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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am new to the forum and I have never created a post before but since I have read so many wonderful and thoughtful responses on RK's behavior I could not stop myself from analyzing why he is doing whatever he is doing. I don't know how much of it will make sense but do comment and share your views 😃

Deep down RK knows the damage he has caused to Madhu is grave, (they did show RK having flaskback of the "un-wedding" night). He is certainly very much aware. Reality conflicts with his wishes. He wishes Madhu back in his life but after what he has done she will obviously not return to him, therefore he denies his mistakes, he has gone into this CRAZY DENIAL MODE, It's crazy that what he has done to Madhu is now just a "nok jhok". Like seriously?? 😕

RK is dealing with powerful emotions, he is not yet ready to accept that he is in love with Madhu. Neither does he accept his mistakes because he basically wants to erase that night. He is suppressing his emotions to the point where he is almost psychotic. Burying feelings is causing him to lose his composure , as we can witness with Mr. RK. Furthermore, he does not share his feelings with anyone which is even worse, because all he feels is bottled up in his mind. His denial is giving him hope that everything is going to be okay even though their relation has almost ended. RK is crumpled inside but his denial keeps him functioning.

If he accepts his mistakes than he will also have to accept that Madhu does not want to be with him (even if she loves him), and that he broke her into a million pieces and their relation will never ever be the same. Accepting means letting go, accepting his irrevocable mistakes basically means intolerable pain for him because then he will also have to accept that he has lost Madhu's trust and their relation is back to zero. I am not sure what the creators have in mind for RK's character but I assume he foresees his guilt for putting Madhu through tremendous pain but for some reason he does not want to blame himself because he is preventing himself from getting hurt, he is very much aware of his inhuman nature towards Madhu but he is denying it because of fear of losing Madhu.

If he further continues to deny the feelings he has for Madhu than he will live a little less everyday. His denial about his relationship with Madhu is driving him to take some psychotic measures seriously. RK we all love you but that's not how you win your love back beta!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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One thing that bugs me is that all the while he keeps asking Madhubala if she loves him, but he hasn't once confessed to her that HE loves her. He just assumes she already knows and that's that. He should've brought her home with the assurance that he's sorry and he loves her very much. Not scare her into confessing her feelings and then threaten self-injury if she ever leaves. But Right Kameena hai, kya kar sakte hain? Sab kuch tera he karega.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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wonderful analysis of RK! you said it right. he's definitely in a denial mode! when he wakes up he's going to realize he has lost out on his love n going to end up alone!
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Thank you so much, this forum is like a huge family 😆
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Originally posted by: DushtDanaf.

One thing that bugs me is that all the while he keeps asking Madhubala if she loves him, but he hasn't once confessed to her that HE loves her. He just assumes she already knows and that's that. He should've brought her home with the assurance that he's sorry and he loves her very much. Not scare her into confessing her feelings and then threaten self-injury if she ever leaves. But Right Kameena hai, kya kar sakte hain? Sab kuch tera he karega.


Yesss! Absolutely! He wants Madhu to confess her love towards him but he is not even close to saying or does he even realize it is love that he feels for Madhu. He knows she loves him but maybe he wants her to question him as well? " RK tum bhi pyar karte ho mujhse? " and ego se bhara RK will probably answer " mujhe kya pata tumhe maloom hona chaiye! "
RK is a little kid who has made an unforgivable blunder but is pretending to be innocent and completely denying facts, he is aware of the consequences (losing madhu) but is denying so that he does not lose her.
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Originally posted by: priyachand

wonderful analysis of RK! you said it right. he's definitely in a denial mode! when he wakes up he's going to realize he has lost out on his love n going to end up alone!


Yes thats why he is denying, poor RK! Just ask for forgiveness, let her go!

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