This is suppose to be romantic?

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annierahman20

@annierahman20

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Posted: 12 years ago

Hi guys, sorry if i offend anyone, but I regularly read the written updates on this show. I don't understand how this new track is romantic? He kidnaps Madhu and holds her against her will, handcuffs her and emotionally blackmails her...this seems more like an emotional torture...holding someone against their will is not romance...dont know what is wrong with the creatives...i wonder if this is how they romance their wives or pacify someone? RK can do whatever he pleases even if it means degrading a woman's self respect or making a joke out of marriage! and then claim it is a small tiff? RK need some psychiatric help, because in no way is this love when you insult, emotionally blackmail and force yourself on someone.

My friend had gone through a similar experience where her husband would do all of this and also beat her and then at the end of it all would blackmail her by saying that he would do bodily harm to himself if she doesn't come back to him, interestingly enough many do not see that this current track is a form of domestic violence, just because you don't physically harm someone doesn't mean that you are not hurting them. Also there are many woman who have been through this experience and am sure would not find this as a form of romance. I know its just a show but I think that if you want the guy and the girl to end up with each other and have a proper relationship, then the guy needs to plead and apologize and show that he is worthy of a second chance but not like this. Otherwise get someone else for MAdhu that would show her the respect that she deserves.

Just my opinion, sorry if I have offended anyone. Would anyone want a husband like this? I know I dont!

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Posted: 12 years ago

Great post! I don't understand how some ppl can actually find this entertaining! Atleast in Dil se Saugbhavtibava or what ever they admit he was mental. Here their glorifying it.

Edited by Gurtiluv - 12 years ago

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@vena.cava.

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Posted: 12 years ago

It's not romance my wonderful TM. It truly is not.

RK has been painted out to be a highly functioning sociopath. Kid you not!

1) Manipulative and Conning: They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims. Now where have we seen this? OH YEAH. Let's go back to the fact that Madhu is TRAPPED like an animal in his house. CHECK.

2) Grandiose Sense of Self: Feels entitled to certain things as "their right." -> "Tum pe sirf mera haq hai". CHECK.

3) Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt: A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way. RK's anger is at the drop of a coin when it comes to Madhu, she says or does something wrong that doesn't please him, and he behaves ridiculously with her. And she is a victim, in his cycle of abuse she is most definitely the victim. And to him the ends DO justify the means, it doesn't matter that Madhu is with him without her own will all that matters is that she is with him. CHECK.

The list goes on, but here were just a few things I wanted to share. No one wants to spend the rest of their lives with a person like this, it doesn't matter that you love that person, what matters is your own mental health and safety.

Credit goes to (x)

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@bhanu_rekhag

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Posted: 12 years ago

some one shared the same experience gone through by her acquaintance which was currently the track of madhu...such type of stories never have happy endings...but CVs r planning such worst track n also promising happy ending indirectly...or ST is sticking to his words b4 the beginning of the show of this being tragic story but may change as per the flow...

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Mahi78

@Mahi78

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nice post, this is not at all romantic, this is just an obsession of RK which he himself mentioned in the episode that she is his prized trophy and only his, so may me we should have patience and wait for Madhu's action and reaction, this can't go on for long and as advices by Padmaniji Madhu is not going to keep quite and it was also a hint from the CVs for us to have patience and watch for her reaction, so fingers crossed and hope they won't dissapoint us.👍🏼

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ninand

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Posted: 12 years ago

I agree with you. The most popular argument they put forth is that this should be treated different from reality- 'its just a show'

well, with that argument, why cannot Madhu be with Sultan? why shold his profession be a hindrance or a liability to any relationship he has? if its only a vivid romantic notion that has nothing to do with real life, and only with gratification , then why bring such points forth at all?

so yeh, loyal(read fanatic) fans will take every argument and twist it to in favor of the character(read actor).. there is no differentiating the actor from the character in most parts, for many here and thus, whatever is shown on the screen is not bad enough, or horrible enough, or abusive enough, or selfish enough to label RK , the sexy superstar as a wrong man. Nah, he has to be dark, but he's more prsitine clean than white. lol.. that's the loyal-fan mantra.

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ninand

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Gurtiluv
Great post! I don't understand how some ppl can actually find this entertaining! Atleast in Dil se Saugbhavtibava or what ever they admit he was mental. Here their glorifying it.

I think its the 'loyal fans' here who are glorifying it, not the show makers or the CVs.. I mean judging from madhu's reactions , she is not enjoying it one bit.. of course the track has only just begun and there remains much to be seen .. but..

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ninand

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I think its the 'loyal fans' here who are glorifying it, not the show makers or the CVs.. I mean judging from madhu's reactions , she is not enjoying it one bit.. of course the track has only just begun and there remains much to be seen .. but..</font>

But he is still the hero very much in love. So it's glorified.

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soapbubble

@soapbubble

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Posted: 12 years ago

Actually the CVs are not glorifying it - but fans are still hung up on 'Oh RK's so cool, so witty, so sexy' mantra.

We see from Madhu's reactions that this is intended to be very serious, very hurtful to her. I think they're setting RK up for a BIG FALL.

He's going to be miserable and we'll enjoy that.

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@bhanu_rekhag

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: ninand
I agree with you. The most popular argument they put forth is that this should be treated different from reality- 'its just a show'

well, with that argument, why cannot Madhu be with Sultan? why shold his profession be a hindrance or a liability to any relationship he has? if its only a vivid romantic notion that has nothing to do with real life, and only with gratification , then why bring such points forth at all?

so yeh, loyal(read fanatic) fans will take every argument and twist it to in favor of the character(read actor).. there is no differentiating the actor from the character in most parts, for many here and thus, whatever is shown on the screen is not bad enough, or horrible enough, or abusive enough, or selfish enough to label RK , the sexy superstar as a wrong man. Nah, he has to be dark, but he's more prsitine clean than white. lol.. that's the loyal-fan mantra.

when it comes to pairing madhu with sutlan everyone forgets their forced gyan of it being the show n hence no logics needed...but with RK n his notorious acts it's just a show n hence don't have to think or argue too much about the character n its entertainment...wow what a gr8 theory...

hats off...

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