Second chance - Page 2

Originally posted by: cardio21

I think people do deserve a second chance.. But this one needs more work on his part.. I think Madhu should bring up each day of her suffering not as in pleading with him but in relaying to him the impact of his actions..

Apology for me is a relative term. For people like RK it's a big deal.. While for some including me, we say sorry at the drop of a hat.. So we need to go by his actions.. His actions tell us tat he doesn't want to let her go, wants to start things afresh. He realizes what he did was wrong, but doesn't realize the extent of damage he has done. If he is not taught a lesson, he might continue with his absurdities. And I saw him making a genuine effort.. Furthermore, Madhu has the essence of his true feelings for her.

As I have always maintained, that both of them are totally obsessed and invested into each other.. They will never be happy without each other..

Now, in all this revenge fiasco, Madhu's self-respect was the one that was crushed. Fortunately, the ball is in her court now. She has 2 options to restore her dignity..

A) refuse to forgive him, let him burn in the agony of his actions, burn herself in the agony of staying away from his love, but at least she made him pay for his misdoings, or

B) forgive him for whatever he did, live like a queen in his house with a monopoly on his heart.. This makes him happy and feeds her ego that the man who once rejected her is now wrapped around her finger..

I personally would go with option 2, but then Madhu is the one who was wronged and she should be the one to decide..

everyone's always expected for this to happen, we knew he was going to regret it down the line and would want to make amends, and now that the time's finally come i see no problem with her giving him a second chance. I wouldn't know about anyone else but when i say "second chance" i'm not exactly hoping to see romantic eye locks between them, i want him to repent for a very very long time before she even decides its okay to be semi-formal with the guy. sure he's going about his apology the wrong way but that seems to stem from inexperience more than lack of trying, i'd prefer to see him suffering with guilt over what he did then watch him be angsty if she decides not to give him his chance. maybe if one of them wasn't so invested in the other it wouldn't matter, but these two seemed to have made up their minds about being in love exclusively for life; if it's a choice between a chance at being happy together again and the guarantee of being miserable apart i definitely think the first is the better option.

Originally posted by: DushtDanaf.

everyone's always expected for this to happen, we knew he was going to regret it down the line and would want to make amends, and now that the time's finally come i see no problem with her giving him a second chance. I wouldn't know about anyone else but when i say "second chance" i'm not exactly hoping to see romantic eye locks between them, i want him to repent for a very very long time before she even decides its okay to be semi-formal with the guy. sure he's going about his apology the wrong way but that seems to stem from iexperience more than lack of trying, i'd prefer to see him suffering with guilt over what he did then watch him be angsty if she decides not to give him his chance. maybe if one of them wasn't so invested in the other it wouldn't matter, but these two seemed to have made up their minds about being in love exclusively for life; if it's a choice between a chance at being happy together again and the guarantee of being miserable apart i definitely think the first is the better option.

Originally posted by: afghangirl

actually what lesson should Madhu teach RK? of course he should realise how much he hurted her but i think that perhaps by teaching him a lesson she would drive herself more away him.

i would like the idea of Madhu telling him how she exatly suffered,i mean she should make him feel the pain by telling him how she felt when she removed the mangulsutra.

Yeah I liked your point of view but what if this was another twist of CVs..I mean, like seriously even I cannot trust him now...but I also understand that without giving somebody a chance to prove themselves, how are we to know if its real this time or not...

I believe in second chances but a second chance is the last and final chance. Everyone deserves a second chance even our cute and adorable Right Kameena

@cardio21
agree. Even my sister said today that Sultan is getting on her nerve.
This post is more a question to myself as i look at these things and think what would i do in which situation.

I do not mind RK getting a second chance - but I do not want Madhu to give him a second look, forget a second chance especially now - looking at the way he is treating her as if nothing ever happened between them! 😡

Generally speaking, I would say pple deserve a second chance if they genuinely regret their actions. But in RK's case I don't know if he's being sincere. All I see is arrogance. And ultimately it is up to the person you have wronged to forgive you. RK is forcing himself on Madhu, expecting her to do so. That's not right.