DOTW : Is Punar Vivah The Correct Solution ??

i think punar vivah is the correct decision

Talking to SP about his PV without talking to others - Not one of the wisest decision by Aarya. It would have been more appropriate to discuss with the other siblings and get their views on it as well...They should show a united front to support their father's remarriage if that is what they want...Or even if some of the siblings object, at least they can thrash it out first before presenting the idea to SP rather than bickering among themselves in front of SP when the other siblings find out Aarya's plan...Suggesting a remarriage is a big decision and not like suggesting to SP to have dinner!

Yes PV is the correct solution for SP and Radha❤️

Originally posted by: akui1984

Talking to SP about his PV without talking to others - Not one of the wisest decision by Aarya. It would have been more appropriate to discuss with the other siblings and get their views on it as well...They should show a united front to support their father's remarriage if that is what they want...Or even if some of the siblings object, at least they can thrash it out first before presenting the idea to SP rather than bickering among themselves in front of SP when the other siblings find out Aarya's plan...Suggesting a remarriage is a big decision and not like suggesting to SP to have dinner!

Talking to SP about his PV without talking to others just one month after G3 die - Not able to understand what is the urgency? Can one not grieve for his lost wife? I do not know how much time have to pass for it to be alright to bring up the topic of PV to SP but one month? Seriously...🤔

Will the PV happen - hope not so soon! eventually...maybe..

I dont agree with yash and aarti who r soadamant to get sp remarriage with radha within a month is very akward so it only shows that yash who was talking so much of love for arpita was just fake it seems that he forgot arpita within a month but due to society fear what might pply say he was just acting to mourn arpitas love due to which he thought that sp to might have forgotten g3ma and will be able to remarry radha with in a month PPl over here have gone over the board in prasing yash and aarti for getting sp pv with radha Now the question that disturb me is that would Yash and aarti had even thought of sp remarriage with radha if radha was not yash biological mother but akash, And why this two mahaan ppl yash and aarti never thought for bua marriage after all she is a childwidow, Many time I ve mentioned thatr yash and aarti are selfish ppl they just think about what benefits them and they do and impose their decision on others too by blackmailing or forcefully Here yash is illegitmate son and so aarti too is illegitimate bahu even sp gave the right of business and property to yash still in society at their back ppl will look down at them and this yash and aarti knows well and for which they r in hurry for the wedding, For yash it is easy to accept radha bec it is his biological mother but is it so easy for prateek and pankaj to accept her has their mother NO but still yash and aarti r forcing them to accept it And how could yash compare arpita dead with g3 Arpita was hiswife whereas G3 is a wife and a mother too Did palak payal accepted aarti though they were small in age and PP has grown up ppl and these yash and aarti wants them to accept it easily I dont think yash is missing g3 the way pankaj and prateek is missing bec somewhere in his mind he know he still has his own mother with him and bec of this he could enjoy holi happily with aarti whereas pankaj and prateek was missing g3 where they sharedtheir thought in sp room in front of g3 photo but yash was not there and was enjoying holi with aarti. Like how today aarti dictated terms with bua that ask srry to radha or face the consequence bec now all the property and busness is in name of yash and she might do such things in future too with prateek and pankaj if they will not follow her decission bec she knows whatever she says or do whether right or wrong yash will not tell her anything but he will blame or take up fight with others. If radha was akash biological mother than yash and aarti would not have agreed on pv bec with that they would have lost the control of sm and the busness

Originally posted by: ratnaprabhashri

I dont agree with yash and aarti who r soadamant to get sp remarriage with radha within a month is very akward so it only shows that yash who was talking so much of love for arpita was just fake it seems that he forgot arpita within a month but due to society fear what might pply say he was just acting to mourn arpitas love due to which he thought that sp to might have forgotten g3ma and will be able to remarry radha with in a month PPl over here have gone over the board in prasing yash and aarti for getting sp pv with radha Now the question that disturb me is that would Yash and aarti had even thought of sp remarriage with radha if radha was not yash biological mother but akash, And why this two mahaan ppl yash and aarti never thought for bua marriage after all she is a childwidow, Many time I ve mentioned thatr yash and aarti are selfish ppl they just think about what benefits them and they do and impose their decision on others too by blackmailing or forcefully Here yash is illegitmate son and so aarti too is illegitimate bahu even sp gave the right of business and property to yash still in society at their back ppl will look down at them and this yash and aarti knows well and for which they r in hurry for the wedding, For yash it is easy to accept radha bec it is his biological mother but is it so easy for prateek and pankaj to accept her has their mother NO but still yash and aarti r forcing them to accept it And how could yash compare arpita dead with g3 Arpita was hiswife whereas G3 is a wife and a mother too Did palak payal accepted aarti though they were small in age and PP has grown up ppl and these yash and aarti wants them to accept it easily I dont think yash is missing g3 the way pankaj and prateek is missing bec somewhere in his mind he know he still has his own mother with him and bec of this he could enjoy holi happily with aarti whereas pankaj and prateek was missing g3 where they sharedtheir thought in sp room in front of g3 photo but yash was not there and was enjoying holi with aarti. Like how today aarti dictated terms with bua that ask srry to radha or face the consequence bec now all the property and busness is in name of yash and she might do such things in future too with prateek and pankaj if they will not follow her decission bec she knows whatever she says or do whether right or wrong yash will not tell her anything but he will blame or take up fight with others. If radha was akash biological mother than yash and aarti would not have agreed on pv bec with that they would have lost the control of sm and the busness

this thread is to discuss about sp punar vivah...your justification is to show arya selfishness and the reason behind the punar vivah for their own benefit. ..ridicolous...pls define mahaan? If you say they mahaan then how can you say and potrait them so selfishly ...what is your frustation here??????


FOR me sudha pv is justifies...when you decided to have pv...then what is the matter with time...if you do it after six month, or year or a month it doesnt make any different...it is all individual perspective...varies from person to person...

yash i more attached with g3 and sp compare to pankaj and preteik...so what ever arya is doing is more to family benefit...they want sp happiness...i dont see arya has their hiden benefit out of audha pv...

i just wish cv hats off and bravo for bringing such a sensitive issue for lime light...no other would dare to do so...only mittal' can do this...phir ek or naya soch...

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The decision of PV is SP and Radha maa is CORRECT but the timing to talk to SP about it is TOTALLY WRONG… I mean, the man just suffered the loss of his wife with whom, he had spend 30 years of his life…. How can anyone think that he'll recover within a month…C'mon, that's impossible.

Even Yash took years to recover from Aprita's death, so I really don't think the time was good to talk about this issue. But the concept of remarriage is definitely worth appreciating, it's a big decision and yes, ARYA SHOULD HAVE TALKED TO OTHERS because talking to SP. I mean he HAS Pankaj, his elder brother with whom he should have discussed the issue, there was Vidhi bhabhi who should have known what's cooking in Arya's mind… so, yes, they should have talked to them.

And I would have loved to see if Aryan and others would have tried TOGETHER to get SP and Radha close to each other. They should have given time to at least get comfortable with each other. That would have been great to see how youngers are trying to give a new life to their parents, you know they plotting some meetings of SP and Radha, giving them time to be comfortable and after few moths they could have proposed the marriage. But, now, its too early to ask.

Really not happy with Arya's this rush in such decision

Punar Vivah can be a correct solution to a widow / widower if :::

- they don't have anyone of their own
- or children neglecting
- or daughter-in-laws ignoring or not concerned
- or grand children neglecting
- no more calling the shots...

...if any of these is the concern...then yes go for it...nothing wrong...BUT again..when you enjoy every happiness of the above...you still can go for PV but you have to give importance to the emotion of loss ( respect to the departed soulmate of 30 yrs ) and over a period of time to really look into the matter of need...( as the case of Yash - after 4 yrs ).

Coming to the decision of Arya...the lovable couple...am sorry to say.the decision taken was totally wrong and more so at the wrong time. If the same decision...if they had taken few months later...the suggestion would have been meaningful...a few incident here and there cannot be the decision of PV. How come they didn't respect Radha Ma's emotion - more so when she was dumped by the man who simply refused to acknowledge her ( Arti should have given a thought here ...afterall she too was dumped by prashant ) and any woman in her place will never ever agree ...here...I was very happy when Radha Ma told Arya that their decision for PV has put her in bad light.

Yash going ahead with the decision without taking his brothers into confidence was...I would say a bit arrogant. By giving him the responsibilities of the house doesn't mean...he or arya are the sole decision makers. They should equally give importance to brother's emotion afterall G3 were their Ma...their loss is not a month old yet. Yash POV...was right but again his PV took 4 years to agree to marry Arti...I understand age was on their side but here the grown up children are there who are very devoted...so his logic of argument satisfies not fully...give time and then allow things to fall in place...relationship grows and the need also grows...then PV will automatically happen without any 'brain works' from ARYA side.

A thought occurred dear - what after PV - if one dies suddenly- will they do another PV in the name of companionship? A beautiful concept should not become a mockery and so this question should be covered ...and that is the reason both the partners concerned should agree before taking the plunge.