Crisp Bytes SC - 12th April 13 - Page 3

Originally posted by: Infofan

Hello HI😃

I got caught up with errands so could not write earlier. I am exhausted so bear with me if I am incoherent.

I want to start with things I liked in today's episode.

Dukhba - a strong, well written character, holding the family together at the time of this crisis. She shares such a wonderful relationship with Gun. A loving, empathetic mother, loved what she told Kumud today ' "har koi apne man ka ek kona sirf apne liye bacha ke rakhta hai, jisme jhankne ka adhikaar kisoko nahi". Beautiful and so true. I also enjoyed her telling off Guman. Dukhba was amazing today.

VC ' hurt and angry yet wants Saras to stay on in the house. Father and son both let him down yet it does not lessen VC's affection for them. A man with a magnanimous heart.

Kumud's hair ' she did not pin up her bangs today😃. Some article today mentioned Samud 'sharing moments' next week. I am so ready to hear the full kuch naa kahe track, its been so long.

Kumari ' thanks to her, Samud will get an opportunity to spend time together again while planning VC-Gun's anniversary party.

I have mixed feelings about Dukhba's conversation with Saras. They were a bit contradictory. At one point she said he needs to leave so Kumud would not cry seeing a selfish, escapist around then asked how could he leave when VC is angry with Kumud due to him? Huh? What? One more time I see someone pack his bag and ask him to leave I will burst a blood vessel somewhere!

What is the exact problem here? His refusal to marry Kumud, the manner in which he refused her, them hiding it from VC for so long? How is his presence going to help mend Kumud's broken heart?

Everyone just assumed Saras was leaving from the conversation Kumari overheard. His conscience would not have allowed him to leave before he set things right between Kumud, Gun and VC. I thought Dukhba would have known that esp in light of her conversation with Gun where she says its hard to blame Saras after his selfless act of taking the blame of a crime committed by Yash. So her harsh words to him were to more to add drama!

Saras looked so much in pain when Guman was boasting how lovingly she raised him. My heart went out to him. VC, Gun, Dukhba know what kind of a mother Guman is and they have seen what a sorry excuse of a father LN has been even while Saraswati was alive. But Kumud has no clue. It would help her understand him and his decision a little better if she knew some of these facts. Yesterday Saras mentioned why he did not want to marry her and today he mentioned the lack of his father's love, inadvertently. Sadly both times Kumud did not catch on.

Gosh, Guman and her sis staying back in the haveli. I am not looking forward to that. Can she go back to Dubai ASAP please and do her vamp-giri from there?

Story did progress a little. I think everyone is getting impatient with all the sadness and lack of romance. Hang in there. There is some hope next week of happier times. Oh did I mention Kumud did not pin up her bangs and an article mentioned Samud will be spending time together next week😆

Originally posted by: Ujjval

Some questions are stil left unanswered like..
Were kumud's parents ready to marry her off to a guy(with so much emotional baggage/turmoil), without telling her anything about his past??

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Did they assume that he has inherited sanskaar of his mother?? (I mean COME ON!) At that tender age it is easy to get influenced especially if u grow up in the environment( with step mom from hell in the form of Gumaan) like Saras has. I don't get it!

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That said it gives them no right to question his love for Saraswati(or anyone for that matter). I agree with u, LNV should be kicked real hard for this mess. My heart goes out to this dude.. Which guy would fall on somebody's feet instead of snapping out, when they keep bashing u??

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By the way, i like ur posts... They are mostly logical, leading to discussions!

Thank you, and I love the way you have articulated this so well

And discussion and debate is the idea,

We love and enjoy the show, so lets not be passive viewers

Lets share our viewpoints

Originally posted by: arshicritic

Thank you, you are not incoherent, you are a thandi Hawa ka jhonka, with your positive logic - and the way you streamline things - love it

Originally posted by: mandygill

i agree, but that is how saras's characterization is, i saw the movie on you tube, even in the movie saras kept blaming himself for kumud's durdisha! i think everyone is frustrated and venting it out on each other, and Gumaan is trying to make things more complicated by playing her nasty tricks!
maybe none of the members of the house were prepared for the big gathering arranged by gumaan and then disclosing about saras's decision came as a big shock to everyone!

Originally posted by: arshicritic

Guman = besharam, so she doesn't bother with invitations

She is anyway convinced that now the haveli is hers

And blaming Saras for everything? Unfair.

I have a real problem with Dukhba

Her best friend died tragically

Left a small son, who was witness to the tragedy

His father was too busy to care

A stepmom arrived

Many years later, Dukhba meets the boy again

Ever since she met him, she has been flogging him with his dead moms sanskars

How on the earth is a boy responsible for all this?

He did not chose his parents

He did not chose the parenting style

Sanskars are not genetic, they are ingrained

So his mother did not think about him before taking the drastic step

But he a poor boy of 5 or so, is expected to remember all that his mom

May have told him and taught him

To be fair to Guman, she did raise him any which way

She is no longer a dancer, she is LNVs wife

But he is repeatedly being asked to prove himself

As his moms son and not guman's

He is the result of his circumstances

Guman, LNV., suicide, everything is a part of his personality

And Dukhba - downright insensitive and intolerant

YOU DO NOT QUESTION THE LOVE OF A CHILD FOR

A DEAD MOM ESP IF HE LOST HER AT A TENDER AGE

TO A TRAGEDY HE COULD NOT EVEN FATHOM

Phew rant over, I feel good now!

Originally posted by: kaadal

A long ranting, good for your health 😉 I agree with you and even I am not able to accept this characterisation. No kid will remember his mother's sanskar when he was hardly 5. He was brought up with Guman and LNV, so what ever that world is will affect his personality along with his mom's suicide. Actually DK should pamper him for the lost times rather than playing along with Guman, but I am happy atleast she supported him with Guniyal. I am not too much worried about Samud romance like many are, but can't agree on many things..so many.loose scripting which I didn't expect in SLB's show. Guman is besharam and I really wish she would go back to Dubai, but looks like the story will move only if she is there. I don't understand Saras behaviour to Kumud, he wants to stay away from her so as to not hurt her so why not go away, what is this drama of building a school and then he follows her everywhere. Why can't he make up his mind ? Too much confused characters in this show 😒