Nandini , enough ..Warning Pg3

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Posted: 12 years ago
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So if shama says everyone is being rude to meera , how is it in offence to Nandini ?
If beeji is sitting there with meera , how is it in offence to nandini ?
Why is she whining so much ?
I understand she is hurt
But blame it on her luck or her husband
Just because meera is getting preference by Balraj , doesn't nandini know how Balraj is about his heir ?
No one is asking her to act civil with meera
Why is she making a big deal out of nothing
This is nandini 's house as anis wife
But this is also meera's house as the mother of ani's baby
If meera was bad , by now nandini would be out of the house on her insistence
But nandini is such a drama queen
Don't want to live here then don't
Why is she creating such an issue
It's her husbands fault
Not the baby's who she is dreading

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nandini is right in her own way...when she see's everyone around meera, it would obviously make her a bit isolated/alone, because she is carrying ani's baby.
Nandini has accepted that both her and meera were cheated on, but to see her presence in the house and everyone after her, she will obviously feel neglected, like the family members who loved her and cared for her don't need her anymore. she feels as if she is only an object on the house...and they only cared for her when she was pregnant...biji who loved her ...seeing her with meera stroking her hair, she feels as if meera has taken her position in the house...

Obviously i assume, a lot of us aren't married here, so we can't understand her pain...it's not an offence to nandini but it hurts her...

And for it being meera's house, it can't be meera's house...legally if someone is your girlfriend/boyfriend it can't be thier house...it is not her's but CAN be her child's house, but it isn't yet.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Its lookslike the time period with all happenings with Nandini is not more then 3-4 days then how do ppl expect her to get normal and act like nothing happend when her every right is being snatched from her and ppl around her giving more intention to other woman Its natural to feel isolated and unworthy among a family whom she loved like hers.

Hope she realise soon that she has to live for herself and her dad and not to bother about anyonelse.

Wishing to see Nandini giving back to asthanas very soon as she had enough.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nandini is legally wife of ani even Balraj cant kick her out as per law she still have rights as widow BUT meera cant even think of any right but yes her child can.So goodness of meera in this matter dont even arise.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rhtpkcm

Nandini is right in her own way...when she see's everyone around meera, it would obviously make her a bit isolated/alone, because she is carrying ani's baby.

Nandini has accepted that both her and meera were cheated on, but to see her presence in the house and everyone after her, she will obviously feel neglected, like the family members who loved her and cared for her don't need her anymore. she feels as if she is only an object on the house...and they only cared for her when she was pregnant...biji who loved her ...seeing her with meera stroking her hair, she feels as if meera has taken her position in the house...

Obviously i assume, a lot of us aren't married here, so we can't understand her pain...it's not an offence to nandini but it hurts her...

And for it being meera's house, it can't be meera's house...legally if someone is your girlfriend/boyfriend it can't be thier house...it is not her's but CAN be her child's house, but it isn't yet.



Why did everyone swear at meera the other day ? For nandini , not for anyone else
Everyone cursed at meera , for nandini
Everyone is worried about her
Now is shama says the treatment meera is getting is unfair
It should not hurt nandini
Meera was leaving , nandini bought her here
And isn't it natural to want the baby of the dead brother /Son
Who is nandini mourning for ? The husband who cheated her
Why is she leaving her house , the house that has all her memories
No I am not saying she should go embrace meera
All I am saying is she should stop reacting so much to every little thing that goes around
Doesn't she know the rule of this house ?
No one speaks above Balraj
Balraj is making her stay hence she is staying
Nandini should get a grip on herself , she should know better than to whine
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger , so if she is alive she should be strong
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Some people in the house are obviously nice like shyama, akhil, beeji etc...they want to care equally for every person...but nandini has been living in the house for ages, so she will automatically feel like everything that was once hers is being given to meera...and the only reason because she is going to give birth to ani's child. Also the pain of her miscarriage is still thier...it won't fade away quickly.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -prime-

Nandini is legally wife of ani even Balraj cant kick her out as per law she still have rights as widow BUT meera cant even think of any right but yes her child can.So good of meera in this matter dont even arise.



No I am sorry , if the house isn't in ani's name .. Only on balraj's .. Balraj can kick out whoever he wants to
Meera's baby has rights to anirudh's properties , his family
And even they have right on the baby
Meera may not have the right of anis widow
But she has the right of being the mother of his child
Whatever is anirudh's will go to his baby
That way meera is entitled to everything Ani has too

Speaking from personal experience
The children of the deceased have more rights than the widow without no child
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rhtpkcm

Some people in the house are obviously nice like shyama, akhil, beeji etc...they want to care equally for every person...but nandini has been living in the house for ages, so she will automatically feel like everything that was once hers is being given to meera...and the only reasonbecauseshe is going to give birth to ani's child. Also the pain of her miscarriage is still thier...it won't fade away quickly.



Doesn't she know her family enough to not judge them by what it seems
If no one cared about her
No one would ask her to stay
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird



Why did everyone swear at meera the other day ? For nandini , not for anyone else
Everyone cursed at meera , for nandini
Everyone is worried about her
Now is shama says the treatment meera is getting is unfair
It should not hurt nandini
Meera was leaving , nandini bought her here
And isn't it natural to want the baby of the dead brother /Son
Who is nandini mourning for ? The husband who cheated her
Why is she leaving her house , the house that has all her memories
No I am not saying she should go embrace meera
All I am saying is she should stop reacting so much to every little thing that goes around
Doesn't she know the rule of this house ?
No one speaks above Balraj
Balraj is making her stay hence she is staying
Nandini should get a grip on herself , she should know better than to whine
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger , so if she is alive she should be strong

But nandini didn't know then, and as for swearing at meera...they did that becuase of her being pregnant before marriage, living in an indian household...this would be extremely common.
and the fact that balraj is making her stay, as nupur said meera isn't an asthana, she can decline anything balraj says...but putting the 'flowers' on ani's picture, she could have said no but she didn't...meera is being materialistic here, she can have all the rights of nandini in a spur of a moment but nandini can't have ani's child...i think you're forgetting here nandini loved ani, and that love cannot fade whether he cheated on her or not, it will decrease but it can't go.

How many days has it been since the truth being revealed, do u expect nandini to blindly accept everything...she is human after all, she has feelings, she is trying to be strong, but meera's presence and her feeling isolated amidst everyone is not letting her. As nandini said meera was allowed to eat with everyone but nandini wasn't because she is a 'vidwa' the title is still there but where are the rights?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird



No I am sorry , if the house isn't in ani's name .. Only on balraj's .. Balraj can kick out whoever he wants to
Meera's baby has rights to anirudh's properties , his family
And even they have right on the baby
Meera may not have the right of anis widow
But she has the right of being the mother of his child
Whatever is anirudh's will go to his baby
That way meera is entitled to everything Ani has too

Speaking from personal experience
The children of the deceased have more rights than the widow without no child


Right NOW this house DOESNT even belong to Balraj ,there is still six month time ( leaving aside whose child nandini s or ani s with any otherwoman mystery out ).SO even Balraj cant chase Nandini out.

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