremony but right after disregarded it as fake...So, Mr Khan who is the one who respects the values here ...you or her ? Hypocrisy...???

All I have to say after today is that Asad at this point doesn't deserve a person like Zoya...in any kind of relationship mutual respect and trust is an essential ingredient...right at this point Asad possesses no trust whatsoever and above all he doesn't respect her. First and foremost he has to learn to respect her for who she is...he has to learn to give her the benefit of doubt and for that he needs to respect her enough to believe that she would never do something hurtful to anyone let alone to his dear ones.

As a viewer I am disappointed because this Tanveer track is getting repetitive with her getting away with evil activities and Zoya getting blamed for it time and again...Ms Gul this pattern seriously needs to stop ... If not for us, think about the TRPs...Tanveer with her ridiculously irritating background music is getting to me.

But, above all Zoya needs to show some self respect...I am not talking about trying to prove her innocence in this whole matter but to stand up for her once and for all and let Asad no that she has self respect and dignity...he simply cannot abuse her whenever he can and then apologize. But keeping in mind the news of Zoya's dream sequence...I guess once again you will let Zoya forgive Asad ...I just cannot fathom how a woman dreams about the very man who repeatedly accuses and insults her?

Edited by Ammu_1983 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ammu_1983

It is too much Asas always insulting to zoya ... asad dont deserve zoya





Asad really needs to realize how wrong he is in repeatedly judging and insulting Zoya...right at this point of the story he doesn't deserve her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I believe that the writers have a purpose for this - at least I hope - that eventually Asad will wake up but it will be too late for him and Zoya will have gone. I hope that at that point she moves out and she is living alone and Asad then shows up to win her back. He will then work extremely hard to win her back and Zoya will be the one with the upper hand - unless that happens all of this will be just horrific.

I am so glad you are pointing it out...as much as some viewers claim Asad loves Zoya, you do not hurt the ones you love this way. Asad learning the truth about Tanveer will be the turning point, but like I said, it might be too late.
Edited by Laila2009 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

...he has repeatedly insulted , berated Zoya and in various previous scenarios has manhandled and physically abused her and has done it in the facade for his love for his tradition, culture and Dilshad's condition( he slapped Zoya when Dilshad was shot)...it was hard as a human being to watch an innocent woman getting slapped for no fault of hers

...Asad has not a single ounce of trust in Zoya...he doesn't fail to accuse her at the very first chance he gets.

This is the third serial of this PH and frankly they never learn. Their heroes are always flawed... I understand for the sake of the story, that he misunderstands her or whatever,,, But the physical abuse as in slapping the person for me is MOST IRRITATING! Why does anyone have to be physically abusive, mentally is bad enough... That is such a common thing, everyone slapping everyone... have they not been taught that they use words to get their point across...


Well...Mr Khan! You need a reality check and that too fast...apparently the woman you have accused of possessing no respect and value for relationships is incidentally the only one who values the relationships. She is the one who is going on with this charade of false rituals just to see your mother happy and safe. She is the same woman who has time and again felt guilty of lying to your mother whereas you are blatantly lying to her face. She is the one who openly let you know that this time around the engagement would be real before you put the ring...and what did you do Mr khan? You went ahead with the ring ceremony but right after disregarded it as fake...So, Mr Khan who is the one who respects the values here ...you or her ? Hypocrisy...???

Story line I give them creative freedom here... if he did not misunderstand and expect the worst from her, there would be no story at all...He would be a puppy dog following her around, with googly eyes...


As a viewer I am disappointed because this Tanveer track is getting repetitive with her getting away with evil activities and Zoya getting blamed for it time and again...Ms Gul this pattern seriously needs to stop ... If not for us, think about the TRPs...Tanveer with her ridiculously irritating background music is getting to me.

More than Tanveer the BG is driving me CRAZY! Also she is getting annoying but I guess until they find an AYAAN replacement they have to make do with who they have even though it is repetitive 😉

But, above all Zoya needs to show some self respect...I am not talking about trying to prove her innocence in this whole matter but to stand up for her once and for all and let Asad no that she has self respect and dignity...he simply cannot abuse her whenever he can and then apologize. But keeping in mind the news of Zoya's dream sequence...I guess once again you will let Zoya forgive Asad ...I just cannot fathom how a woman dreams about the very man who repeatedly accuses and insults her?
FINALLY 👏👏👏 Yes catch the next plane to NY and let him come running and begging! She does not need this hassle. Also chicken blood why would she do it? ASAD how the hell did you become successful in life, what an idiot, anyone would know there was an issue.....


Yes everything you say makes sense.. my comments in red...
Edited by ipkfan38 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

...he has repeatedly insulted , berated Zoya and in various previous scenarios has manhandled and physically abused her and has done it in the facade for his love for his tradition, culture and Dilshad's condition( he slapped Zoya when Dilshad was shot)...it was hard as a human being to watch an innocent woman getting slapped for no fault of hers...it was even hard as a viewer to overlook that fact and begin to accept Asad the very same man in any kind of relationship with Zoya the very fictional character I have began to love...but yes, I was ready to accept Asya as a couple after- all that has happened...after everything because down the road I felt that after the whole incident about Zoya's parents death scenario ...Asad did care about her feelings and he did realize that this flawed but very honest woman really cared about people and above all about his family...but I am appalled by his despicable behavior today...

...knowing very well that her parents are deceased he yet again hurt her with extremely heart wrenching and hurtful words...he accused her of something just on his mere presumptions...he insulted her once again in the name of traditions and values knowing very well that she was robbed of her parents love and umbrella at a very young age...how inhuman and derogatory can he get?
...Asad has not a single ounce of trust in Zoya...he doesn't fail to accuse her at the very first chance he gets.
Well...Mr Khan! You need a reality check and that too fast...apparently the woman you have accused of possessing no respect and value for relationships is incidentally the only one who values the relationships. She is the one who is going on with this charade of false rituals just to see your mother happy and safe. She is the same woman who has time and again felt guilty of lying to your mother whereas you are blatantly lying to her face. She is the one who openly let you know that this time around the engagement would be real before you put the ring...and what did you do Mr khan? You went ahead with the ring ceremony but right after disregarded it as fake...So, Mr Khan who is the one who respects the values here ...you or her ? Hypocrisy...???

All I have to say after today is that Asad at this point doesn't deserve a person like Zoya...in any kind of relationship mutual respect and trust is an essential ingredient...right at this point Asad possesses no trust whatsoever and above all he doesn't respect her. First and foremost he has to learn to respect her for who she is...he has to learn to give her the benefit of doubt and for that he needs to respect her enough to believe that she would never do something hurtful to anyone let alone to his dear ones.

As a viewer I am disappointed because this Tanveer track is getting repetitive with her getting away with evil activities and Zoya getting blamed for it time and again...Ms Gul this pattern seriously needs to stop ... If not for us, think about the TRPs...Tanveer with her ridiculously irritating background music is getting to me.

But, above all Zoya needs to show some self respect...I am not talking about trying to prove her innocence in this whole matter but to stand up for her once and for all and let Asad no that she has self respect and dignity...he simply cannot abuse her whenever he can and then apologize. But keeping in mind the news of Zoya's dream sequence...I guess once again you will let Zoya forgive Asad ...I just cannot fathom how a woman dreams about the very man who repeatedly accuses and insults her?



Well said! I desperately want to see Zoe throw that ring and gift in his face and announce to his ammi that her so called tehzeeb wala son was just faking the entire thing. At this point Asad needs to lose Zoya. While i understand that he is fighting with himself, he has constantly deflected it on to Zoya! Did he lose what little grey matter he had when he accused her of switching the blood? It was really shitty writing!

This tanveer track needs to end! It's not adding to the story and the whole mu cycle is just getting boring and tired. I am sick of it! AsYa are losing the magic and if Gul isn't careful she'll ruin a show that started with so much potential.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I didn't really like the way Asad was speaking to zoya.But i think every lovers cannot trust each blindly .It is something we can't find it in real life.However ,there must be a time when someone loses his trust in someone he loves. At that time he did it unintentionally. It is just human nature to lose trust sometimes in your close ones.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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That dance sequence is Zoya's dream? :(
Considering the present state of affairs don't think its wise to show Zoya having such dreams about Asad...it should be Asad's dream!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well said! Exactly my thoughts too! Respect is very much needed in a relationship. Trust and love can then follow. Asad is going backwards. He is in so much denial about his feelings, that he ends up taking his pent up frustrations on Zoya. Notice how he does not talk like that to others.

I really want Zoya to develop a backbone and give him the cold shoulder after proving her innocence. As Laila said, Asad needs to work hard to win her back. Until then, no Mitwas and no dreams. That whole romantic dream dance has lost it's charm for me. No coffee and no simple sorry. Seriously, a big time redemption is way overdue. I am a big AsYa fan and absolutely hate saying this but Ayaan understands Zoya better than Asad does. Not for a second did Ayaan doubt Zoya's innocence in the drugged mithai incident. On the other hand, Asad still brought it up today!

This yo-yo characterization is driving me crazy! I have a feeling CVs are showing this track on purpose to let us believe that AsYa will split. The so called big twist IMO will be AsYa wedding in spite of all these issues. They have a long way to go before Asad can let go of his insecurities and embrace his love for Zoya. Till then we'll keep watching, oohing the Mitwa moments and ranting when Asad berates Zoya.

We are such suckers for falling for this show hook, line and sinker! 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am wondering what PH was up to by showing such ridiculous scene with human blood with chicken blood. I felt it was more childish and a cheapish scene. They should have come up with much better.

Asad bipolar behavior is becoming a monotonous in the serial and feeling kind of bored. I definitely want a physical distance between Asad and Zoya in order to realize for him the value of Zoe.

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