In all fairness, Shiv did warn Gauri..

If you guys recall, he never wanted to get married in the first place. No matter what his motive was, he told her point black that he was stuck and couldn't say no. So he asked her to walk away from the wedding. Perhaps he did so because he knew that Gauri was being taken advantage of, or because he did not want to ruin his own life by getting into a relationship that was not his choice, or perhaps he simply didn't want to get married. No matter what the reason, Gauri was warned to not get into the relationship..

So I don't see it being Shiv's fault behind all this. If it was, he wouldn't have told Gauri to walk away on the wedding when she was standing alone after she came to know that Shashank had run away. I don't see Shashank getting back with Gauri simply because he "CHOSE" to walk away.. If you truly love someone, you wouldn't leave them in lurch, especially when that someone is all set to get married to you! It can be argued that perhaps Shashank was blackmailed and for Gauri's sake, he turned his back on her.. But didn't he know that he was throwing Gauri into a web of deceit and pain by turning his back on her?? I don't know how this whole story is going to be twist around but bottom line remains:

Shiv did warn Gauri not to get married to him ahead of time!

Your thoughts & views?

Sana~

i aree wit you ... shiv did give her a signal to not get married wit him but she didnt agree nd went ahead wit the marriage,, perhaps this is the very reason why shicv hated gauri,, coz gauri cud've said no nd walked out of the marriage but she didnt do so nd thus shiv had to go through this forced marriage coz of her ..... but yes ur right the bottom line is: he did alert her =)

Thanks for replying.. Damn, there were 16 views and no reply so far..Glad to know someone's alive at least 😉

Sana~

Sana,

Yaar you wrote it in such a way that I have nothing else left to say! 👏... I completely agree. He did warn her. Perhaps it was the fact that he was warning her against falling prey to this plan but fate brought them together. She was destined to be his, "Ye Gauri sirf apne Shiv ki hai." (Sorry guys, I know I keep repeating the line, but it is... ~perfect~).

About Shashank, you're right again. If you love someone, you will do anything for them. Shashank left her waiting in the marriage alter... Shattered her dreams, hopes etc. Something a girl cherishes in her heart since childhood, the dream of a young man coming to her and sweeping her off her feet... He broke that dream. He broke her trust, her immense faith. Even if he had meaningful intentions, he is not worthy of her love. The relationship which she shares with Shiv is that of pain and sorrow. They say that such a relationship is the truest of all... If death couldn't tear SG apart, rather its essence brought them closer, then Shashank is nothing... Bring on the testing waters... They shall be washed away by the purity of unselfish love.

Cheers,
dc

now that i think about it.. you are quite right!!

shiv did tell gauri he didnt want to marry her..!! mmmmm.. i wonder which
turn will the serial take!

Originally posted by: desi chic

Sana,

Yaar you wrote it in such a way that I have nothing else left to say! 👏... I completely agree. He did warn her. Perhaps it was the fact that he was warning her against falling prey to this plan but fate brought them together. She was destined to be his, "Ye Gauri sirf apne Shiv ki hai." (Sorry guys, I know I keep repeating the line, but it is... ~perfect~).

About Shashank, you're right again. If you love someone, you will do anything for them. Shashank left her waiting in the marriage alter... Shattered her dreams, hopes etc. Something a girl cherishes in her heart since childhood, the dream of a young man coming to her and sweeping her off her feet... He broke that dream. He broke her trust, her immense faith. Even if he had meaningful intentions, he is not worthy of her love. The relationship which she shares with Shiv is that of pain and sorrow. They say that such a relationship is the truest of all... If death couldn't tear SG apart, rather its essence brought them closer, then Shashank is nothing... Bring on the testing waters... They shall be washed away by the purity of unselfish love.

Cheers,
dc

detto...u spoke my mind hun😊

[quote]Sana,

Yaar you wrote it in such a way that I have nothing else left to say! ... I completely agree. He did warn her. Perhaps it was the fact that he was warning her against falling prey to this plan but fate brought them together. She was destined to be his, "Ye Gauri sirf apne Shiv ki hai." (Sorry guys, I know I keep repeating the line, but it is... ~perfect~).

About Shashank, you're right again. If you love someone, you will do anything for them. Shashank left her waiting in the marriage alter... Shattered her dreams, hopes etc. Something a girl cherishes in her heart since childhood, the dream of a young man coming to her and sweeping her off her feet... He broke that dream. He broke her trust, her immense faith. Even if he had meaningful intentions, he is not worthy of her love. The relationship which she shares with Shiv is that of pain and sorrow. They say that such a relationship is the truest of all... If death couldn't tear SG apart, rather its essence brought them closer, then Shashank is nothing... Bring on the testing waters... They shall be washed away by the purity of unselfish love.

Cheers,
dc
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Dc, you make me wanna 😭 with your beautiful words. You articulate a girl's feelings so well (sniffles). Darn it, I'm billing you for all my $$ spent on the boxes of kleenex here 😆 . But coming to the point, you are absolutely right. It was after all Gauri's "karam" that she had to be Shiv's.. Hence, the name "Karam Apnaa Apnaa". I am absolutely thrilled of whatever transpired on that wedding day as I can't imagine Gauri being anybody else's. Whatever happen happened for a reason and Ekta's team better wrap up this Shashank drama within this week or else... 😡 U'll see Sana in a totally different light. C'mon, 4 weeks to go before Iqbal leaves, so we want more of Shiv-Gauri cutesy scenes than all the rona dhona. I want both of them to confess their love, period! Yes, I am greedy and I like it this way 😉

wowww....u said it so well tht i dont kno wt else to say...but i agree with u...

[quote]now that i think about it.. you are quite right!!

shiv did tell gauri he didnt want to marry her..!! mmmmm.. i wonder which
turn will the serial take! [/quote]

Lil_desi_godess: I bet Ekta will forget all about this and will turn it into a fiasca where Shiv would be blamed the most!!! After all, they need to drag the storyline ahead. But I'd hate that to happen! For the first time, I want Guari to accept Shiv as he is and show her faith in him without seeing a week worth of twists and turns.. But I realize that's not going to happen. 😕

Thanks KHJL & racho.. I'd love to hear a counter argument though 😉

Sana~