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Sri_Radha thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
Instead sticking with ishita's nasty tricks😡,better they can show PraDhi-Aarya track ,Aarya -kid track s in remaining days..
Don't know what is in cv's mind.😕
Still hopes that ishita track ends within this two days.
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Posted: 12 years ago
I have a question for anyone who would like to answer because I myself don't know if there is an answer to it.

We all know Aayu is coming back today and that eventually everything will be hunky dory between Yash and Aarti.

But let us for a minute look into a scenario where Aayu never comes back: so what should be done now. I mean to me it looks like the situation is at stalemate. Yash is convinced that Aarti betrayed his trust and broke her promise. He has alienated her. Aarti as usual is trying to reach him and probably is pushing him farther away. Check mate! Now what should they do? What is the next step? They obviously cannot go like this for the rest of their lives? Some compromise should be made? And its a given that both should but what exactly should both do to at least open oneself to the other. Can Yash hide behind his pain and disillusionment for the rest of their lives? Can Aarti constantly run behind Yash? Or should she remove herself from Yash's life? Will any of those options solve anything? I mean if Aayu doesn't come back does that mean there is no solution, there is no way a reconciliation can happen? Or is it that time is a healer and until God alone knows when the kids should watch their parents live under the same roof yet live in completely different worlds.

It is all well and good to analyze why they are acting this way and give justifications for both their actions but how do they go forward from here? With Aayu's presence back in the house, things will open up but my point is if Aayu is never found then would that mean this relationship ends because Yash cannot see past his pain and Aarti hasn't done enough self reflection. Even if Aarti does reflect, what else can she do to bridge the gap if Yash doesn't want her near him. Both has to self reflect but what pains me is that it looks like that self reflection will come only with Aayu back in their life. It looks like without Aayu, they both are so embroiled in their own past that they are unable to get out of its clutches and this relationship might die a painful death.

So, without being dependent on Aayu's presence, couldn't all their experiences together give them the strength to move beyond their own pain and disillusionment and allow them to reach out for each other?
Edited by angake - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
for god sake just give him a glass of BHAANG 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
@Indu: I am totally in agreement that both of them need to introspect. My pushing for Aarti and defending Yash comes from the fact that while Yash's introspection and remorse is imminent, as always, Aarti's is not, as always. My one regret has been that they have always, always stopped short of showing any real growth in Aarti, implying that she is "just right" to begin with and it is Yash who needs to change and become more like her. I know that is not the case, but the way events have occurred, and the way I see people interpreting them, it sure does seem that way. That tends to frustrate me and make me more polemically "for Yash" when I don't feel that extremely.

@Kirthi: The lurking sceptre of the self-abnegating desi heroine shadows our strong Aarti. I do hope they lift that shadow for good when Aayu is back!
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Posted: 12 years ago
New DC .. all can move in 😳

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3565673#82082904
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Posted: 12 years ago
I wonder how In the world can cv's get ideas for PV 2 ka storyline..maybe what we are expecting here is gonna happen in PV 2..

and it seems cv's they are interested on to bring this track..and better one's ,that'll help increase trp's when it's heading towards the end..🤪

I doubt It'l last fr a year..ppl would eventually get bored ..and I'm sure they would steal some ideas from PV 1 ...

yea go ahead n throw chappals... 😆 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
@Kirthi: I guess first they would have to come to terms with the fact that they were never going to find Aayu. As always, Yash being a pessimist is a few steps ahead of Aarti on that one. She is trying desperately to cling to hope while he seems to already be grieving. I would think the whole cycle would start over again, with them putting their issues to aside to be good parents to their children, something neither of them is willing to compromise and then falling in love through that process all over again. What I missed most in the month leap was the kids' efforts to make their parents batti. I can't think of anything else being able to bridge the gap. 😭
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

@inlieu: I don't think it is fair to brush Yash's own abandonment issues under the rug and dismiss it as selfish behaviour. Also, I think you have the right to be selfish when you all but lose your child. I am not saying his behaviour towards Aarti is right, but it is not surprising me either, after the initial shock and some thinking. Everyone sees Aarti's issues because she shares with people and becomes more needful of approval when she feels abandoned. Yash goes into his shell and makes his anger known when people try to pry him out of it. There is a reason for that. He is a really sensitive person and if he were to come out of his shell, he is not sure he could cope with the emotions that would wash over him, especially when he feels abandoned by Aarti right now.

Both Yash and Aarti took each other's strength for granted. They both have a lot of introspection ahead of them. Yash's will come automatically when Ishita's truth is revealed but Aarti's? I am still not convinced that the CVs will ever step beyond martyring her because of her basic nature.


If you read one of my earlier posts, I mentioned how Yash is going through the same sort of emotions and reacting similarly to how he did after losing Arpita. Going into a shell is his nature, and makes him selfish. Not because he deliberately means to be that way or hurt people, but he makes it nearly impossible to reach him if he chooses to. Only the kids seem to have been let in, whereas in the past, that wouldn't have happened either. I was basically saying what you said, that his behavior is true to his nature. I'm not surprised, silly as the track may seem timing-wise. I guess this is what we're seeing with Yash, though in his case, he alienated Aarti. I am curious to know if this has extended to his siblings too. Aarti and the kids got through to him before by showing him he was needed, and this must happen again, though I'm not sure how. I am pretty sure one of the reasons for his anger is low self-esteem, feeling that he wasn't a good enough father to prevent Aayu being kidnapped. Isn't that how he felt too, when Aarti and Ansh left home? He kept wondering where he'd gone wrong and I guess it is like that now too.

As with the post-Mumbai phase, I totally understand where Yash is coming from and am also not surprised at his behavior. I also disagree completely that Yash only 'loved Aarti because of Aayu' because we know better. He will come around...What bothered me was Yash pointing out to Aarti what "she'd done to him". Again, it's about him, his grief, his loss, etc. What about hers? She fought like crazy to have Aayu, yet she has to remain strong because that's who she is and is expected to be. We have yet to see a total breakdown of Aarti, and I'm praying that we get to see it now. Despite being treated so bad by Yash, she has never given up on their relationship or called it quits, but he seems to do that so much easier. I know it's Yash after all, but it must be killing his wife to think about that over and over.

Yes, Aarti made a mistake, made several in fact. She needs to start to think of sharing and consulting, not diving headfirst into crazy situations. Her 'crazy' behavior is only making Yash angrier. As for her abandonment issues, I'd like to think the CVs had a whole track planned for that, but never got to it because they had to kill Prashant off and have the little family abandoned by SP!

I guess Yash and Aarti still have a lot to learn about being good partners and soulmates, because though love conquers all, it isn't enough.

@bold - could you explain what you meant by that please? Not sure I understood you. 😳
Edited by inlieu - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
@Angake

Short answer: raising their kids will bring them closer, as it did the first time around. Yash will learn to forgive Aarti eventually when he realizes again what a great mother she is. Aarti will be much more careful in everything she does because she wouldn't want to lose anyone else.
Edited by inlieu - 12 years ago
Samanalyse thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
Last post on this thread, promise!

@inlieu: I transferred my reply to the next thread, on page 4, I think. 😊

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