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afghangirl

@afghangirl

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Posted: 12 years ago

i have a question in my mind since many days.

do you think giving someone a second chance is wrong?

actually i just watched MB and was thinking what MB would have been answered if Sultan wouldnt have interrupt them.

actually i think Madhu should give RK a chance but in a way he realise how much he hurted her. Only this way both learn to trust each other again.And i dont think RK would repeat his mistake.

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Princess DD

@Amoureux

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Posted: 12 years ago

That's exactly the point...

Right now RK is not genuinely asking for a chance... He is forcing Madhu to give him chance... And manipulating her... As it is as shown he gets his way around with words

A chance to repent has to be earned. Specially after the way he hurt Madhu! He has still NOT realized the extent to which he has damaged a heart! And looking by the way he is taking things so easily, it seems he just does not want to repent, rather forcefully get Madhu's Maafi...

Does it from any angel look like a genuine attempt to be sorry! Does he even feel a bit guilty for what he has done? no because has not realized yet! The day he realizes, that would be the day his actual redemption starts...

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naina2010

@naina2010

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Posted: 12 years ago

disagree 👎🏼

Edited by naina2010 - 12 years ago

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RSP04

@RSP04

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Azmatazz
That's exactly the point...

Right now RK is not genuinely asking for a chance... He is forcing Madhu to give him chance... And manipulating her... As it is as shown he gets his way around with words

A chance to repent has to be earned. Specially after the way he hurt Madhu! He has still NOT realized the extent to which he has damaged a heart! And looking by the way he is taking things so easily, it seems he just does not want to repent, rather forcefully get Madhu's Maafi...

Does it from any angel look like a genuine attempt to be sorry! Does he even feel a bit guilty for what he has done? no because has not realized yet! The day he realizes, that would be the day his actual redemption starts...

Agree Azmi

He just manipulated her with her own words... Then why he did not forgive her for the 4 slaps..

He really needs to work hard ..

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Posted: 12 years ago

it tks time for wounds to heal

n by showering us with HUM HAIN DEEWAANE wont heal the betrayal

i can say it coz i myself was a crazy rishbala fan nad wont mind if they end up 2gthr

BUT PLZ NOT NOW

the tune which gave me goosebumps doesnt hv the same effect on me coz i m still not prepared to see rk madhu romancing each othr forgetting all

giving a 2nd chance is a good thing

but there is a right time for it...also the fact how big the issue was also matter

madhu did forgive rk for what he did to mallik and did give a 2nd chance to him already by luving him blindly

its the 2nd time rk broke his heart

nd it wud b the 3rd tym he is asking her to give him a chance

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cardio21

@cardio21

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Posted: 12 years ago

I think people do deserve a second chance.. But this one needs more work on his part.. I think Madhu should bring up each day of her suffering not as in pleading with him but in relaying to him the impact of his actions..

Apology for me is a relative term. For people like RK it's a big deal.. While for some including me, we say sorry at the drop of a hat.. So we need to go by his actions.. His actions tell us tat he doesn't want to let her go, wants to start things afresh. He realizes what he did was wrong, but doesn't realize the extent of damage he has done. If he is not taught a lesson, he might continue with his absurdities. And I saw him making a genuine effort.. Furthermore, Madhu has the essence of his true feelings for her.

As I have always maintained, that both of them are totally obsessed and invested into each other.. They will never be happy without each other..

Now, in all this revenge fiasco, Madhu's self-respect was the one that was crushed. Fortunately, the ball is in her court now. She has 2 options to restore her dignity..

A) refuse to forgive him, let him burn in the agony of his actions, burn herself in the agony of staying away from his love, but at least she made him pay for his misdoings, or

B) forgive him for whatever he did, live like a queen in his house with a monopoly on his heart.. This makes him happy and feeds her ego that the man who once rejected her is now wrapped around her finger..

I personally would go with option 2, but then Madhu is the one who was wronged and she should be the one to decide.. But its still too early for option 2.. RK needs to work harder on this..

Edited by cardio21 - 12 years ago

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Princess DD

@Amoureux

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: reenap

Agree Azmi

He just manipulated her with her own words... Then why he did not forgive her for the 4 slaps..

He really needs to work hard ..

Exactly the question one is bound to raise...

He learnt to patch up with his mom and understand her cause of Madhu, since Madhu thought him to forgive and forget, He agreed and accepted his dad's death since Madhu thought him to forget, forgive and move ahead... Yet he did not forget the 4 slaps and forgive the same Madhu who thought him to forget and forgive for those 4 slaps... and now nor is he moving ahead and nor is he letting her move ahead...

RK has been plain manipulative in the episode today...

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RSP04

@RSP04

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Azmatazz

Exactly the question one is bound to raise...

He learnt to patch up with his mom and understand her cause of Madhu, since Madhu thought him to forgive and forget, He agreed and accepted his dad's death since Madhu thought him to forget, forgive and move ahead... Yet he did not forget the 4 slaps and forgive the same Madhu who thought him to forget and forgive for those 4 slaps... and now nor is he moving ahead and nor is he letting her move ahead...

RK has been plain manipulative in the episode today...

Agree Azmi.. true indeed... Hopefully madhu wont melt so soon..I hope what Madhu said long time ago that she is a jockey and one day she will win this race,,,

Edited by reenap - 12 years ago

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Forever_Komal

@Forever_Komal

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Yes what he did was horrible but I think Madhu should give him a second chance where then Rk tries to win his biwi and her trust back by proving his love and himself to her. Which is going to take its good time.
But RK has started regretting what he did to her and She may not have to stay with him until she is ready and comfortable but yes I think he should get a second chance

Edited by Forever_Komal - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

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There is nothing wrong in giving a second chamce provided the person realises the extent of damage he/she has done and repents genuinely..
also they should be asking for forgiveness irespective of fact whether they believe they will be forgiven or not..an unconditional apology..

While RK may have realized he was wrong in what he did, I dont think the realises the extent to which he has damaged her (strictly my opinion)..he is trying to belittle all that happened by calling it nok-jhok and something that can be easily forgotten
somewhere he may be realising her importance but its still more about him..his decisions..

So I have no problems with second chances, provided its given once he truly realises the extent of damage he has done

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