DOTW : Is Punar Vivah The Correct Solution ??

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Chitra_11

@Chitra_11

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: JulieD
@ chitsri65: Loved your post.

I just cannot understand why the rush for a pv. The decision should be SP's for when he is ready. He lost a wife he was married to for 30 yrs and I find it very unfair and selfish of Arti and Yash to go ahead and discuss SP's PV with the society.

Had SP expressed desire to remarry then I could have understood their decision but right now they are behaving ridiculous.
Yash himself worshipped Arpita for 4 yrs before agreeing to marry Aarti. Is he saying that his love for Arpita was more meaningful than SP's love for Gayatri?

Let's assume the society agrees for pv, how do they intend to make SP agree to it? How will Radha feel that SP is being forced to marry her?
As a matter of fact, SP and Radha's affair ended a long time ago. Is SP supposed to recall whatever lust he had for Radha and marry her now?

And the audacity of Yash and Aarti to not even discuss the pv with Pankaj and Prateek is unbelievable. If they want the happiness and unity of the family to stay in tact, then they need to treat everyone equally and stop dictating to the family and imposing their decisions on them

As far as if the PV should take place, then my answer is only when and if SP feels he wants another wife, he only should decide on who he wants to marry. After all, at his age, when will the time to sing songs and fall in love take place. He needs to choose the partner he wants for himself.
Suppose they discover that SP had another affair with a different woman, should SP marry her also?

Thanks dear and yes I too agree with u.

Hope CVs don't show ARYA forcing...allowing emotion to settle a bit and then take up the issue is the request to CVs...for I love this couple...ARYA.

By the way...I feel situation is going to turn different without ARYA involvement...PV will happen...due to circumstances..wait and watch !!

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preeti

@teletubby

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

story wise th PV makes sense n as this wil tie up all loose ends also!!but this maynot hav happened in real life,,,,but then such situation might not hav arose in real life...dat a second option is available n living under same roof!😆.

n yes arya pushing it thru widout consulting others fr their thoughts n wishes was a weird move...especially not bothering fr SP's views on th issue also!!

n also sooo soon after him getting widowered is a bit insentive considering his emotions r clear on this!😕

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farhana ahmed

@fahmed

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

the age should not matter to have pv. when u are in a certain age u need someone and that is what aarya wants for his father.

in todays episode they should women giving punishment for just pv. these women don't have a heart to understand anything at all. if they were widows then they would know how to feel alone.

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kalyas

@kalyas

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Not so soon... It is one of the hastiest move by Aarya. SP wife of 30 years have passed away... Give him that time to grief his wife's death... Let him come out of it.. Then comes loneliness and having a partner for life... Right now he is in the process of grieving...

PV can happen anytime... Why rush things so much now?

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celina30

@celina30

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

I have nothing against a PV for SP with Radha or with any other suitable woman. What I don't get is the rush to have this PV now, just a month after Gayatri's death. I find Aarti and Yash are being very pushy and unreasonable in their approach. To suggest such a thing to SP in front of the whole family and not discussing it with the family earlier was wrong.

Yash was married to Arpita for 4 years and he took more than 4 years to get over her death. Aarti was married to Prashant for a lesser time, yet she was not ready for remarriage when it happened. SP and Gayatri were married for 38 years...isn't one month too soon to be discussing his punar vivah?

PV can happen...age is no bar, but only when the people who are going to be married are ready for it. Yash and Aarti are pushing the idea down everyone's throats...they are not looking at it from anyone else's POV...only their POV matters.

I feel somewhere they are being influenced in their subconscious mind by the fact that the woman involved is Radha. I feel if it was any other random woman, they would not be so insistent and obstinate about it. I see some selfishness in this whole thing, though they themselves may not realize it and it is not their intent.

Also, it is very insensitive to lecture on SP's loneliness and need for companionship just a month after his wife died in front of Maya who has been widowed and alone without even children for 15 years! Yash and Aarti should have discussed with the P's and Dhi's first, let the idea sink in and then gradually taken it forward. What they are doing cannot be justified saying that their intentions are good.

I am repelled by this track and hope either it is over soon, or the PV is stalled for some reason and AarYa draw back from their "crusade"!!!

Hear hear...well said- every single point!

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celina30

@celina30

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: fahmed
the age should not matter to have pv. when u are in a certain age u need someone and that is what aarya wants for his father.
in todays episode they should women giving punishment for just pv. these women don't have a heart to understand anything at all. if they were widows then they would know how to feel alone.

Yes, but what about poor Bua? And regardless , Yash and Aarti should respects peoples feelings/opinions- and I dont mean just the Dad and Rads but the brothers' as well- they are behaving very rash and to see Aaarti in the car so happy about the remarriage without the blessings of the other members of the family, is a bit out of character

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@lovely_lady

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Honestly speaking, I think a PV in general is a great idea.

But the fact that its being decided only a month after Gayatri's death and that too without consulting other members of the house is ridiculous. I'm annoyed with how the track is going now. I feel like it could've been death with better.

And I'm the odd one out here but I don't like Radha's character. Like I've said before, she doesn't have a backbone. And in order to survive with SP and not get trampled by him, a woman would need a backbone. Gayatri, despite all her submissiveness to SP at times, had an insane backbone that made her a force to be reckoned with.

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