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Posted: 12 years ago
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Here are my thoughts on both of them
Purvi :
- stupid for not seeing what a good man she has in Onir. People have first loves all the time, but sometimes in life, we don't end up with our first love and we move on. It is possible to fall in love more than once in a lifetime.
- stupid for not taking Pari back when Arjun said Ovi didn't want anything to do with Pari. But I will give her the benefit of the doubt, she figured if she got close to Pari, then Ovi wouldn't like it and would never accept Pari (which is exactly how Ovi felt when she saw Purvi's reaction to Pari's kidnapping) BUT, it's not her job to fix Arjun and Ovi's marriage, let them handle their personal life
- stupid for giving Pari away in the first place, BUT, giving birth is a very emotional experience, you are tired and not always thinking clearly after giving birth. She took the decision while she was in a heightened emotional state and when she probably realized what she'd done it was too late.
I think Purvi needs to quit all this rona dhona crap and grow a back bone. Stand up for herself and stop worrying about everyone else. She doesn't have to fix everything for everyone all the time.

Ovi:
Honestly I've never liked her, she is a spoiled spoiled brat, BUT it's not her fault, everyone treats her like she's some kind of friggin maharani or something. She needs to be taught a lesson and learn to grow up. Life is not always perfect, just because you grew up with someone and they are your best friend does not mean that they HAVE to fall in love with you and marry you. She has always been handed everything on a silver platter and when she doesn't get her way she pouts, and screams and cries and threatens. Get over yourself. I don't feel bad for her regarding anything to do with Arjun b/c she chose that life for herself. You can force someone to marry you but you can't force them to have feelings for you. That's just stupid. Any problems with Arjun she brought upon herself.
On that same note, you don't just stop loving someone either, especially a baby .I know deep down she still loves Pari, but to take out her anger on the baby is just childish and mean.

BUT: I feel horrible that she did not even get to hold her baby or say goodbye. I blame all of Ovi's hurt over her baby on Onir. Purvi didn't force him to switch babies, he could've said no. He could've said, "if you want to switch babies, you do it" He should get his license revoked, as a doctor he knew what he did was wrong. If he cared about his job so much he never would've done it.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wow people are still blaming ovi
Yes she loved arjun, she proposed a deal but to accept it or not was purvi's call
To marry or not was arjun's
After arovi first month anni , ovi told arjun she would leave and to call if the marriage but arjun wanted a second chance
Some people react more than others
Ovi reacts a lot too
If she was actually spoiled by now she would have yelled at purvi for coming to her house which she didnt
Its not her fault she is hded everything over to her
Ovi i by far the nost blievabke character in PR
Unlike uvi s doesnt make balidaans and create unnecessary dama
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Wow people are still blaming ovi

Yes she loved arjun, she proposed a deal but to accept it or not was purvi's call
To marry or not was arjun's
After arovi first month anni , ovi told arjun she would leave and to call if the marriage but arjun wanted a second chance
Some people react more than others
Ovi reacts a lot too
If she was actually spoiled by now she would have yelled at purvi for coming to her house which she didnt
Its not her fault she is hded everything over to her
Ovi i by far the nost blievabke character in PR
Unlike uvi s doesnt make balidaans and create unnecessary dama


I did say it's not her fault she's spoiled.
I agree, Purvi and Arjun are at fault for Ovi and Arjun getting married, but she should not have expected Arjun to love her. As for giving Arjun the chance to walk out, i'm sure deep down she knew he wouldn't do it, she just wanted a chance to make him look horrible to the family and she'd get a chance to create some drama
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Oh, and the only likable character in my opinion is Soham. Everyone else is annoying most of the time
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yeah well if arjun wouldnt walk out
Purvi could spealk up
Purvi could tell everyone of her pregnancy
Ovi wanted her love so she got it
She didnt murder anyone or give anyone false hopes
She told everyone it was a deal marriage
As for her not accepting anything
Arjun promised to marry her first
Punni brainwsshed ovi into thinking purvi was after his money
She loved him all her life
And now randomly this gyy dclahis love for another woman
And he sould accept it?
UnfortunateLy not veryone is as mahaan s urvi
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Posted: 12 years ago
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She needs to be taught a lesson? She needs to realise that life is not perfect?

Are we watching the same show? How much more messed up can her life get?

Just one deal and ppl just keep harping on that still conveniently forgetting that a deal takes two ppl to complete.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Wow people are still blaming ovi

Yes she loved arjun, she proposed a deal but to accept it or not was purvi's call
To marry or not was arjun's
After arovi first month anni , ovi told arjun she would leave and to call if the marriage but arjun wanted a second chance
Some people react more than others
Ovi reacts a lot too
If she was actually spoiled by now she would have yelled at purvi for coming to her house which she didnt
Its not her fault she is hded everything over to her
Ovi i by far the nost blievabke character in PR
Unlike uvi s doesnt make balidaans and create unnecessary dama

i completely agree with you😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Umm...she already knows that life is not perfect...she has gone through way more than purvi...and no she is not a spoiled brat...the has a rich dad but she still worked while she was going to school...she took care of the baby all on her own...she is living in a one bedroom chawl...a spoiled brat wouldn't put up with all that...once she realized that Arjun doesn't love her she did leave him...it is another story that purvi doesn't want him...purvi is as much to blame for the deal as ovi...ovi said it in desperation but purvi had a long hard thought abt it and then sacrificed Arjun...ovi is not to be blamed for that...I am sick of people calling ovi spoiled...if anyone is spoiled that is purvi who can't even take care of her daughter and needs others to do the dirty work...ovi is a gem compared to purvi
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Originally posted by: Luv4games

Umm...she already knows that life is not perfect...she has gone through way more than purvi...and no she is not a spoiled brat...the has a rich dad but she still worked while she was going to school...she took care of the baby all on her own...she is living in a one bedroom chawl...a spoiled brat wouldn't put up with all that...once she realized that Arjun doesn't love her she did leave him...it is another story that purvi doesn't want him...purvi is as much to blame for the deal as ovi...ovi said it in desperation but purvi had a long hard thought abt it and then sacrificed Arjun...ovi is not to be blamed for that...I am sick of people calling ovi spoiled...if anyone is spoiled that is purvi who can't even take care of her daughter and needs others to do the dirty work...ovi is a gem compared to purvi


Money is not the only thing that can spoil people. I think Purvi and Ovi have both done things that they are to be blamed for, but it seems as if the Ovi supporters believe that Ovi is not a fault at all, which I honesty think is ridiculous. They are both at fault, everbody is at fault in some way. To say that she's always been a victim is just not true
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Posted: 12 years ago
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No Ovi supporters think she is not at fault because she was betrayed
Arjun promised to marry her
She was waiting for him
Then he suddenly falls in love with someone else
How would you feel if you were her ?
Ovi proposed a deal , because she was heartbroken
She thought her world was going to be over
I begged my ex boyfriend to be with me despite I knew he was seeing someone else
But I thought my world would be over if he wasn't with me
Of course I didn't love him all my life
I dated him for a year but then eventually we broke up
But then I was infatuated
But Ovi knew the meaning of love from Arjun
People are not always in their senses while making hasty decisions
Neither are they rational
If Purvi actually wanted her family to reunite
She would tell Manav the truth despite of Archana's kasam
Because she ruined 3 lives the moment she accepted the deal

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